My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?
If he really loves you, then he shouldnt make you do anything that would make you uncomfortable.
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what should u do when these two ppl like each other and one doesnt want 2 go out ???
Nothing. Don't force the relationship if both people aren't ready for it. It wouldnt be fair to either person.
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is it ok to wear abecrombie aeropostale'and old navy together if it matches my friends say no but i was wonderin
HELP,
~FaShIoN CrIsIs~:>
Sure!! Why not?? Your friends are weird lol Dont listen to them!!
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Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like?
No u shouldn't just settle for someone you dont like!! I was in the same situation a few weeks ago. I was kind of going out with this guy that I didn't really like but he liked me and everyone was telling me to go out with him even though he was older and more experienced. And then I decided that I didnt want to waste my time with someone i didnt truly like so I broke up with him.. and I am SO glad i did!!! I feel SO much better now!! So anyway the point is DONT SETTLE for anyone your not happy with!! Go with your instincts..do whatever makes you happy!
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(14/f) Okay, say I really want to see a rated R movie but my mom won't let me.. If I just go to like Walmart or Target to buy it, do they require you to be 17/have an I.D./have parental supervision? Thanks in advance.
no i dont think they ID u.. then again im not 100% sure
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well i weigh like 230 and im only 14 and i want to lose weight b4 high school cause of the formal plus i want to lose weight b4 my prom and prom is probably gonna b n may..well i need sum tips and stuff on how i can lose weight and how to eat right cause i have a eatn disorder to..i want to get over it..It Is driving me crazy. i want to get my belly button periced and stuff and wear a 2 peice during the summer and wear lil clothes not be fat
Sometimes being overweight is genetic b/c u have a slow metabolism and it would be really hard to get exactly to the perfect weight.. but you can try, here are some tips:
Make sure u dont starve urself!!! (when u starve urself, ur brain sends messages to ur body to store all its fat, b/c it thinks its gonna need it for energy!!) Make sure u eat 3 meals a day.. but make them healthy, low-fat, meals. Like veggies and fruits and stuff. For breakfast you could eat a bowl of cereal, like cheerios.. For lunch try a turkey sandwich (whole wheat bread).. for dinner you could eat some veggies and maybe like fish or chicken (not fried!! and dont eat the skin). Also grapefruit juice and green tea help speed up your metabolism so you could dry drinking a cup of either one every day.
As for exercise, they say u should be getting 20-30 minutes of exercise 3 days a week. But considering you are trying to lose a lot of weight, u need to exercise more. Maybe like 45 mins to an hour 5 days a week, or more. Run around your neighborhood, do sit-ups, push-ups, jump rope, play basketball, etc. A great way to exercise is to get a tredmill or something and do that in front of the TV. Just make sure u are working ur hardest and ur heartrate is fast the whole time. You should feel exhausted by the time you are done.
Do all of the above on a regular basis, and after 3-weeks it will all become a habit.
Whatever u do, i wouldnt suggest taking any weight-loss pills. You might get hooked on them, and then once u lose all the weight and come off the pills, u will most likely gain all the weight back.
Im sorry this was long, but i hope it helped!! And remember, your not going to lose the weight overnight! It might even take a few months or even years. Good luck!! :-)
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what are some good teen websites, safe, where you can meet people in your local areas? thanks in advance
www.buddypic.com im not sure how safe it is, but its free and easy
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im so shy and quiet sometimes, how do i get myself to be more outgoing around other people, i can get really like that sometimes, but only around my really good friends and stuff. i cant just be hyper around people i dont know, but i want to.
Im the same way sometimes. Just try to be friends with people who are outgoing and do most of the talking, then it will be easier for you to talk too. And you wont feel as much pressure to make conversation. Im really shy but for some reason i find that being friends with really loud, outgoing people is easiest and brings out the outgoing side in me. :-) hope i helped!
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ok so there is this one guy who i went out with last year but only for like 3 days cus what happened is he only asked me out cus he thought i was pretty and we had just met so we decided to jsut be friends, so this year we just seemed like friends, then suddenly he started like getting all over me and everything for like 2 weeks, now he is like ignoring me, what is he doing?
He may just be nervous around you because he is beginning to like you again. Or it may be that he doesnt want u to think that he likes u, even if he really DOES like u. A lot of times when a guy likes a girl he will ignore her and pretend not to like her.
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how do i make my biceps bigger? i lift waits all that time but they never seem to get any bigger. any tips on working out?
im not an expert or anything but this might help.. dont repeat the same excercise over and over.. make sure u do a bunch of different excercises that work out ur biceps.. and eat lots of protein
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i get horrible back pains, and all i can do is crack it, but sometimes it gets so stiff that it wont crack, any advice on how to crack it?
Sit on the floor with your legs staight in front of u. Cross your right leg over ur left leg, with ur foot on the ground next to ur knee. Then turn ur back looking over your right shoulder and it should crack. Then do the same thing but put your left leg over your right leg and turn ur back looking over your left shoulder. Be sure to keep ur butt on the ground and try to keep ur hips in place and turn ur lower back. If ur back wont crack, then u can atleast stretch it like that for a few seconds. You can also stretch out ur back by doing a "bridge." (put ur feet and hands on the ground and then push up, arching ur back with ur head off the ground and hold it for about 7 seconds) Sry if this was confusing but i hope it helps!!
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i got this friend and i've been lying to them for a long tym..and now they've caught me lying (and a really big one) that is..and now they made a vow to nvr talk to me again... what should i do?? i've tried apologizing!!
Well im sry but you shouldnt have lied in the first place. I guess all u can do is sincerely apologize, let them know how truly sorry you are. If that doesn't work, then im sorry, you might just have to let it go.
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i have a bad self esteem issue and i want to fix it. how do i convince myself that i am not fat and ugly? i really think i am, and i dont ever say anything about it, but my friends always call me pretty and stuff, i want to be confident in myslef.
Your physical appearrance really shouldnt matter.. its ur personality that counts because personality can change a person's whole perceptive. Like if u have a great personality, then guys will begin to believe that you are beautiful. Just act confident..tell yourself that you are confident and beautiful even if u dont believe it at first.. and eventually u will begin to BE confident. Maybe if u dont already, u could start to wear make up and do something cute with ur hair and wear clothes that make u look good. And I knw this has like nothing to do with ur looks but if u join a sport or a club at ur school u will gain self confidence because u will see that u can do things that u never thought u could do.. and u can BE what u never thought u could be.. Well i hope i helped good luck!
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
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It sounds like ur dad is just afraid of losing his little girl!! Maybe ur mom can talk some sense into him.
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ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more?
Talk to her on AIM a few times a day and talk to her on the fone atleast everyday.. maybe for a few hours or so. Also try ur best to see her every weekend.
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i have a 3 year old bichon frise, and he IS potty trained. when he was younger we would let him out like 10 times a day to pee. well all the sudden this year he's been peeing on the carpets like at least once a week. we're selling our house, so we got BRAND NEW CARPETS throughout the house, and he still keeps peeing on those! we even get the spray stuff to disguise the smell so he won't go back to the spot but he still does. my dad says if he pees in our new house we're giving him away! =( so how do i get him to stop? i suggested obedience school but they said no he's too old. how do we discipline him PLEASE help if you know about dogs.
no your dog is NOT too old! Take him to obedience school, thats what we did with our dog. What we do is we keep a choker collar on him (they dont actually hurt them) and keep a leash on the choker collar. Whenever he does something bad, we tug the leash and say a command, like "Get off" if he jumps up on someone or something like that. But the trick is to be persistant. Use the same punishment and command whenever he pees on the carpet. Keep repeating it every time he does something wrong and he will eventuall learn. It really works!! Hope i helped!! good luck!
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I'm starting to make a collage on my one wall, with like band pics and my concert tickets and all that. I don't have much stuff yet. All I have are my tickets, Taking Back Sunday picture, a Something Corporate picture, and a My Chemical Romance picture. Does anyone know any good magazines to get like full-size pictures of those types of bands? Or anywhere else, like internet addresses? Thanks so much!
Try People or TeenPeople. You can also go to Google IMages and just type in ur fav bands.
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Does anyone know any downloading things that you can download music on, I've downloaded everything and I always get mp3's and i hate em. I want something that doesn't download mp3's.
iTunes? im pretty sure its not mp3's.. then again it might be, i donno
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Does anybody know any good places to download music other than kazaa and limewire. I use to have limewire but my dad reformated my computer and it won't let me download it again. Any help is appreciated.
If u want free music u can use Windows Media Player or Realplayer but the quality isnt that great.. if u want good quality try iTunes, i have it and i love it but its 99 cents a song
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Ok, I have a choice between going to the movies, or going bowling... I totally can't decide! I am SO confused...
PLEASE HELP IT IS URGENT!!
Maybe u could go see a movie AND go bowling!!?? :-D
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