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Im 17 and this is really embarassing but, I havent had my period yet. I feel ashamed and worried that something is wrong ! Im a virgin, if that matters that much. Im so worried & i feel bad because I tell my friends I have it, and I even use pads hoping it will come. Whats wrong with me? I need to know what to do!

Nothing some girls dont start till very late on i was last in all my friends and i felt so left out but its nothing good about your period.
Go see a female doctor about it
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OKay...i am 15....I had my first period in Nov of 2004....and i started my period yesterday...this has never happend to me before...but...When i go pee...i bleed too....why is that???? like...i bleed more than i pee...and the blood is all gooey and chunky...i hope non of u think im weird...im just really nervous...because this has never happend to me before..
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Its very normal when you have pee its just that the blood is mixed with your pee which makes it all come out its very normal for it to be all gooey and chunky but if it gets to heavy go see doctors
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is it normal to every so often not have your period for a month? i have never had sex and im 14 thanks..

yes because lots of girls are irregular
its very normal
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you know how most ppl have tht friend who is always there for them and they can trust them no matter what..pretty much their best friend? well i dont have a best friend, i just a lot of friends and theres lots of times where i need someone like a bestfriend that will keep all my secrets but i dont have neone like that so wht should i do!?

Find a best friend mabe a friend thats close could be come a best friend
i have 2 best friends and i tell them everything
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I woke up this morning and i've had it all day and this monday i have to sing for a competition...wat are some good remedys for a sore throat and is it safe??

Lemon and honey throat sweets and just stay in bed and drink hot drinks


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Do you think it would be ok for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? he's really responsible.

I think that would be ok as long as your resposible, make sure you understand each other.
Because people think that 3years between teenagers is a bit deal but i dont think so go for it
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Okay so this guy and I have been going out on and off sine october and I loved him more than life itself yet he never really loved me. Well about a month ago he started to actually love me and I could tell. We went out for a little over a week and then I broke up w/ him. (normally he broke up w/ me.) I did it cuz 1.) I liked another guy who also liked me. And 2.) I think he loved me too much and was kinda corny. Well anyways, everyone thinks I should go out w/ the 2nd guy and I really like him and have for a while. I dont think I like the 1st guy yet I can't stop thinking about him. I am so confused. Which guy do I go with? Both like me!

Who every you feel the most connected to go with them, because your young and should be able to go out with different types of guy you feel that way about the 1st guy because you still have feelings for him and feel like you have let him down some how. I think you should go with who ever you seem to be more connected to
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What does two stepping mean?

Its a type of dance movement

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ok, my mom an dad have been fighting for like ever.they always swear at each other an stuff.my dad drove away a couple days ago to get away from my mom.thank god he came home.im afraid they r gonna get devorced.i need advice!!! wat shud i do???

sighned,
xxjewlsxx224

Sit them both down and tell them to sort it out between them and get all the secrets out sometimes couples spilt up because its for the best and they stop loving each other
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anyone know any sites i can download free music at if you do please help me thx!

Why not download kazaa lite k++ this is so that you can just down load any music at any time there is also
winMX just search them in google
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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!

Feelings from the inside out,

Jess P.S- I rate HIGH!

Talk to tell her that your no longer a baby and dont always need protecting from everything and that you apreciate everything shes done for you but its time you looked after your self for a change
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ii havent got my period for the month of february n i was supposed to get it around february 24th n i didnt! what does this mean ii mean i just satrted november 2004

You have just missed a mouth its nothing serious most girls are late or miss a mouth
if it gets any worse go to the doctors my friend hasnt been on period for 4mouths but shes not pregnant
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see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat?

I think you should have a chat with your friend and tell her that he told you that he doesnt like her only as a friend and ask her if its ok that you go with him to a game. If she says no then shes obiously jelious of you
go for it girl
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I really like this guy whom Im friends with. Last night I let it out to him that I liked him and we talked and both admited that we had thought about whether or not we would work together once or twice. He told me that he would give me a chance. But I really kind of cornered him into it and feel horrible. I feel like I dont deserve it and though Ive talked to him about and he tells me he said hed give it a shot It still bothers me.

I think you should see how it goes with going out if he likes you and it works then you shouldnt feel bad but mabe secretly he wanted to go out with you but was shy to ask you. Dont keep apologising because he will probley get a bit mad with you just talk to him about it and tell him that its his choice if he wants to give it another go where as you really do ant to go ive a shot
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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?

If they start asking you try and change the conversation or walk away some where until they have finished talking i dont think you should be ashamed about how many boyfriends you have had just tell them you dont no how many you have had
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One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?

---TinkerBelle---

Well if its bothering you just tell her that shes a bit flirts and that she cant just have every guy she likes but tell her gentally
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ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!!

If you liked him in that way you shouldnt have fallen out with him unless you feel like you just want to be friends talk to him about it and say your sorry that you broke up with him you just need some time to think things through
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Hey,

I used to have 5 stars that people rated me then someone rated me a 3 now i have no stars at all...Does anyone know what happend? Thanks

Hiya your ratings go down.i dotn know why they just do!

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ok i have this friend and she thinks she has the worst skin and really all that's bad is she's got kind of redish skin and a few spots of acne and its not TERRIBLY bad..but she thinks its really bad so she fricken LOADS on concealer..powder..foundation and all that junk and it takes her AT LEAST 20 min to do her make-up (meaning just the foundation n stuff) and it looks SO bad and people are now starting to talk about her and she just wears sooooo much foundation and idk how to tell her and its disgusting almost..what should i tell her??

I think you should tell her because if she ever finds out about people talking about her and that she wears so much foundation they she will probley blame you for not telling her.
Tell her that she doesnt need foundation
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Hi,
I was just putting in some new clean bedding for my rabbit and I reached into the hay bag and a very sharp bit of hay got stuck in my hand, about 3mm in. I pulled it out and it bled. I've washed it and put a plaster on but I was wondering if I can catch any kind of infection from that? It's clean hay and I've had my tetanus jab. Should I put antiseptic cream on? And now or when it's healed a little?

I think you'll be fine dont worry about it if it gets any worse go see the doctor
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