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My name is Becca. I wish that I could live in a eutopic world where nothing ever went wrong and smiles could brighten up everyone's day. But life isn't always rainbows and sunshine. All good comes with bad. What makes or breaks a person is their strength through those tough times. I am a simple person with simple ambitions, simple pleasures, and a simple life.



I usually try to find the best in people, ergo, I can be a very forgiving person. Show me respect and treat me nicely, and I can be one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I am worth $2,886,158 on humanforsale. I change my mind more than I change my underwear, so don't set what I say in stone. I am the biggest procrastinator in the world. I have horrible spelling and typing skills. The person who has changed my life the most would have to be my two year old cousin, Chelsea. She is the most amazing person ever, and I've been blessed to be a part of her life since March 23, 2005. I want to be a positive influence in her life, and guide her to grow up and make a difference in the world. This little girl means the world to me. She is my best friend.



I love to feel loved. Ian makes me feel loved. He is one amazing person. We have been dating since June 28, 2006, and we will stay together for the rest of our lives. We were made for eachother. He calls me his Bibbles and his lady bug and makes me smile my biggest smiles ever. He tickles me until I almost cry. I love every second I am with him.



I am done things in my life that I regret. I wish I was a better person. I am currently trying to find myself and what I want from life. I am currently trying to become who I want to be. Let's just see where that takes me.
The end..

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Do Not Hesitate In Asking Me Anything. I Am Here To Help. You Can Always IM Me On AIM At xAskkMechaBeccax For Privet And Convenient Help.

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Hey guys!
So this year I get to learn a langauge && I picked French. does anybody know any tips? or know any awesome sites that can help me?

Merci.

ive never taken french before so i dont have any tips but i do have a good site thatss helps for most languages.

www.freetranslations.com

hope i helped
Mecha Becca

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here is my problem. I am the kind of girl everyone says is really pretty but never gets a boyfriend or one that is high enough to my standards that i would day. I can get the ugly guys but comeon who wants that.


Anyways here is my situation. I met this kid at work and i found out he went to school with me. He is a veryyy atractive kid and seems like a truely nice guy.

He seems like the guy i have always wanted to date until i found out today he is a pot smoker.

My question is does that make him worth dating? I don't know much about him and by the looks of his myspace it looks like he does not smoke very often. I am totally anti smoking and anti drugs and out of all of my friends i seem to be the most outragous when it comes to that topic (i have drank only a small handful of times). So pretty much i am a good girl.

As long as he doesn't smoke around me you know i don't care but is her serously like boyfriend material? like i don't want to get my heartbroken over a guy who was never going to be comitted or whatever.

I am very confused on what to think and how to deal with this because i believe he likes me and i sorta like him too.

it is up to you. i wouldnt date him but that's me because i am VERY much against drugs. drinking is more acceptable to me than smoking or drugs. if you want to date his is up to you but he might he high when he hangs with you which could lead to bad choices and situations. take it one step at a time and see how often he uses, if he's a pusher, and stuff. i wouldnt rush into this relationship but thats just me. you are the one who in the end has to choose.

hope i helped.
Mecha Becca

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Hello... I'm a 19 year old girl.. I'm studying in a university and taking up tourism.. I have a problem and that is, im dying to have a bf.. Most of my friends already have and i am so jealous. I'm not ugly or something, but i don't know why guys don't notice me.. I mean maybe they notice me too but guys that i like don't make a move. There are guys who like me but they're all not my type. Whenever i'm walking down the street, my friends notice that guys stare at me because not being arrogant, i can say that i'm not ugly and i do have nice shape.. So i'm curious why no guys my type ask me out? I had these 2 guy friends who i thought liked me too, though they're not my type, i asked them out but no ones like. They said that they only like me as a friend. What's wrong with me? That's why i'm thinking sometimes that there's something wrong with me that i don't know. My friends say that i'm attractive enough and that they're jealous because i do have nice body but why on earth no guys my type want to go out with me? Please help.. Thank you in advance..

i had this problem too before my current boyfriend. i had guy friends but was never asked out, my friends that were girls said they were jealous of my looks sometimes, but i could never get a boyfriend. honestly, i met my boyfriend online, on espinthebottle.com. i wasnt expecting it, i only went on the site because i was bored one day, but he IMed me and we hit it off. once we met, he thought that i was kidding that i didnt have a boyfriend, but i wasnt. he was even more suprised when i said yes when he asked me out. i had spectators before my boyfriend, like the honkers and random guys who'd whistle at me but never a boyfriend.

nothing is wrong with you but guys might either think that you're out of his league or that you're probably taken. and guys you're type, i dont know what your type is, but maybe you need to expand hat your ideal type is if it is too detailed. and maybe you're looking in the wrong places for guys your type. if you like athletic guys, go to a gym so scope for guys.

well, hope i helped any
X Mecha Becca X

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Okay, I know this is an odd question, but what does everybody think of Avil Lagvine? What happened to her after her second album? And is it just me or did she become a big poser?

Thanks.

i think her second album was better than the irst but i really didnt like it too much. she is poserish because she trys so act all punk when she is really more popish in her music. and she got married i think. that's why she kinda disappeared from the music scene. but she didnt go away completely because she was the voice of a possum i think it was in the movie over the hedge.

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my uniform for school is cacki pants and a white polo. i dont wanna wear sneakers with it .. i wanna wear flats, like moccasins or something. does that look good? and where could I get some flats at a good price that are cute, and a nuetral color, like brown or black. thanks in advance

i got the CUTEST black flats from target not too long ago. i wear them all the time and they did not cost much at all. i think they were $12. thry math with practically anything and they are durable. and come in white too i think [but i liked the black better]

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i got this book on christianity by miles mcphearson and it says i should get a christian mentor to help me understand the religion more because i just moved i cant ask a friend so i need someone on here who is willing to put up with a very dumb person when it comes to god.please be willing to put up with me for a long time and i want to do it through email so please help!!!!

~nikki~

email me at xAskkMechaBeccax@aim.com or IM me on AIM at xAskkMechaBeccax. Im on like all the time and check my emails often. ill help you out.

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Really, I asked many people what the definition of soul is, and everybody starts saying his own crap. Soul, is something you cant see, something you cant touch. I dont want to know what soul is not.
people will start saying that soul is your imagination, your choices, antywyas jsut say what you think.

i personally say that the soul is your inner self, who forms who you are as a human being.

but haha. i looked it up on the urban dictionary and here's what i got:

1)Currency to trade with the devil

2)Some mystical version of a person that lives on after the body dies

3) The essence of a human. The persona, the collected experiences that create a person current/most recent feelings.

4)Put simply: One's ability (or lack thereof) to dance. Almost always embodied by afro's, much more so in whites nowadays.
[haha. thought this was funny so had to add it]

5)a religious concept of an immortal individual conciousness, the mind superimposed on an invisible and supposedly indestructible and universal substance called "spirit."

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When you're on your period, you're supposed to be eating a lot more than you usually do, right?

i dont.
i eat like normal.
i just tend to get cravings.
thats it though.

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(not sure if this is in the right category, if not SORRY!) anyway my big problem is i had my FIRST ever period on July 5th, and i havn't had it since! i'm really really worried. and i've never had sex so it wouldn't be that i'm pregnant. (i'm 14)

also, i'm pretty sure it was a period and not my hymen broke. because it lasted for 4 days.

please help me, i've been worried since august 20th! thanks.

dont worry. since you're just starting, it wont come regularly. it may take some time before it even comes close to being on a normal schedule. ive been having mine for two years now and it still changes on me from time to time. i even get it twice in a month every now and then. dont sweat it. you are not pregnant. its fine. you'll get it soon enough.

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Dude, alright i live in missouri and I went to a walgreens to purchase some condoms and i am 15. so i was at the check out and the lady said "i'm not going to sell these to you" and i said "uhm lady why not?" and she said "you are too young to be having sex and im not gunna sell these to you" then she put it in the bag to be put back on the shelf...so yah is that legal? (she lectured me for about a 1/2 hr on the subject so please dont lecture me as well

p.s. i rate for good answers

that is illegal, and if you wanted, you could get her fired for not selling them to you. there is no law saying that you cannot buy them so whay the hell should she be able to say you cant? is she above the law? i think not. you go back to that walgreens and if she stops you, talk to the manager.

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ha ha thanks for the advice on the kissing i do get on top of him casue we are on his bed ha ha but yea im 15 and hes 18 but i like you i have 0 experience! but my fisrt time when he was teaching me we were in a hot tub and we like started to go under the water soo ha but thanks i will try

yea. i eventually learned and my kissing got better. my first kiss was on his birthday before we were dating.he likes it when i get on top of him and sometimes i randomly come over and sit on his lap sometime and start kissing him. now that i've learned frim him, i dont ways wait for him to make a move, i do myself sometime. and he may get a "flashlight" ,as he calls it, in the process.

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okay.


does anyone remember the show that was on tv .. probably early morning about 5 years ago. it was on TLC but it could have been on other channels.

it was a man who would draw a picture with a black marker first then color it in. it was kind of like a drawing entertainment show.

i would really like to know what this show was called!

SOMEBODY HELP! thank you.

sorry to burst your bubble Bam but it wasnt that. BUT I REMEMBER THAT SHOW!!! omfg i wish i could remember the name. sorry i wasnt much help.

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Hey im 15/f and im kinda new to the whole making out thing and i kinda just started but it was with an 18 year old so he knows more but what are some tips that would impress him, toung,hands,ect? guys- what are some things that you like girls to do to you when you make out and do things
please hurry
thanks!
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yay. im experienced here so i can totally help. i am 14, 15 soon, and im going out with an 18 year old. my experience level was a 0 when we first started going out. haha. i headbutted him acidentally during our first KISS, not even makeout. once we started making out, i got better. he likes my booty so sometime if we're standing up, i grab his hands and place them on my butt, so he can squeeze. lol. as for tounge, use the back to move, not always the front, and dont just move it circles the whole time. let it come naturally. your hands can be like around his neck or his waist. or if on the chance you're in his room, on his bed, you can be sexy and climb ontop of him. he'd love that.

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ok.. i dont know much about sex and stuff so i was wondering if u can tell me what masturbation is and what oral sex is.. ok thanks..

according to the urban dictionary,

oral sex:
A very enjoyable part of love-making, in which the mouth, lips and tongue are used to stimulate a partner's genitals. Technically it relates to the act between any permutation of the sexes, but it is most commonly used to refer to a woman going down on a man.

masturbation:
The act of touching oneself to produce a favorable feeling in the groin area. Usually accompanied by some sort of mental, visual, or audio stimulation to assist in reaching climax.

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Well, I recently got a boyfriend, and my mom doesnt know. She is kindof uneasy about that kind of stuff, and I dont know how to tell her, in a nice manner. any ideas??

wow. try serving it to like 200 little kids and their parents for like 4 hours and each one having chocolate syrup, sprinkles, and a cherry i did for volunteering an now i cannot eat the stuff. i get sick looking at it. its terrible.

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ok so alot of people my age have had there first kiss and alot more but i have not actualy had a real bf is this normal i mean i am just really nervous around guys when it comes to that stuff cause i am just scared i will do something wrong or something and i am in this long distance relationship but i kinda lied to him about what "base" i've gotten to like 1st base 2nd base 3rd base and so on now i told him the farthest i have ever gotten was making out but i have never even kissed a guy or been kissed what do i do should i try to get a guy out here to like me and try to get experience before me n my long distance bf meet???i mean i know he is not some 30 year old rapist cause he is friends with my sister cause they met in 4th gradeso please any advice will help please help me i need help??

haha. this brings me memories. im 14/f

i had my first kiss earlier this summer.
june 22 to be exact.
it was on my boyfriend's birthday
but before we were going out.
i was EXTREMELY nervous.
i ended up headbutting him.
it was embarassing for me and painful for him.
he still jokes me about it, 2 months later.

just relax. guys would love it if you kiss them.
and be careful with long distance relationships.
he might not turn out to be who he says,
like maybe not age wise but personality too.
as for practice, try on your hand.
but kisses should come naturally.

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im probably not going to have sex for a VERY long time but im just curious - does it hurt?

coming from a 14/f, it hurt the first time like pretty badly but after that, it was all pleasure.

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Is there anybody on this site who can tell me their story about losing their virginity when they were young(12-15)and not regreting it? It doesn't have to be first hand accounts either, it may be stories you heard from other people too.

im 14 and my boyfriend is 18
i lost mine this summer to my current boyfriend.
i dont regret it at all.
cuz i love him more than words can tell.

it hurt real bad at first.
second time was much better.

we both love eachother and it was a great thing.
our relationship does NOT revolve around sex.
its just a bonus.
we're all about the love.

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Okay, I know that just about everyone on this site (or atleast the girls) has at one point thought about what to name their kids one day, so I need your help. I need boy & girl name suggestions middle names would be helpful too. Thankyou guyss I appreciate it.

my daughter's name is going to be:
eden elizabeth (lastname)

my son's is going to be:
brandon thomas (lastname)

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I babysit a one year old and he wont stop crying! The only time he is happy is when I am holding him but after a while I can't because my arms are way too tierd. Any suggestions?

omfg i was in your situation with a little 1 and 1/2 year old named taylor. she would cry her head off if i wasnt holding her. my arms got tired after a while but i looked for toys that she liked to settle her. a waffle also make her calm down. as his mom which o his toys are his favorite and what food he likes best.

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