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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time
I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that
and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes
especially with parent child relationships
I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age
and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)
My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down
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Ok, this question is what i'd probally call an original.
its actually quite simple
a while back i was dating this black kid ( and i saw black bc this was a main problem )and he was freidns with my brother, and so he was over my house often, and my mother knew him
we started going out, things progressed, and my mother found out, she said things like he just wanted to get in my pants, hes a street kid, he doesnt' get good grades, and alot more things, but even though my motehr said she wasn't racist i felt she was ( she also said that my rep could get ruined )
i didn't really care what people thought bc i loved him, but eventually he moved away, and i had a rough time
main point : my mother ( finally ) bought me thongs in the summer 05 =]
i likeed thmm alot and everything, but my mother ''heard stores'' about me and him, and then one day she came in my room and took them..
at first i was confused, and i still am
she NEVER told me why she took them.which made me extremley pissed
its been MONTHs now, and i even asked for them back probally 2 months ago..and she said no!
it really pisses me off, its hard to explain
do you think theres a way to get my mother to give them back? its hard to konw bc i don't know why she took them
anything would be apprecited though
thanks in advance
i would be mad too. shes probally scared that you will grow up no lie.. mothers dont want their baby girls to grow up and wants them innocent and you forever. you have to explain to her that you made a mistake and your still her baby or your growing up and its part of life
like how do you know if your cherry is popped 15/f ok when i was like 4 i had too many bladder infections formt he ymca pool so i had like a tube stuck up my crotch and i wear tampons but like how do i know if its popped or not?
you dont unless you go to a doctor. tampons wont pop it and i doubt the tube did but idk. if your a dancer or gymnast or diver or something like that it prob was from that
Hello... I'm a girl of 18 and i'm really confuse... I don't know why no one ask me out.. Everyone says that i'm a pretty girl and would rather want to have my face and figure.. I think i'm pretty and also sexy.. I have 34 25 36 and
guys enjoy staring at me when they see me.. I also always caught my friends staring on my belly or breast.. I have long dark brown hair and sexy lips.. But hey, i dunno why no one asks me out.. Almost all of my friends have their lovelife and i have not, and i'm prettier than them honestly.. Guys love to hang out with me because they think that i'm a cool girl.. Actually i have more boyfriends than girlfriends.. My friends also say that i'm really kind, understanding and i can always make them laugh.. Whenever a friend ask me if i have a boyfriend or a suitor, when i say no, they wouldn't believe it... I really don't understand... I had boyfriends but no serious relationships, they just cheated on me.. I don't know what's wrong with me... And i also don't hear that someone has a crush on me or something. CAn you tell what's going on???
maybe because its your too caught up in yourself.. it really sounds like it. guys dont like divas and thats exactly what you sould like
I'm auditioning for a play soon. I need to tell them how I sing (ex. soprano, tenor etc.) If I have a range from G below Middle C to F 1.5 octaves above middle C, What do I tell them?
(Like which name?)
i think thats a soprano II or an alto.. they are like the same thing.. but im not exactly sure
Soo how do i no when theres TOO much love in the relationship? I mean ... Im kinda ready to take time off and spend a night by myself. I mean i spend everyday with my bf. It wasnt a problem till now?
Why am i feeling this way?
i think it depends on how far you are in your relationship.. unless you are at the point to where you are getting engaged or even after that you shouldnt spend everyday with him! besides the fact you will get bored faster it makes it harder for more excitement. maybe tell him that you need some girly time in your life too and you should maybe only see each other every other day or something along those lines
Okay, i started taking birth control pills about a month ago and i just got my first period while being on them.. it says it is supposed to make your cramps not as bad and a lighter period, mine is the complete opposite, i have horrible cramps and a heavier period.. is that bad? And i get like clumps of blood if you know what i mean.. it's weird.. does anyone know? if not i will call my doctor, but i wanted to see if anyone on here could help me out first..
thanks
that sounds normal.. especially if you had irregular periods before. just give it time. i would say if it happens the next 2 or 3 times to contact your doctor.. and you shouldnt really have cramps because birth control keeps you from ovulating and cramps usually mean you are ovulating.. thats why they are lighter.. maybe your dose isnt strong enough. like i send give it a few monthes then consult your doctor
I just started a construction type job and I am the youngest, the smallest, the least experienced, and one of only two women on the crew. I do not have the size or strength to do the heavier stuff so the other female and I do small jobs to make it easier for the men to do large jobs. I pull my weight and the boss is satisfied with me. But the guys are being awfully condescending, perhaps unintentionally, but still annoying. They do things like pat me on the head, arm or back and tell me what a "good little worker" I am. I really resent it, but I don't know how to tell them so without making them angry with me. Should I ignore them (the job only lasts for another few days) or tell them to quit somehow, and if I tell them to quit, how do I do that and still maintain good work relationships with them?
i know how you feel. your situation really seems like my life. out of all of my friends i am the smallest and weakest by far and i get "teased" alot about it. i just try to ignore it and laugh it off because i know they mean no harm and you should too. because if you flip on them they may take it to personal makeing you even more uncomfortable
I want to go on birth control but do not want to get my parents involoved, I am 16, if i go to my doctor will they keep it confidential if i ask them to or should i go to a clinic. I also want to get birth control properly, not just anything, something that fits me. Another thing is i heard that a pap test needs to be done after you have lost your virginity. Is this true? I would also like to get a pap test without involving my parents, is this possible since i will probably use my OHIP whihc my mother is ion control of. If i pay for it how much willl it be. Please help me i have been wondering about this for a while and cant put it off for any longer.??????
well unless you are over 18 your parents have to know that you are on birth control.. you cant go on it with out them.. and you have to tell them whether you are a virgin or not.. if you tell them they wont and cant tell your parents if they ask bit if you lie to the doctors something can go seriously wrong
I am strongly thinking about going on birth control, I would like to know if this effects me gettin pregnant in the future or any other serious risks. Please reply ??
it can.. it all depends.. never go on the birth control that only gives you like 3 periods a year.. that one carries the highest risk of not being able to get pregnant.. any all birth control increases your risk by 40% for like cervical cancer
I have a curious question. I know that there are different ways to get an abortion but i would like to know if anyway causes risks to future pregnancies and if so, which method of abortion causes the least risk.???
i think your risk is going to be the same for like them all.. well besides partial birth abortion.. that one prob carries the least risk because it doesnt invlove any drugs but that one is way to cruel? why would you give a child like that when its being delivered?
Is Europe bigger than Canada? Or the other way around? just wondering. Thank you for any response.
i believe canada is bigger...because of all of the islands
Ive been having a real problem latley. The last week I have gotten NO sleep. Its not that i stay up late or anything. I usually get ready for bed (meaning off the phone) at like 11. Then I'll just sit there for 3 hrs. Ive taken PMs but it still doesnt help. Someone PLEASE what can i do to get to sleep!! Its leaving me w/ migrains in the morning!
well doing stuff like talking on the phone causes you to stay up.. along with watching tv in the dark and stuff like that. try getting off the phone earlier and act like its like 11 when its really 9 so 3 hours later your getting to sleep and yet its still a decent time. also avoid food before bed and try getting ready for bed before you get on the phone so your kinda it like bed mood. also try any med that makes you sleepy.. even like allergy stuff. as long as you are taking the recommend dose and not using it for a long time you should be fine takin it withough needing it
I don't know what to do! I'm writing a research paper/persuasive essay on how schools should not use uniforms, and I can't find any resources! I googled it, no luck there. The outline is due tomorrow and I'm scared. Can anyone help me?!
hey that was my essay question i had to do as of yesterday but today i got a new one! anyways you dont need resources for that.. you have to know someone who as worn a uniform that could give you ideas.. or think about it yourself. why wouldnt you want to wear them.. they dont help with equallity, take away idividuality
if you are looking for stats try getting a group of friends together and asking them if they want uniforms or not. or even try a survey on here
btw did you try yahoo? you might get some results there.. try searching for like uniform polls and stuff like that or uniform stats
by any chance do you go to bphs?
Alright, Im 13 and a girl, I weigh 100 lbs, and I am about 5'6. My question is, am I overweight, underweight or average?
i would go for underweight because im 6 inches shorter than you and 15 pounds heavier than you although because of your age its hard to control your weight. i would say anwhere from like 100-130 pounds is just fine and you should be by the time you are like 16 or so atleast like 120... but for now you are fin.. just dont lose weight!
I used to be able to sing "okay" But then I became a cheerleader for 7 years and now I sound like a man when I sing. I'm afraid to sing in the car to the radio or when I'm goofing off with my friends because I hate my voice and no one else likes to hear it. Is there anyway to make my voice any better? I love singing but I hate my voice!
well really the only think you can do is voice lessons because you have been cheering so long. if you talk to your doctor they may be able to recommend you a med. that can help you vocal cords but changes arent good. alls you can do is practice!
Im 98 pounds, but Im small, too. Im about 5'0. So thats normal right? But, I feel like I look overweight. Everyone in my school makes fun of me (in a nice way?) and is like "omg, you get everything because your a stick." or they'll be like "did you eat today?" I eat ALL the time. But I feel like I look fat. When I look in the mirror, I see a pudgy face, big stomach and huge thighs. I dont know WHAT to do. Ive never acted on it but today in math (I was bored, lol) I pushed my tongue to a point below my moler. It made me throw up a little but i swallow & no one noticed. Then, when I got home I did it again. Im afraid of it spiraling into something more serious what do i do!?
i think your weight is perfect.. i only read the first line but i thought thats all i need. accually you could prob gain some pounds.. im just under 5'1 and im a 115 pounds and people still comment on how small i am. granted i think that i am a few years older that you but your at a fine weight. and dont throw up you have no need to! your perfect and im sure of it!
Doesn't matter who reads this, but girls would most likely know the answer.
A friend of mine told me that having sex on the 14th day after your period there's a greater chance of getting pregnant, and sometimes 2-3 days after that too. Is that true? If it is true, is that correct?
well def not.. because tech. there are only 2 days a month a girl can get pregnant and that varies from every girl and only doctors can tell you your 2 days and they arent always right. what you do is you like take they days in your cyle divide it by some number then add another number and that is like your most ferrtile day or whatever. but sperm can give in your for up to 1 week so basically you have like 9 days a month to get pregnant.. if any of that makes sense but i i think your most fertile days is like 4-6 days after your period because right after your period it takes about 4 days for the egg to go into your uterus.. but remeber it varies from person to person.. you can even still get preggo if your having sex while you have your period
currently im about 100 pounds and i have a sorta pudgy stomache..how can i lose that pudgyness by the beginning of feb with out doing sit ups or crunches or somethin like that? thanks
walk/run and eat healthier.. you only really good options are crunches and that but you dont want to do that.
hey does anyone know how to cover up a black eye completly? im a cheerleader with a black eye. i dont care if my mom and dad or lil bro see it. its my cheerleading coach i also have a compitition really close! so please help.
**sleepiesheep**
well you have to apply tons and tons of liquid and powder eyeliner. make up will do the trick but it will have to be heavy.. i wouldnt go to your couch like that because upclose you can really tell but tell her you got stuff for the comp you can wear. when is your comp.? black eyes depends on how bad they are are gone within a few days. even in a day or 2 the tend to clear up and lighten at least a little. just put alot of ice on it so that it heals atleast a little faster and will be easier to cover up
I REALLY want to be a model. Like, I've never wanted anything so much bebfore, in my life. I am 5'2 and a size 5 (short) in jeans. I weigh 115. I'm working on the weight, I'm trying to get down to a size 2. So I'm not asking about that. Is my height a problem? Because I'm a fan of Tyra Banks and watch her talk show. I went to that sight and in her "So you want to be a model" part, she said you have to be 5'9 to model. So is my 5'2 height going to restrict me from modeling? I'm a 13 year old girl and probably still growing.
yeah it is. i was a model for a while and im 5'1" and they told me right of the bat that i would not be about to do any kind of runway modeling because of my height. most runway models like tyra are about 5'9-5'11 and they are extremely strict about it. your height wont really restrict you just realize early that you will prob never get to be on a runway.. so you really wont get farther than just catalogs.. sorry!