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Just tell him that your not ready and that you would like to take things to the next level when you feel ready tell him that you still love him but you want to take it slower
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Help my mates mum and my mum have fallen out and they had this big arguement and now im not allowed to sleepover at hers or shes not allowed to come to mine there spilling me and my friend stef away from me and she has been my best friend for 8 years and i miss her coming to mine i hardly get to see her at school eather because were in different classes help
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Why not get your mum and her mum together and make them sort out what happened and tell them that them fighting means that you to cant be friends because they wont allow you to go to hers or she coming to urs which makes you unhappy seen as how you have been friends for 8 years
if they dont make friends
tell then thats they cant make you to fall out and make you not see each other because its not right making you split up its there fight and the out come shouldnt be you splitting up
roxie
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My brother in law is living with me and my husband.
I don't mind that he's staying in our house. What I can't stand is that he is messy. He'll go into the kitchen and get something to eat and not put it away. He'll get a glass of juice and not wash his glass. Not only does he not wash it, but he leaves it on the kitchen table for me to do it.

What do you suggest I do?

well men are like that just talk to him about it
and if he doesnt argree and start helping around the house tell him he has to move ou if he doesnt start pulling his weight
roxie
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HI HI to all.
since i was 5/6 i get turned on wearing womens pantyhose. and when i see women in hose. Since then I've been buying and stealing hose and occasionally wear them and masterbate. what turns me on is that i think that they are uncomfortable to wear and why women still wear them. The thought of the discomfort when a women wears it just turns me on. and also the look and the feel also turns me on. Also the same as for bras. Then my fetish got into further depth by being in bondage while wearing hose and bra. Again seeing an image and also putting myself into it both turns me on. What I really can't figure out is that... I know i'm not gay cause I love girls. I've been dating constantly without a break since I was 14. Now i'm 29. I find my situation is affecting my life. I will get into to so deep sometimes I loose touch with the world and it scares me sometimes. Whats wrong with me??? Please some answers or advice

Sorry if too personal. but i'm just curious about women. I'm not trying a sex talk.
Can you tell me if you like to wear pantyhose.
to you think they are uncomfortable. what was the longest you've ever had them on. did you ever sleep with them on over night.
do you sleep with your bra on. do you find bra uncomfortable. do you take them off right when you get home . do you find the under wire uncomfortable.

I dont really no how to answer this question but ill have ago i think that your just trying things out
loads of girls at my school wear boxers
which is a bit odd but
thats your choice what you wear if you find then comfortable then they should be no harm
roxir
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Hi yes well i want a place where i can store all my photos do you no any?
xxhollyxx

www.webshots.com
www.picturetrail.com
sorry there the only 2 i no
but plz rate
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Hi roxie
i need your help im babysitting for 2 girls and a boy how do i keep them all carm and what games could i do?
plz help ill rat 5

Well you could play barbies with them and cars with the guys
you could put some films on to intertain them
you could give them colouring books which would keep them busy
loads really just go with it and you'll do well
roxie
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ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared

I dont think you sre pregnant, you could just be late on your period girls periods arnt always on time
roxie
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14/f i have trouble with cutting my self and i really dont kno what to do!!! any advice would be nice!

Hey listen, what ever is going on in your life you shouldnt be cutting your self people who cut them selves can see it as a release and they think it helps deal with all there problems but really it doesnt it just pushes them out of the way because cutting is more trouble. Talk to some one about it mabe a friend or a cousiller at school and try and work it out because i bet your a lovely girl and a great person.
Please do try stopping i no its hard but you have to try you could end up killing your self if you cut a vien and you could bleed to death.
I bet you have loads of friend and your life is very happy but mabe not
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luv roxie
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i just told one of my best friends kelly im bi and now she is acting weird around me. I imed her and shes like ummm hi and im like whats wrong and then she says well idk how to act around u anymore, and im really hurt, she treats me like im not wanted, not intentional, but it still hurts, what do i do be honest

You need to talk to her about it and tell her that it doesnt change the fact that shes your best friend and its still the same you just talk
to her thats the best you can do if she cant accept that your a bi thats her problem not yours you havent done anything wrong
roxie
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i bought this libgloss thing... and well it's labeled TEN as the brand... does that mean it stays on for 10 hours???
plz help! i rate high!

i dont think so it will just be the brand of lipgloss i dont think it would last up to 10 hours i dont think any lipgloss can do that
plz rate honestly
roxie
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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?

I think thats way to younge to get married its not even legal to get married over here at 14
I think shes is throwing her life away she has the rest of her life to worry about marriage and at 14 is way to young just support her its her choice
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roxie
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my hair is curly and i am so tired of having to deal with it.. i striaghten it and i am worried if i keep straightening it i will fry it .. i am wondering if any one has gotten a straight perm .. if you have,.. does it fry your hair? is it ok to get one if you have highlights? will is make your hair un-healthy... or softer? pleassee help!!

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Ive had my permed and then ive had it straigthen permently and it works but its a bit wavy not as curl as it was when i had it permed
it doesnt fry hair it just makes it dry for the first few days but then its fine but you might still need to use straighteners not every day just every so often.
mine costed about £50 so it might be alot more for yours because my was shoulder length hope everything goes ok if you do deside to have it done
roxie
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I haven't been catching up on the latest trends, so does anyone know what is "in" now as far as shoes,clothes, and accessories go?

Flat shoes like ballet shoes, skirts, funky tights and loads just go with what you thinks right
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roxie
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how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?

13-14 i think
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roxie
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Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ?

Dont give in to pressure, You cant have sex when your ready you dont have to do it when your friends want you to do if they ask just tell them your not ready and that its my life not urs and if they want to ruin there live thats there chosce
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i moved this summer and was really, really worried about not being able to make new friends. my friends said that i would make friends in no time, and i did. but last weekend, i called my freind, and when i said i had to go, she asks, "why?" and i told her that i was going over to my new friends house, and she got all huffy and mad. its like she doesnt want me to make friends! i dont get her! it is confusing me alot, so if anyone has any good advice, please tell me.

I rate 5s!

She's probably just worried that you're going to forget her just tell her that shes your best friend and no matter what happens between them that she will always be friends with her
but tell her that you need friends because shes lives futher away and you dont get to see her as much.
roxie
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well im 16 and started my periods when i was 13 and i havent told my mom yet!! (ive been gettin away with it through usin loadsa toilet paper n stealin pads off her n buyin them at school, if your wonderin). the thing is i cant tell her because shes really mean and honestly does hate me and wants to put me in care - she has told me herself that she only lets me stay here still cause she gets paid in child benefits. she would laugh at me if i told her...how do i tell her that i have started without her laughing?
please dont tell me she wont or shes been through it too or whatever because i know this woman and you dont. i know she will laugh its what she does.
besides shouldnt a good mom have asked her 16 yr old daughter if shes started her periods yet anyway??

Yes she should of asked you by now, Why dont you tell some one you think isnt going to laugh at you mabe your friends and also they could help you by giving you some pads and stuff
if your not ready to tell your mum then thats upto you, if she was a good mother she should understand and she should now be asking you why you havent started your periods
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this is prolly odd and gross but...
what is the best position to lie in when your on your period (like when ur asleep in bed) to stop leaks? forget pads and stuff, i oviously have them, but is it best to lie on your back or side or what to prevent leaks?

Laying on your stomach if that doesnt work lay at one side with your legs curled up it should work
hope ive helped
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roxie
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i've been going out with this boy for like 6 months now, but my friends want me to stop going out with him and they the ones who wanted me to go out with him in the first place.they say i'm spending to much time with him and i hardly get to see him.

I need advice

Why dont you spend time with both of them if there the ones that told you to go out with him they should respect that you have someone new and exiting that you love spending time with.
Mabe they are feeling a bit left out with you and him aways together why not reasure them that there just as important as he is or there even more important. Mabe your friends and you and him could all get together and sort the differences out and get them to see your boyfriend for who he is, if they told you to go for it before mabe they would feel more at ease if they we told they were special and nothing could replace them but your young and need more friends and boyfriends and really have a blast at life
roxie sorry its so long
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thank you
hope ive helped
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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)

Why not try a greeny/blue colour im having my room green and i cant wait try some yellow shades and oranges that should bring the green out and make everything else stand out
roxie
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