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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.


My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships


I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age


and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

advice

how do you know if you like some body?

its one of those things that you just do.. you cant describe it and they wont get out of your mind

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i just got my period i take a bath soon i know that you have to take your pad off but how does the blood stop coming out if u take a bath or a shower. explain them both to me fast and i will right all 5s if u hurry

you cant stop it.. you can prevent it buy wearing a tampon while you bathe but its fine if it comes out while you bathe.. its accually better for you that way.

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hi i have been getting sticky white stuff down there and in my under wear. what is it and how do i get it to go away.i rate high

its discharge and its normal and you cant get rid of it.. as long as its clear or whitish and doesnt smell weird its totally okay. you can buy "mini" pads that help with the discharge

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what is dishcharge ive never new i will rate high

most girls get it either right before or right after their period. as long as you are healthy it is clear and normal.. but if it is a funny color or smells funny then that is a sign that you could have a serious std

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I haven't yet had sex with my boyfriend. He has told me that he hasn't had unprotected sex for 2 years, and so I shouldn't worry about STDs. However, he has been sexually active for 5 years - before 2 years ago he had unprotected sex with several partners. 2 questions: how worried should I be about him having something, that maybe hasn't shown itself yet? And how can I suggest to him nicely that he get tested?

well until stds get treated they are there forever no matter how long its been. and only like half of stds can accually get treated and only half of those can only be treated in the first several weeks. i think you should be very worried and just tell him straight up you wont do it until he gets tested for like all the stds which could take a while but you should wait. not all stds have the same tests and involve many different things but if he loves you he will do it for you

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im going to have a party/sleepover but i can only invite 5 people, but i know 6 that i want to invite, so theres that problem. also, none of the six are friends with each other, what should i do???????

please help soon! i need to send out invites!

well ive foudn that when i invite people that dont know each other to a party they just kinda become friends.. its weird i know but it works for me because they are all friends with me which means we have something in common so they prob have something in common with other people. try playing some games that make you get to know the other people or work together

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okae guys .. i get these little pimples over just out of no where .. its not bad or anything but i was just wondering if there was some HOMEMADE stuff that i could use .. i don't want something fancy just something that will help my pimples go away .. thankss!!!

ive heard putting on either toothpaste or baking soda before bed and leaving it on over night helps. im not sure how often you use it or how well it works but ive heard its pretty good

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what's better:
running for 15 minutes,
or walking for a half hour?

it depends on your pace.. you would burn a few more calories with the walking 1/2 hour but its about even. it all depends on how fast your run is and how fast your walk is

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is a psp worth the money or should i get a ipod

althought psp sounds cool i think they come out with new ones so fast that you never have time to enjoy the one you have.. my cousin got an ipod they year they came out (i believe over 5 years ago) and he still uses it every day today. ipods are def worth the money. i love my nano

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I'm a tiny little person (13/f) and my mom wants me to exercise. Aside from burning off fat and staying at a healthy weight, why is it important to exercise?

it teaching you self disipline, self respect, helps you get to know your body better, and give you confidence

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does anyone know a good website that i can use (pay by mounth) to download songs on my ipod? thanks!

i use limewire.. its free and reliable and mostly virus free. although you dont always get great songs and it may take multiple downloads to find the perfect version i say its great.. its what i use for my ipod

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OK here how it is i was offered a modeling contract w/ Aeropostal for 300,000 thosand a year, but here is the deal

i have to loose 80lbs by the end of may, they think of have a very pretty face perfect height right figure, yada yada you know?!

thing is i dont know how to do it, and i need to get started on this ASAP and i really really need this, i mean comeon 300,000 DOLLARS!!!! please help me now i am 220 now its only 80 lbs it will not only boost my self confidance jump start my career but also make my health much much better, wellall the weight taken off. plz help me. i seen them do it on the biggest loser, how did they do it?!

just please anyway possible i dont think i could go anerxic or bulimic tho

edit:: by the way how did they discover you?




im sorry but its really unhealthy to loose that weight in that time and really nearly inpossible. i would say you prob cant lose more than 50 lbs but im sure that will make a difference. make sure you make you diet healthy and i would say join a health club and spend atleast an hour there but no more than 4 a day. your going to have to take every ounce of junk food out of your diet and eat alot of protein because lean protein helps you loose alot of weight. also make sure you control your portions of your food so your not hungry anymore NOT FULL! also you wont be able to go out and eat anymore or snack. its going to be very hard and its going to push you to the point of even crying but if you want this you have to do it! if you think you afford it i would recommend hiring a nutricionist too if you can afford it to keep you on schedule and make sure your dieting right


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Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox

get them waxed.. i say it looks way better. my sister gets hers waxed and i do my own and hers personal look better because professionals are way better with doing the shape and stuff. your first waxing maybe hurt a little but after that its pain free

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i just joined this site and im so confused. it wont let me upload ANY pictures because they are over 15k. how do you make them so they arnt?
thanks!

you use photobucket.com and upload a pic and get the url for it them add it on here

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well in sixth grade i was a complete loser, i mean ugh i had really curly hair and wore it in a bun, and i wore big clothes. like i didnt even care. and i liked this guy A LOT. his name was david, and like he didnt like me at all. and he hated me in seventh grade. and we havent seen eachother in a year. untill saturday night. and when he saw me. he kept looking at me. and like we cuddled or whatever. and he said he liked me. but like i dunno. sixth grade was weird for both of us. and ive changed A LOT since then. and i just wanna know should i give it a chance?

yeah! couldnt you tell? it sounds like 100% chance to me

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My boyfriend and I are very close, but recently we've had some trouble. We don't argue, but it just seems like we lost interest. It hasn't necessarily been a big issue yet, but I feel like it will be. I love him and I don't want our relationship to get ruined. Should I break it off right now to avoid any trouble between us, or should I just see how it goes? If I do break up with him, he'll understand.

maybe you can just make it more intersting... like for 1 see each other less so the visit is more fun and have more exciting dates.. like do scaventure hunts together or go swim with dolphins or something off the wall. it will make your lives more fun and intersting

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How old Should a child be when they start dating?

i think like 16 but i dont think its fair not to let kids under that "date" i mean they should be atleast 13 but between 13-17 they really arent dating.. the point of dating is to find their sole mate and i think at that age they are basically just exploring the other sex and i think that is alright too

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

you can suspend them.. by reporting them under abuse

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What are some ways that i can earn some cash?? (NO not babysitting, i am SO bad at that!! i ahve nevr been around kids so they are like aliens to me)

shovel snow
rake leaves
collect mail when people go on vaca
clean attics
mow grass
sell old stuff on ebay (my aunt made tons of money off of that)
getin a job at mcdonalds

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Alot of the time I wish I could me more glamourous; more well-liked; more respected. I guess you could say popular.
Not like the bad popular, I just want more people to like me. I have a bunch of friends but I want to be friends with everyone. Not just a few cliques. I want to be self-confident; A girl all the guys like; a girl that would make a great friend; a girl thats always got plans to be with someone. I hate being alone and unliked. Anyone got any ideas?

alls you can do is put yourself out there.. go introduce yourself to more people. like have you seen the show made.. thats what they do it and it really helps people. go out of your shell. you may feel stupid but in the end it will be worth it

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