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I WANT THEM BACK!
Ok, this question is what i'd probally call an original.
its actually quite simple
a while back i was dating this black kid ( and i saw black bc this was a main problem )and he was freidns with my brother, and so he was over my house often, and my mother knew him
we started going out, things progressed, and my mother found out, she said things like he just wanted to get in my pants, hes a street kid, he doesnt' get good grades, and alot more things, but even though my motehr said she wasn't racist i felt she was ( she also said that my rep could get ruined )
i didn't really care what people thought bc i loved him, but eventually he moved away, and i had a rough time
main point : my mother ( finally ) bought me thongs in the summer 05 =]
i likeed thmm alot and everything, but my mother ''heard stores'' about me and him, and then one day she came in my room and took them..
at first i was confused, and i still am
she NEVER told me why she took them.which made me extremley pissed
its been MONTHs now, and i even asked for them back probally 2 months ago..and she said no!
it really pisses me off, its hard to explain
do you think theres a way to get my mother to give them back? its hard to konw bc i don't know why she took them
anything would be apprecited though
thanks in advance
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I for one have to diagree with the person below me i mean my god! what mistake did you make? (going out with a black boy?)come on whats the problem with that? if my parnets found out i was dating a black guy they wouldn't give a shit what his color was they'd give a shit that i was going with a guy in general maybe if your mom dosn't want you dating in generel then i would probley understand. as for your thongs just get new ones unless your not working in that case i'd sneak in her room and look every where untill i found them then take em and where them for god sakes there just underwear! sorry for being blunt but seriously your mom cant seriously think by you wearing thongs that your gonna go and fuck black guys all the time!!
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i would be mad too. shes probally scared that you will grow up no lie.. mothers dont want their baby girls to grow up and wants them innocent and you forever. you have to explain to her that you made a mistake and your still her baby or your growing up and its part of life
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ok i would be pissed 2!! lol! but i would go up to her and somehow make her answer why she took them from you. because in my view thongs dont make any body different from people who dont wear them. its jsut what people like to wear. My point is get an answer from you mother and once you get one talk to her from there.
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Wow there was a lot of extraneous information in that...
Both you and your mother sound a bit immature. It's just some fucking underwear! 'Scuse the language, but mannn... why are both of you being so weird about it?
Just ask her why, and tell her it upset you especially because you are still so confused, and if she won't tell you why, then it's really beyond your control isn't it? Who cares if your mom took a bunch of your butt floss?? Get new ones and forget about it or stick with granny panties or something. It's not the end of the freakin' world...
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♥ Well ... the best thing to do is sit down with your mom and talk to her. I no its not easy but if you had a one on one convo with her, im sure she could explain why she took them. Also maybe you guys could arrange a time you could have them back. And earn ways for her to trust you more with future boyfriends. I sounds to me shes trying to protect her little girl and thats normal. You just have to work on your trust levels with eachother. Then sure enough you will get your thongs returned.
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Dear Mom Confused,
I get the feeling that your Mom took your panties away because she might think that thongs are a sexual choice of underwear. I dont know what you and your ex did; but I am guessing that it is sexual? Your Mom is not ready to hear that you are a sexual person or that you have grown up. Taking the thongs away probably made her feel in control and taking them away from you meant something to her, obviously. She might think that if she can take your thongs away then she can rid you of a sexual act. That is what I am guessing. You might want to have a personal talk with your Mom, depending how close the two of you are and tell her how you feel. You should also let her in on some things that are going on with you in your life. Expect her to have questions, if your not comfortable explaining, then tell her; but you might want to let her know some things. It might make her feel better to know that she is still apart of your life. Good luck and I hope you get your underwear back.
♥ Miss Moo
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thats really weird. why dont you try asking her why she took then away.. or just buy new ones
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