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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

um is it harmful that i accidently swalloed a couple of my rubberbands for my braces..?

i keep forgetting to take them out when i eat,
so then late i notice one side of my mouth doesnt have it..
and then the other does, so i assume i ate it.


ahaaha.


uh yeah i think its okay is it?

I swallowed a lot of my rubber bands just because I always forgot to take them out when I ate. I asked my orthodotist and he said they won't harm you but don't get in the habit of doing it.

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Thanks for your time answering all my questions.
I just masturbated on an oral sex video and I cummed more than I masturbate on other kinds of porn. What can this mean?

You're welcome. I'm not an expert on masturbation or anything so I don't really know why you might get more pleasure doing what. Sorry, but I don't know the answer to your question. =/

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I sometimes let my dog lick my dick and i get an orgasm from that. It feels like a girl is sucking my dick. DO you think this is unhealthy?

It's not that it's unhealthy but it's just weird.

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probably
but I leave cum there on her bed
I wonder if she knows that's my cum.
Do you think she knows that my cum was on her bed?

I wouldn't know..

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jacking off in a hot girls room with their own panties is pretty exciting and fun

For you it might be, but if the girl found out it wouldn't really be that exciting.

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I know this sounds dirty but whenever I go to a pretty girls house, I always go thorugh their dressers for their panties and bras and I usually jack off on them in her room or the washroom. When I look at their panties, they have brown stuff on it.. what is that?

That "brown" stuff is from her period. & jacking off like that.. is kinda creepy.

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Why do girls fake orgasms? Because they think we care.
but why do girls fake orgasms?

It's hard to explain exactly why but it's mostly because it makes guys happy when they know they made a girl get an orgasm. That's the best way I can explain it.

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I saw this late night movie at 1 in the morning, of course a porn movie, and I was just wondering.. what happens if the actress actually gets pregnant after they have sex in the movie?

Most porn is fake. If one of the girls actually does end up pregnant, then I don't really know what happens.

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What happens if while a couple is having sex, the guy pees in the girl's vagina?

Well, it would be pretty disgusting and if it's just pee, then nothing will happen.

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f/15

i like him he knows that and i think he likes me we flirt but why won't he ask me out?

all the other girls that like him he tries to avoid but not me i guess he doesn't think i'm ugly but still i'm confused about his feelings what do you think?

thank so much!

No one can tell you why he isn't asking you out or why he's not avoiding you. He probablly just thinks that you're a good friend and he likes you as a person. It would really help if you talked to him about this. He is the only one that can tell you exactly how he's feeling. I know that it might be a little akward but you guys seem to be close so you should be able to talk to him about this. Also, give it a little more time. Keep flirting with him and talking to him. The more he gets to know you, the more he might like you.

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Do you think if A guy had sex with you [and used you]
must have liked you at one point?
Or thought you were pretty at least??

this didnt happen to me, i was wondering because it happend to my friend.

If he liked her at some point, he wouldn't of used her in the first place. He might of thought that she was attractive but since he did that to her, he didn't have feelings towards her.

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I cum in about 10 minutes after I start masturbating, but sex can take more than 20 minutes right? Does this mean the sex I'm going to have is going to be 10 minutes? or longer?

When you masturbate, you do it in a way that makes you get pleasure and you know exactly what feels good so that way you get an orgasm faster. It doesn't mean that when you have sex that you will cum in the first 10 minutes or so. Sex can take more than 20 minutes. It all depends on what you and your partner do. It also doesn't mean that the sex you're going to have is going to last 10 minutes. Sometimes it might take you longer to get an orgasm and other times it won't.

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Have you ever masturbated before? or had sex before?

Honestly, that's none of your buisness but no I haven't.

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Alrite so I'm 15/f.
Theres this boy that really likes me and I sort of like him. He has the pretiest blue eyes ever and everyone is saying that I should give him a chance.

Then thers this other boy (of cours). He's cute and does says/does sweet stuff to me IN PERSON. Only one of my best friends knows about him though. Who should I go with, boy1 or boy2?

I can't really chose for you but you have to think about which guy you like spending more time with. Do you get happy when one of them talks to you or says hi? Just ask yourself those kind of questions and compare. I personally think that the second guy seems really sweet. He actually does things for you in person so give him a chance.

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i want to start babysitting for money bc i need money haha but my parents said i need to take a class to learn how to do cpr and all that before i babysit. is this true?

You don't need to take it, but it would be a really good idea. You have to know what to do when a child is hurt, burnt, anything like that. It's not required but when you babysit, the parent's would feel a lot better if you knew more about what to do in those situation and they could even pay you more.

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hi
I have a problem
When I come into a conversation with a girl,
my eyes keep turning down to her chest.
I try to look up to her face, but my eyes just keeps going up and down. What should I do?

Well.. I can't really relate to your problem but maybe you could control your little hormones. A lot of guys tend to do that but if you payed more attention to what the girl was saying, maybe you could focus on her face. But I understand that not every girl has something interesting to say ..


Since I couldn't relate to your problem really, I asked my friend Dave & his answer: " If it was me I'd control my horniness and if I realy wanted to look at boobs that much I would just look at some porn. "

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hi!well my question is.....I like this boy.He is really cute and hes nice.Every time I get out of school he always looks at my friend.And he even asked her out like 5 times.What should i do?




-Confused

Honestly, there's nothing you can do. If he likes her, you can't change his mind. I know that it hurts you when he does that but maybe you should just try to move on.

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where can i get cheap extensions? i think i spelled that right...

You can't buy any extansions for cheap. The least would be around $80-100. This girl that goes to my school got hers at Sally's but they're clip on extansions. If you're looking for something that lasts for a while it would be a lot more expensive.

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haha alright, i know the title makes this sound workse then it is, but i was bored.
anyways.
i've bought that maybelline mascara everyone seems to like, ( and i read in a magazine somewhere that it's one of the best kinds to get ) but everytime i apply it, it smudges all under my eyes after i blink!
my mother also has it, and she's sick of it as well.
do you guys have any recommendations for a new mascara to get?

The best mascara that I've used was from Clinique. It's a bit pricy for a mascara but it's better than any other ones. If not that one, Cover Girl has good mascaras that don't really smudge. Also, after you apply your mascara, don't touch your lashes or anything. Let them dry.

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Hi
Do you think looking at porn and masturbating once or twice everyday is unhealthy??
I just can't resist the feeling you get from orgasms.

If you do it once in a while, it's normal and it's nothing unhealthy. You're alright though.

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