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ok, my bf gets boners when im with him, i know this because hes told me ,i was just wondering if there is anything i could do? Also is there anything i could do with my bf that's cute, but not sex?
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could you be more specific? Do you want to know how to help get rid of the boner without having sex? Also give me your age.ok
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Dear Confused,
There are lots of things you can do with your boyfriend that doesn't involve sex. The main thing I would suggest is be around other people as much as you can. It doesn't have to be done in an obvious way. It is very difficult to say no to someone when you really like them and you are both affectionate with each other. The problem is that when you start fooling around when you're alone, things just naturally get more heated and it will get harder and harder to say no to what you don't want to do. But, back to your question. You can make him feel good by massaging his neck or his back and have him do the same to you. You can kiss him and hug him and TALK to him. I would tell him that you feel uncomfortable with sex right now and you hope he will respect that and have patience with you. Good luck sweetie and let me know how it goes.
Linda
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Theres a lot of stuff that you could do. You could give him a handjob - rub his dick with your hand. Or you could give him head, which would be to use your mouth instead of your hand. If its your first time doing any of this then make sure you tell him so just in case you get uncomfortable, he'll understand. If you dont think you're ready then tell him. If he's really a good boyfriend then he'll understand. Good luck hun and make sure you dont do anything you dont want to.
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Well nothing really can stop them but if you dont touch him as often and not hold hands it might prevent it from happening its bound to happen loads of guys get them its nothing to be ashamed of. Why not invite him over to watch some films and cuddle on the couch thats cute, Do something that you both enjoy doing together.
Just take it in turns to choose between what you would like to do.
luv roxie
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