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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.

Wear black clothes to show your respect mabe bring some flower for you friend and just be there for her thats all she can ask of you to be her shoulder to cry on when she need you.

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So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more?

I think you need to be sexually attracted to be with a partner if you it wont last. If you find it easyer to be his friend be his friend, but id give it ago your young so go for it!

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My friend ((We'll call her M)) is a total sl**. She knows it and is proud of it. She stabs people in the back and screws you over. She turns on you and talks crap on you behind your back. My 2 best friends and i ditched her because we knew she wasn't a good friend to have. Now she is friends with lots of girls... at least she thinks she is. They all hate her, but they won't tell her! I wouldn't mind becoming friends with her again, but how can i learn to trust her and believe what she tells me if she did all this stuff to me the first time around?

There isnt reall a way you can trust her because shes changed that much that you dont no what to tell her or what to believe, So i think that you should just give it time if your not comfortable being around her because of what she has become.
In time you will start to believe her but if what she has done is to much then i dont think you will ever be able to trust her.

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Hey i've been working with the same SN since 7th grade almost and now i'm a 9th grader...i want a new sn heres somethings about me or words i want in it.

Icy
Figure skater
Pink
silver
16
18

thats all i can think of right now i hope you guys can help me. THANKS IN ADVANCE!

Thinkpink

icy16

silver18
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Since I was five and up until I was ten, there was a man that used to abuse me and my bedridden mother. Finally when I was ten years old, my mother kicked him out. A few years after that, I was taken out of my mother's house, and am now living with my 30 year old sister, and her fiance. Anyway, off of the background. a couple years ago, I had a dream that I would run into the abuser guy, and then I did! Nothing bad happened to me that time, but now I'm having nightmares about him again! I'm afraid, because the nightmares are worse than last time, and I'm afraid something really bad might happen. What should I do??? I know dreams don't always mean something, but it's been happening for three nights now. I'm really frightened. :O

Once you have a dream about the same thing after a while they go away this guy doesnt even deserve to be in your dreams but if your dreaming about him there not dreams there nightmares. Some people say that you have nightmares of your past because you blame your self for what happened if you do dont if you dont thats good. Dreams are not real, some times when people are layed in bed they start thinking of some really personal things that have happened late at night if you do that dont think of something thats going on in your life right now thats good.

hope ive helped

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I play se;ect soccer. I get really really nervous before games and i don't know how not to be. I won't eat anything and i won't talk and i need a way to make my stomaach not hurt before a game and to be less nervous and calm!! Please help thanSS!!

Try thinking that you will do well think posative and take a few deap breaths. Everyone gets nervous at some point in there life and its just one of those things you have to get over.

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well today has been very odd for me. my face has just been so itchy! it cant be anything that i put on my face, because everything i put on is daily. well my cheeks are very itchy, as well as my forhead and chin. my eyes too! but i have allergies...any thoughts of what may cause this?

Use sensative skin cream and then you wont have to use it as much. And some times when you have had a bath or shower your face can feel tight wash your face once dont let water touch it again because it can make it feel really uncomfortable. Use sensative cream and you dont have to use it every day.

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i have always liked this kid matt & he likes me and we would be perfect for eachother -- and he said we will prob go out we just need time to develop... so what should i do? this kid dave likes me a lot.. should i tell him about matt and only like matt? or wait till i know we are gunna go out? i have no idea what to do!

Give it time to develop your friendship. Who do you like more? choose between them because the fact is that your young and need to experance new boyfriends and friends.

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okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not.

I think you should say you like him and that you wish you could be more than friends because he obiously likes you because if he keeps smiling and staring at you thats a good sign hes think of you.

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theres this girl i dont just have a crush on ive nown her since well (for americans kindergarten)
(for uk reception) and i love her with all my heart she has a bf but i lov her so much i dont know what to do she gave me my first kiss and she has always been there for me but she met this guy i dont know what to do ive nearly told her i love her but chickened out help me please

ill rate huge

despratley needing help
sam

Why dont you wait a while untill your really to tell her that you see as more than a friend. Dont rush into it because she might not see it coming and that would be very good, Just do it carmly get her on her own and tell her that you wish that there could be something you to go do together and be able to be more than friends if shes in s serious relationship she might not want you as a boy friend mabe just a close friend but thats still better that you just been her crush because once her boy friend breaks up with her shes yours.

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Ive waxed before but only on my face. Im tired of shaving everything below my chin!!!!! What is safe to wax. I mean what areas. Should I go to a pro for it?????

Safe to wax there is your chin above your lip eye brows if you every thinking of having a bikini wax dont ive heard its very pain full, under your arms you wax most parts of your body.
I think you should have ago i think all in all plucking is alot more pain full. If your tired of shaving there is this cream call johnsons cream which makes you legs appear finner so you hair wont be noticable. But it all depend where you live i live in the uk.


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hey what is a machine like thing to make you get abs...

There is alsorts you can use weights and simple exercises like
bench press ups
forms of rowing can build the arms up.

loads just type abs build up on google theres millions

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well i want to have a great tan before i go to Flordia may 26 but i am so white, is there any kind of tanning stuff that works really good and stays for a really long time or stays forever without going to a tanning bed? Also i am tired of shaving all the time my hair grows back so quick, is there any kind of wax or something that doesnt cost that much money that works great to keep hair gone for a while?

Get some tanning cream. Dont over do it with the cream spread it out evenly and rub it in because you dont want to go orange/brown. It depends where you live? i live in the uk o i dont no what brands you have over there they have this cream called johnsons which means you can just shave once and when they hairs start growing the appear finner so it doesnt look all hairy. I dont no how much thats going to help if you dont live in the uk. One of my other friend who lives in america uses this:
After Shave Moisturizer Natural oils, humectants and moisturizers are blended to create American Crew's After Shave Moisturizer. Invigorating oils and extracts sooth and moisturize, while anti-oxidants help protect against dry, damaged skin.
and it cost $7.57 in england it will cost about
£8-£9
here are some wax strips a brand name:
aloebare wax strips here is the information it says about them:
This unique, ready to use wax, allows fast, sanitary hair removal. Professional wax, set on strips. Instantly ready to use. Just Press On and Pull Off.

luv roxie sorry its a bit long hope ive helped

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My friend and I met online from another friend of mine. We were always good friends, but the only time ( it seemed like)we get in to fights is online. It's kind of weird now seeming that we met online. I mean, It seems like just because I wanted to meet her, we have gotten in a fight.

Any Advice?

~.CoOkIe~.

Well mabe shes not able to meet you yet just give her some time. Tell her that your sorry for all the arguments but you would like to be friends and that it would be great.

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Hey!

I have a case of boredum!

lol

anyways-
what are some good sites to go to when you are bored?!

Like some that have those quizes like:

ex:
1-whats your fav color
2-whats your fav drink


or

1- where did we meet


and/ or those when you pick your fav color and its says something like "blue means that....."

you know?

any one have some of those that they could send to me? or any sites?

Thanks In Advance!!

*-KeLsA-*

There is loads of quizzes on this site:
http://www.kwiz.biz/
its really good an funny there is also some site where you can watch videos thats called:
www.funnyjunk.com
go on it you'll have fun

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i just bought certain dri last night and i put it on and my armpits started tinglinng and itching and first but then they stopped... is this normal/ok?

Yes its normal you might be sensative to some substances in the drink depends whats in it.

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i have just moved to a new skool, and i have noticed that most of the girls at my skool like me. now i just got here and wont be here for long and hardly know any of them. and it's really obvious on who likes me cause i often find them staring at me then they stop when i see they are. i wanna know wat i should do about this.... i'll rate i guess if its good

I dont think you should do anything if your moving soon just keep your cool and dont give in. If you really want to go out with someone you will have to tell them the situation about you leaving and that you wont be able to see them unless the come a vist.

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My friends and I are doing a project in science, and they won't listen to anything I have to say! Whenever I have a good idea, they won't listen to it, and if they do, someone always says that for some reason, it won't work. I'm not a control freak or anything, i just wish that they would listen to me! 13/f, if that helps at all.

Get there attention or shout at the to tell them your ideas say to them that your part of the project and want to be able to speak about some of the ideas you have.

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ok, my bf gets boners when im with him, i know this because hes told me ,i was just wondering if there is anything i could do? Also is there anything i could do with my bf that's cute, but not sex?

Well nothing really can stop them but if you dont touch him as often and not hold hands it might prevent it from happening its bound to happen loads of guys get them its nothing to be ashamed of. Why not invite him over to watch some films and cuddle on the couch thats cute, Do something that you both enjoy doing together.
Just take it in turns to choose between what you would like to do.

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My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it.

Talk to her tell her that you dont like the fact that you go to her in secret and she tells everyone. Say infuture i wont tell you anything or i wont share my life secrets with you if you can keep them to your self. If there is something that is really important that you need to tell how about your best friend or 1 of your friend you can trust.

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