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does anyone know where they hire 14 year olds to work ??? i really need money and i dont know where to go who will hire me !
hey, they hire 14 year olds at the FYE arcade. i dont know if you have one where you live. also if you dont then theres always pushing carts at shaws. newspaper routes are an option too.
16/f
Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks.
hey, well im guessing he means "i less than three you". if he does then that means he loves you! because less than three is
HI Advicenators :)
Okay so i have to get my wisdom teeth out IN EXACTLY A MONTH my mom just told me today.(she just booked it) I am pretty much terrified right now! I dont know what to get..the "shot" or the "gas" id rly prefer the gas b.c i hate getting shots in my arm..eww it grosses me out! But can any of you tell me which is better (expirenced answers are probaley the best) I really need to know, and can you tell me how long it will hurt after, and will it hurt while in the process. Im so scared i think ill cry..Thankyou.
hey, well i got the gas. basicaly what it feels like is just like your high lol. everything looks like its moving and you laugh alot. it doesnt hurt tho. they just put a mask over your nose and let you breath the stuff in for a few minutes.
Im a 14 year old girl and im 147lbs and about 5'0 nd im trying to lose around 20lbs before febuary 20th because im going to florida and i want to look decent in a bathing suit so i dont feel self-concious.any suggestions on how i can do it? right now im running on my tredmill a mile a day and trying to watch what i eat but i dont see any results.any ideas?
hey, well you said your eating heathly so thats going in the right direction. maybe you could join a gym with a friend. i find that if you excerixe with a friend that you will get more done because you dont want to look weak in front of your friend. crunches are the most important thing. it will help you tone up.
My boyfriend wants to finger me. I don't really care if he does or not but I'm just nervous because I never got fingered before.
I shave down there but i don't shave the whole area I leave the middle. From a girl's point of view do you guys shave the whole thing and if yes, step by step direcions would be helpful.
Also where the thighs sorta begin (near the vagina area) should I shave that too? Please don't tell me "do whatever is comfortable for you".
hey, well i shave everything even the hair near my thighs. use skintimate shaving cream. get the kind in the blue bottle that says baby soft. also use a venus razor.
so heres the problem:
(i'm 14/f, if that helps) i have an older brother (he's about a year older) and he's beastly. He's crazy strong and to be honest, has anger issues. we get in arguments a lot, and he hits me, tackles me, and physically hurts me. When i fight back, i lose and get the crap beaten out of me. when i don't, i still get the crap beaten out of me.
and my mom can't control him either. he's too violent. My dad could, but he's never home. i really don't know what to do. i'm sick of getting beaten up for no reason and not being able to stop it. Suggestions??
hey, have your parents send him to anger management. also when he hits you tell your parents to punish him. that way he wont want to do it anymore.
ok,well this year im a 32A,first i want to ask,im 4"10, do you think 32A would be regular if im this short? (im 13) alsoo,about bathing suits....are there any bathing suits that enhance less-busty girls so i dont look compleatly akward in a bikini? acutally,what kind of bikini would be best for 32A girls? also where can i buy these? hah thanks...one more,(sorry) is it possible to go up a size within 5 months? thank you!!
hey, okay well your boobs could very well grow in 5 months. but im not sure about a whole size. it takes time. im 13/f also. im 5`0 and im about a 36A. try http://www.kohls.com also get bikinis with padded bras.
Okay...So I have a stomach and I want it gone - FLAT!! Any suggestions??
crunches.
where can i get really cute and CHEAP jeans???
and some stores with cute cheap clothes too?
hey, try this link.
http://www.alloy.com
Hi guys,
I'm sure you'll have a blast giving me advice.
So here is my problem.
I've been crazy about this guy for around three years now. At first, it was just a small thing but now it's huge. I know, as sad as it sounds, he's the first guy I've loved. He was in love with my 'former best friend' (I didn't fall out with her because of that reason, she left us.) Anyway, once that was over, we became... sort of mates. We argued constantly but for some reason, i still liked him... He found out and kind of stopped talking to me, but after a while once he thought i must be over him, he spoke to me again.
Basically, I'll get to now.
Three years later i'm still mad about him, but we're actually good friends. He calls me, we text all the time, (Even at really odd times, like 3am) We talk on the net. I've even invited him over to watch films (Which is a huge step) for us. I have never felt so odd in my life. There is something between my ribs and chest which feels like it wants to burst, it's making me laugh and smile but... I don't know what to do anymore, with any of it. Should I just feel lucky that we have such a good friendship (he's quite anti-social) or should I still try to be with him? If I stop trying, will he like me? What do I do?
Thanks,
Emma. X
hey, well theres either a love connection there or theres not. you cant control if he likes you, vice versa. i think you should keep hanging out and see what happens from there. dont choose a status yet. just wait it out.
I like two wondeful guys, they like me too. I really can't decide between them. If I could merge them to one person, I would call him mr.perfect! I can't make up my mind! What guy do you think sounds best?
Guy #1:
hot, brunett, goes to my class, popular, sensetive, confident (not really, just pretends to be), same humor as me, but don't have alot in commmon, lives in the city, globetrotter, short for a guy (but taller than me), looks up to his best friend, totally charmig and a smile to die for! Style: Trendy and casual
Guy #2:
hot, blond, goes to my best friends class (stil same school though), semi-popular within class, lack of confidence exept when it comes to music and sports, same humor, have alot in common (exact same music taste!), very tall, plays giutarr like a god, writes songs, down to earth, totall cutie and has puppy eyes. Style: punk/rock and casual
In order to make your desision on who might ound the best, a short description of me:
brunett,exentric, talkative, cute, weirdo, playful, could be serious when needed, have a history of BAD X-es, (don't wanna sound ego but-) popular, can hang out with anyone, very nery intrests though (like starwars, battlestargalactica and chemistry). Style:Chic and laidback
There, descripetions of my to guys and me. Which one sounds best? PPLEASE HELP! Guy#1 or Guy#2??? Because I'm clueless, I really can't decide, I like them both in different ways!
please help me!
hey, well they both sound great which is a problem. i would ask each one out on a date. if your not confident or you dont feel comfortable with just a one on one date, invite your friend and some guy she likes. whatever one you connect with better is the one i would go for.
14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him
hey, well im glad you know that you cant make someone like you. thats the problem wiht most of these girls that ask questions on this site. well find another love. go out and meet other guys. hopefully youll hit it off with one of them and who knows what could come out of that.
There's this guy that I REALLY like. He's sweet, sensitive, funny, kind of shy, and really cute. But he's not like every other guy. He has different opinions on things and he isn't afraid to express his views. I'm so attracted to him...and one day I told him how I felt.
He said he didn't like me yet, and that for now him and I should be friends.
But, in a way, he returned his feelings. How will I know when he feels exactly the same way as I do?
hey, well if hes saying that he just wants to be friends for right now that could mean to things. either a) he doesnt see you in thay way at all and could never picture having a relationship with you or b) he wants to get to know you better before he makes a commitment. to figure out which one it is stay in contact with him. on the phone, on aim, and in person. if your hitting it off ask him to go out on a date.
I have pale skin, usually. It isn't scary pale, its more like ivory, but when I'm in fluerescent (spelling?) lighting, I look really...sickly? It just doesn't look good. I look like a vampire, and I obviously don't like it. Plus, the entire school has fluerescent lighting, and I definitely don't want to look bad at school. My question is, is there anything I can do (makeup trick, etc) that won't make me look washed out? Thanks =]
hey, use a bronser(sp?).
I am 17 and I met this guy at a bar. He is 21 and I just wonder if other people think that is too old for me. Should I go out with him again? We exchanged phone numbers and we have talked on the phone. Any and all responses are appreciated.
hey, you shouldnt care what other people think. you should be concentrated on what you think is right for you and what feels right. i would call him and see how everything goes. then if you hit it off, go out with him on a date.
I really like this guy! he asked me out today adn i said yes! Things are going great! ((im 13/f by the way)) I'm sorat shy but i want to hold his hand nd stuf but i feel like mayb he is shy to. I dont want to have to make the first move so what do i do? i want to hld his hand but i dont think i should have to make the first move.... HELP!?
hey, well theres nothing wrong with girls making the first move. some guys actually get turned on by it. just let him know that he can be comfortable around you and open up to you. its going to take time for him to come out of his shell so just try to be patient with him.
So me and this guy have been going out for 3 months now, and we're 16. So when we're talking online, he tells me all these sweet things like how pretty i am, and how much he misses me, and stuff like that. But when we're in person, he doesnt talk about that kind of stuff. Ive asked him about it (on AIM), and he says hes just so shy. I dont know what to do to make him less shy, so he can talk about that type of thing in person. Any advice? Thanks.
hey, well theres nothing you can do about shy guys. they just need time to come out of there shells. just let him know that he can be open to you and whatever he says your not going to laugh at. let him know that he can be as comfortable around you as he wants.
My tampons always leak. When I take it out, there is almost not blood on it! How did it manage to leak if it never soaked anything up? What can I do?
hey, well try wearing a pad with the tampon. that way if it decides to leak it wont go through your clothes.
I used to/sort of still do have bad acne, but im under dermatological treatment and stuff. the stuff theyre giving me is working i think, but very slowly. ive noticed parts of my face are smooth but they appear to still have pimples, which i figured were scars
so my question, how do i get rid of acne scars without making my face break out more
hey, proactive solution is acutally a medicine to get rid of acne scars and do prevent anymore further break outs. its kind of expensive tho. i think its well worth what you pay for.
i'm 5"3 and 118 pounds.
is this too heavy? honesty, please.
also, im a bit lazy. but i want to start excersising and toning my arms, stomach, and thighs. does anyone know of any specific workouts or specific excersise plans that i can try at home
thanks!
hey, well at 5`0 your suppose to be 100 pounds. as you go up you add on 5 pounds everytime. so 5`1 = 105, 5`2 = 110, and 5`3 = 115. so your only 3 pounds over weight =]. just eat heathier and do crunches to tone yourself up a bit.