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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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Hey,
I know everyone hates relationship questions, but this one... well I'm basicially dying for advice.
My friend Jackie asked my crush if him and i could ever be more than just friends and he said could be. I am seriously considering telling him how I feel on Valentines Day and then maybe giving him a peck on the lips. Is this a bad idea? I've liked him for a long time and I feel like I really need to tell him in person. So does anyone have any suggestions for me?
If you answer, thank you SO much, you have no idea how grateful I am for your feedback.
-Jacki
Aw, I think that would be the sweetest thing, ever. I suggest telling him how you're turly feeling about him along with giving him that little kiss, that would be so cute, especially if you do it on Valentines Day.
But, seriously, why not give it a shot. You could be missing out on something really special. So, go for it, girl and good luck. ♥
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what do you get for a guy that you have been only going out with for about week? lame, huh? i really like him though. we have liked eachother for sometime too...
thanks. ill rate, no need to ask.
=]
Since you guys haven't been going out for too long, I suggest getting him something simple, but cute. Maybe you could buy him a bunch of chocolates and candies and put them all into a bag - kind of like a goodie bag type of thing. Also, you could make him a cute card, explaining how great this week with him have been. You could also just sit at home and have a movie night, that would be cute, too. ♥
ok so is there supposed to be this, umm, thing inside your vagina? like i have this thing its kinda weird its like this thing of skin or whatever with some bump shaped thing. is there supposed to be something in there? i have no idea if this is normal or what.
I THINK I know what you are talking about and if so, yes, it is normal. If you aren't 100% sure on this, just ask a girl that you're close too, or you can even search it up on the net or go to a doctor. ♥
what is the best way to say no when a guy you dont like asks you out?
Just explain to him that he's a really great guy, it's just you don't want a relationship right now and you much rather be friends. That should let him down nice-a-easy and he won't be heartbroken too much about it. ♥
hey everyone - when i try to comment my friend it never works! everyone else can comment him though just not me! i can pic comment + message but not comment lol. ive tried using his comment box and "adding comment" at the bottom and it doesnt work! and no, he doesnt have me blocked. anything wrong? thanks!
Sometimes MySpace screws up like that. It does that to me sometimes, too. When I go to comment someone, sometimes it says I don't have them added as a friend, when I really do. Just delete them, then re-add them. It should work, once you do that. ♥
For valentines day, i want to attach lyrics to a love song on the card i'm giving to my boyfriend. I dont kow what song to use though. Does anyone know any cute songs that has a meaning of loving some one more than anything? Thanks so much
Lifehouse - Hanging By A Moment.
Starting Line - Last Impressions.
Areosmith - Angel.
Goo Goo Dolls - Iris.
Keith Urban - Making Memories Of Us.
The Afters - Beautiful Love.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Young Rome & Marques Houston - For Your Love.
Rascal Flatts - God Bless The Broken Road.
Josh Kelley - Home To Me.
Death Cab For Cutie - Passengers Seat.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwithu.
Lifehouse - You And Me.
Shawn Desman - Butterflies.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
Howie Day - Collide.
Chingy & Janet Jackson - Don't Worry.
Rex Goudie - You Alone.
These are some really cute songs with awesome lyrics. Enjoy. ♥
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Ok so my bestfriend is going through depression and I feel so bad cause honeslty Ive realized that he doesnt smile that much anymore but it never hit me like that cause hes always just like im tired and stuff but anyways he told me yesterday that hes going thru it again so ive done some research on it cause i want to be able to help him get thru it. I didnt know him the first time he went thru it but I know that means since he had it once he'll be able to get thru it again. Anyways Ive gone a bunch of websites and they all basically say the same thing like it takes medication to get past it and stuff... I need to know Is There Anything I can Do To help Him? I cant find anything on how others should act around someone with it. Please If u have any ideas help. Ive googled it already and found some stuff but i need to know more...
First, I think it would be best to try and figure out why your best friend is going through a depression. What is going on in his life that is making him feel this way? Sometimes, best friends just need to listen to problems and not say anything. Maybe you should talk to him about this and ask him if he would like to share the problems with you. Just be there to listen to what he has to say and be there for him. He needs someone to turn to, especially in a time like this.
Here are a couple of websites that I found, that may help you out:
-- http://www.have-a-heart.com/help-a-friend.html
-- http://www.coolnurse.com/depression.htm
-- http://www.depression.com
-- http://www.psychologyinfo.com/depression
Give him reasons WHY he should smile. Maybe you should make a little something for him, telling him how much you do care about him. Make him a list on why he should smile and why he's your best friend. Maybe like 50 reasons, or more, depending on how many you can think of. This really probably cheer him up, tons. Just because he knows someone really does care about him and is there for him every step of the way.
I hope these ideas help you out some, hun, and good luck. ♥
what r the symtoms of pregnancy? plz answer my best friend's girlfriend is saying she's pregnant but we arnt sure she's telling the truth
Pregnancy symptoms differ from woman to woman and pregnancy to pregnancy; however, one of the most significant pregnancy symptoms is a delayed or missed menstrual cycle. Understanding pregnancy symptoms is important because each symptom may be related to something other than pregnancy. Some women experience pregnancy symptoms within a week of conception. For other women, symptoms may develop over a few weeks or may not be present at all. Below is a listing of some of the most common pregnancy symptoms.
Some Symptoms:
-- Not getting your period.
-- Swollen/tender breasts.
-- Nausea/morning sickness.
-- Backaches.
-- Headaches.
-- Frequent Urination.
-- Darkening of areolas.
-- Food Cravings.
For more information, just go to http://www.google.com or http://www.yahoo.com and search up 'Symptoms Of Pregnancy', you'll find tons of stuff on this topic. ♥
what does it mean when people say like...id tap that?
They would like to get with you and/or have sex with you. ♥
Okay, so im on myspace, and i just got a new layout earlier on today. Well now whenever i go to edit my about me section (i really want to take out the layout because i dont like it anymore :-]) it wont let me. It sends one of those "Send Error Report" type things and kicks me off of myspace. Does anyone know how i can remove my layout without going through this or what i can do to fix this, because i cant edit one thing on my myspace, and such.
It's not just your MySpace, it has been happening to mine, too. Just give it a couple of hours and it should be fixed. MySpace always has little problems like that, but in time, it'll go back to normal. ♥
Do you believe in Palmistry?
No, I do not believe in it. But, it is fun to get your palm read, just so you can laugh about it afterwards. ♥
dude someone just asked a really mest up question on my account about being fat and wearin tight clothes,it wasnt me, what should i do?
I saw that question and it was public. Do you mean someone went on YOUR account and asked that question, but it wasn't you?! One of three things you can do:
1) You can E-Mail DangerNerd. (This would be the best thing to do, since he does run the site.) He'll be able to look into this problem, right away. dangernerd@gmail.com
2) You can report an abuse form telling what went on with this question. The mod's will look into it. http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php
3) Or, you can simply delete the question, change your password and forget about it.
I suggest E-Mailing DangerNerd, just so this will NEVER happen again. ♥
Ok if you really like someone, but they're going out with someone else but you know they like you, would it be stupid to wait for them? I really need to know what you guys think about that. Thank you so much!
XoXoJamie
No, it wouldn't be stupid to wait around for them, especially if they liked you and you like them. But the question is, if he really likes you, why is he still with this other person? Y'know? If he liked you enough, shouldn't he dump her and be with you? ♥
okay. so if you preform oral sex on a guy and he cums and you sallow can you get pregant? my mom is saying you can!
No, you cannot get pregnant if you sallow sperm (you can get an STD from it, though). Sperm has to enter your vagina for you to be able to have a chance to get pregnant. Your mother is probably just saying this, so you won't perform oral sex on a guy. ♥
Has anyone here ever heard of the band Panic! At the Disco?
I've heared of them, but I only listened to a few of their songs. From the songs I've heared, they're a pretty good band. ♥
Ever been ridin down the road listening to the radio and just being like I want to download that song and that song & that song then when your actually home in front of the computer draw a blank when it's time to download em? lol or is it just me? Can yall help me put together a cd? I love all kinds of music from country to r & b, rap, simple plan.. anything but gospel or rock.
I totally know how you feel about this. Sucks, doesn't it? If you want some tunes, you might want to check out the following website: http://www.accuradio.com/hits/# It's an online radio and you're able to listen to whatever type of music you want.
Also, here are a few tunes I enjoy:
Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.
Some dance music:
Hermes House Band - Country Roads.
DJ Sammy - Heaven.
Dan Balan & Lucas Prata - Ma Ya Hi.
Axel F - Crazy Frog.
Hermes House Band & DJ Itzi - Live Is Life.
Darude - Sand Storm.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
DJ Aligator - Blow My Whistle Bitch.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
I hope this helps you out. ♥
Ok ive never made out with a guy before but when the oppurtunity comes will i naturally know how to?? cause i dont want to make a fool out of myself, thanks
I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥
is it bad to charge your battery every day??
thanks
It's fine to charge your phone battery everyday. I charge mine every night. ♥
all my friends boobs are bigger then mine and they all have their periods... like my friend was like "shit Kitta do you have a pad?" iw as like "oh no sorry i dont have one with me." and like arghhhhhhhhh
Your period will come, sweetie. Not everyone get's their period at the same age. Some people get it early, while others only get it later on in life. Ask your mom when she first got hers, that should be the time that you'll get yours, too.
As for your boobs, they will grow, I promise you. You don't stop growing until you're 18, so depending on your age, you have awhile to go yet. Don't fret it. Give it some time. ♥