well if i really love this girl and we just broke up but we still love each other and flirt and hang out all the time wat should i do
Go back out GENIUS! haha that tells you something. Yall were meant to be..! hehehe. I done that a few times. Just ask her out! she apparantly means something to you. I Hope i helped you out. Leave me one if you got anymore questions. Sammy Sam.
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I have a guy coming over tomorrow...and well..parents aren't home you know what that means, im nervous but definitely ready to do stuff with him...what's the best way to keep myself calm and not nervous?
Well... If your really ready. Is just be yourself. Go with his motion. LIke give him hints. Like show him you like him. You know. Just let it show. He will just catch on. Do what you want. Dont be afraid. Guys will never tell you " NO DONT DO THAT" If they do there gay. So yea. Trust me all will go good. Just relax and breathe in and out and tell urself your ready to make a move. Your strong. Its no big deal. Just get urself horny, nothing will hold you back. (Get a condom just incase something leads to another) Well i hope i helped you out. Leave me one if it works. Ask me anything im here for you. Sammy Sam
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My boyfriend wants to go to the movies with me and he has been bringing up making out. But ive never made out before. Could someone please tell me how? I know this might sound stupid but i have nooooo clue :P (Please dont say it comes naturally) I RATE HIGH! Thanks :)
Awww. lol! I been through that freight. All you do hun is you peek him first on the lips till he opens up and you stick your tongue through.Then you rotate your tongue with his. Like licking a lollipop but you just do it with the flow of him. (THERE IS NO SCREWING UP) Then you start to feel up on him to get matters better but ur not that close to bat. But yea. When his tongue stops moving you take out your tongue and then kiss him on the lips and he will think you done it before. So if you kiss him again he might stick his tongue through and you just do it all over again. Its quite easy. Itll come natural to you once your done. ( DONT LAUGH ) Safety percaution. My boifriend tends to do that alot.... (Cough Cough BUCKEMS) lol. So yea. Itll be a sinch once you get past the first part. I hope i helped you. If you need anything im here for you. ttul.
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ok well when im at school everybody seems to like me and all but there are always rumors going around of bad stuff about me and i dont know what i am doin? is it because everytime i get dumped i go out with another boy? people have been calling me a slut ever since ive been hanging out with the popular people i dont know what to do i bc im never mean to any1 but i dont know what im doing wrong? i know this question is hard to answer but i need help!!!!
This question was made for me. Hun! I know exactly what your going through. They do the same shit to me. Its because they are jealous because your pretty and you can get a new guy everytime you get dumped or you dump them. There jealous. All the people who were jealous of me! Because of that have told me they are jealous and call me a slut. Your not a slut. Your just a nice person and there scared of that. Dont let them get to you. SCREW THEM! You are yourself dont do it to pleas everyone. Its not worth it. I should know i have done some stupid stuff. Dont get all worked up about it okay hun. I get it everyday. If you just ignore and keep your head high and dont listen to them they'll shut up! They know your the heat and they will get over themselves. Trust me its working for me.
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does any one a good website for quotes?
besides hellzangelz or firehotquotes?
Click on my name and look at my journal i do more poetry then quotes. GO to google.com and type in quotes. any kind you want youll get a listing.
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You can ask me what ever you want! Dont be scared :)
Please... ask me questions :)
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Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do?
Like Buckems said... (Thats my boifriend)
If he really thinks yall are soulmates then he likes you deffinately. No doubt about it. Its obvious if he says that not everyday do guys say that. Just let him know how you feel! Most likely he feels the same thing about you. Just let him know take the chances. It doesnt hurt. You could still be friends. Its not a life or death situation. Just let em know. He would dump that chick for you. (In a heartbeat) You seem like a smart girl and knows what she wants. So he knows that. You got him, Just let him know and what you wish for will happen. Trust me. When it comes to things like this. It just hits me naturally if i know something will happen or not. Well i hope i gave you the best advice. Let me know if anything happens.
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if ur friend moves 2 florida and she avoids u what do u do
Well (I Think that was prolly to me from jessica)
If not... Well just let her know how you feel. She should explain. She might have alot going on. Im sorry if this is happening. Just talk to her. Call her see whats going on. There is prolly a good reason why she is, plus busy doing things.I hope i gave you enough advice.
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OK I am asking you this because I saw you have been through this.
My friend and I were talking about stuff and she told me that she has been raped. She hasnt told me this till now and it happened like 5 years ago when we were 12! I cant believe she didnt tell me! Now I feel like she holds everything back from me!
What should I do?
And are you a CHristian?
Well some people arnt as open! When something that bad happens to someone its not that hard to open up and tell some one something happend like that. You feel like someone has be-trayed your trust. You feel like shit. You dont understand whats going on. You feel like its 'YOUR' fault when its not. I mean its a scary thing. Makes you sometimes crazy like depression and scuicidal. Its not something that you can just open up too. Even if its a friend or a relative. You have to be strong. She was scared. I was scared when i got raped. It was my neighbor. I told someone who had been raped before. She told me what to do. Read the book "SPEAK" by LAURIE HALSE ANDERSON it will explain things and any kind of rape book if you want to get an idea of this incident to feel how violated people are. Atleast she told you! Some people just keep it to themselves forever til they die. They dont tell there loved ones. Those who speak are truly blessed. Its just difficult. You should tell your friend how happy you are on her getting the guts to tell you. It takes a SHIT LOAD of guts to be able to get something like that out of them. Its like trying to get a war story off of a man who fought in war its hard and it makes them cry. It takes courage and strength. You should recommend your friend to get checked by a doctor to make sure who raped her didnt hurt her inside her 'AREA' so then she doesnt get any illness that effects her body, her periods, her being able to get pregnant or aids or anything like that. She must get her blood checked and see if she has aids or any other kind of diseases. Even if a condom was present it can still be a chance of an infection. Im really sorri this happen to your friend. Try to be there for her 24/7 she needs someone to take care of her. Someone she can lean too when she has nightmares of flashbacks. Most people who get raped have those alot and its scary. Help her get back on track in life. Its a very horrible thing to happen to someone. I should know. Serious issues happens alot like this. You feel like your wall is crumbling down and cant trust anyone. Makes sure u still trust her even though you would want to know earlier about it but your very glad she told you at all, and that you know she could have held that away from you til ur dead and she's dead. Its a very secret thing. Nobody likes to brag about it but its better to talk about it then just let it eat you up inside. I did that and i almost was so close to scuicide. I told my parents before it got that bad and my friends and family. To warn them from the CRUEL guy who did that to me. That was my neighbor and a good friend of mine. But, he took advantage of me. Its really hard to let people knoe something like that you have no idea. You feel embarassed and like a slut at times. But she's not, it was nothing she could have done. Like me. What she really needs to get through her head is " IT WASNT HER FAULT" maybe talk to her to get counseling or talk to me. (305) 393-6201 thats my cell and my name is Samantha if i dont pick up tell her to leave a message. I dont go to skool anymore ever since this evidence. I can help her, if you feel like too much of this is for you. Shes not holding anything back from you hun. She was scared. Out of all people she should feel like the one without trust from anyone because of rape. Its not your fault. You didnt know. But dont get all pissed off about it, it just makes matters worse. If she told you something like that!!!!! You should feel very respected and trusted. She wouldnt keep secrets from you if she told you something so seriious and tragic like that, you shouldnt feel like she's hidding anything from you. So you should be very proud of your friend for talking!!! Also for you if u have any questions call me. I been through counseling and im very good with talking to people. Dont be afraid. Im some one who is a teen and knows things been through alot. But seriously, give ur friend a break dont be mad at her now. be her friend her support. To answer your question. Am i christian? Well I do believe in god.. Yes! Im catholic and episcapalian (Pisscapalian)I have been raised Baptist since i went with my friend Chelsey my first 5yrs of my life. Ill put some info here about rape just so you know. Well im always here. Ask me anything. Thank you for coming to me. I hope i helped you! and gave you enough advice, I tryed to give you my best. Wish you the best.
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
Wow! Gurl im in ur position right now! My boifriend and I have talked about it and im just like you!!! everything u have explained is what i am like right now. I still do things with him and i want to have sex with him too and we feel like we need to lose it to each other. I am ready anytime and he is too. We havent been together that long. I just still do things with him and do phone sex it helps me. But if your touching each other and want to have sex really bad just stop! and breathe and think is this right? am i ready? if not then dont youll know when your limit is. Im always tempted too. But once your down being tempted dont you think to urself. Yes i wasnt ready then but i liked doing things with him. You'll know when your ready if you are thinkin like this. You let it happen when your ready. But wait! please its better. So you know it wasnt a mistake if you guys ever break up! So if you need to ask me anything else you let me know iight chicka! Im here for you 24/7! Yes.. sooo just think about it. Talk to your love one and let him know that if u do let him hanging when he is rlly horny and want to have sex and you back out.. its because your not ready and that when you are ready it will be the "BEST" because you made him so tempted and making him want it more n more. So when the time comes it will be "AWESOME" so just sit down and think about it and then talk to your love one. Ttul hun! im always here.
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