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Im Holly. Im 17 years old and im here to help, so ask me anything. I would love to help you.

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ok im 13 female and i cut myself but not as much as i ust to i mean i havent in a week or 2 but my best friend betray me and my ex. bf still likes me and i dont no wat to do cuz his best friend makes me feel bad and i just tell myself not to cut becuz i dont want to but sometimes i have to like its the only thing i can count on to help me but i realli dont want to tell anyone so i dont no wat do can you help me?

AHHHH!! PLEASE dont do it again i stopped and i kno it was bad for me and now practically everyone of my friends kno about it and are yelling at me and saying im goin to kill myself so that is something you do not want to get caught up in so stop and i was around your age (13) when i started and now im 14 and i stopped just throw away everything that you can cut yourself with and dont have people kno about it so they can remind you about it and make you want to do it this is not a good thing to do so please STOP!!

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Hey, I want one of those livestrong braclets except I want one for breast cancer. Where can i get them and how much are they?

you can get them at the mall or at target or a store like that and they dont cost that much probally no more than 5 or 6 dollars

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hi!! omg..in the middle of the night of when im in bed and i stretch..i get a cramp on the bottom of my left or right leg and it hurts like hell. i swear to God it hurts so bad i want to yell but it hurts to bad to yell and i just hold it and its like rock hard i dont know what to do and the pain is just soo unbearable im like OWWWW oh godd....soemoen please help me i dont wanna get another one!! and they happen outta nowhere! someone please please help me!

that happens to me too and ur right it does hurt like hell!! i get them in the middle of the night and it usually happens to me when i run a lot i just get up and stand on it EVEN THOUGH IT HURTS && walk around then go take some motrin or tylenol or something for pain

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I'm going on a school trip Wed-Fri. and I've got my period the heaviest it's ever been. It's like I have to change my pad every hour. I've never gotten cramps and now I have them really bad. During the trip we are going to make a couple rest stops off the bus. I can't put a pad in my pocket because it will be obvious..This is going to ruin my whole trip! I won't feel well and all my friends are going to have fun. I can't bring medicine either...it isn't allowed. I might have to wear a couple pads at once and like two pairs of underwear until I can quitely try to change it. Please help me get through this because I don't know what to do! I will remember this trip forever too. =/

bring tampons they are easier to hide! but if u dont want to or dont use tampons then try to bring like a purse or bag or somthing but i think tampons are way easier to use!

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i just turned 14 and in janurary or feburary i got my first period. now its april and i havent had it since, i know irreguar periods are normal but for this long?!?!

its completly normal dont worry about a thing it will become more regular the longer you have it

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I am a tennis player and i play everyday except friday(sometimes) and I am on my school tennis team.. but my shoulder has been killing me!.. If I hit hard it pops.. and when I put my hand on it and move it I can feel my bones rubbing together!.. what is it?.. Is it serious?.. Are there anythings that may help the pain?

go see a doctor he might give you exercises to do to stop the popping and rubbing together hope its nothing serious!!

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im 15 and i still have an A cup... all my friends have like huge boobs and i have no idea how to make mine any bigger!! how can i?!

padded bras help but theres no way to make your boobs bigger without getting surgery

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Hey. I'm 13 years old and in 8th grade at the moment. Right now I'm registering for high school classes for next year. I'm definitely taking Latin 1. Since there aren't very many honors classes for freshmans, I think I want to take Spanish 1 also (it's not a honors class. I want to take it because I think I can use it a lot in the real world or w/e). My question is, do you think I should take 2 languages?

Thanks.

if u think you could handle both languages at one time then go for it but if your not so sure you might want to hold off on taking them at the same time

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This is REALLY stupid I know, but I feel like I dont have a big enough butt. Is there anyway to get your butt plumper looking?

hah padded undies lol sorry thats funny you should be proud of the junk ya got in ur trunk lol

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Hey, i play for an AAU basketball team and im in charge of making the teams warm up cd and i have no clue what to put on it! If anyone has any ideas of good songs to put on the cd plz let me no! Were all into the whole hip hop thing, and were all over 17, cussing is not a problem. Thanks much :)

you totally need whoop there it is!! lol

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hey there. im thinking about using proactive for my zits. the ones i usually get are either small painful ones, and these huge, cystic ones. they scar, and i have so many scars on my face from acne..and i was wondering if proactive works for both the little ones and the big lump ones that are really painful and beneath the skin, does anyone know what i mean? well if anyone has any personal experiences with the zits im talking about, and/or proactive, please help me!! im just wondering if proactive is right for my kind of skin? thank you!!

it does work but sometimes your skin does not react to it or it takes a while for the results to show up but i know a lot of people who use it and love it because it helped them so much and yes they work for any size zit or anything like that

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hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx

ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever

some people change their whole personalitly and their clothes style how they wear their hair normally and their interests in after school things

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I've been wanting to ask, what's emo? I've heard it a lot, but don't have a clue as to what it is, and nobody would tell me because they are such teases.

EMOtional music

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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention?

ignore him for a while he might get the hint if he doesnt then tell him you feel like he doesnt care about you

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I'm 14 and I already lost my virginity... Is that normal?

lately it is normal but you shouldnt loose your virginity already im 14 too and im not goin to have sex so yea it is normal but you SHOULD NOT DO IT!!!!

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Ok so i have this friend that is like totally obsessed with HERSELF!! alls she talks aobut is how pretty much every guy in the school likes her and they really dont or they r just nerdy and gay! so yeah i want to tell her to just shut up and care more whats going on with our relationship and less aobut boys and being popular and all taht jazz. She always talks aobut how she has so many friends when in reality every1 hates her and if she just opened her eyes she could see to that she is losing every friend taht she has. Please help me

tell her!!! tell her just what u told me maybe then she might take the clue and start realizing that people do really hate her and that she does talk about herself to much and all the people that she think like her the key to solve something is bring it up and talk about it if i didnt answer your question fully then IM me or ask me again in my inbox and ill help you again

x3 hOlly leE

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Alright i have a few friends that are awesome to hang out with and everything but now they are telling me that they cut...not always but once in a while i guess i was too scared to really ask...and now i dont know what to do...i dont want to make it serious because i dont want one of my friends to hate me...but they might just call me stupid and stuff because i never dont anything like that. i'm very scared and i dont know what to do. if you can please help me because i dont know if i can handle seeing them tomorrow without breaking down in tears because i'm so scared. Thank you so much.

honestly i think you should tell them about it i have friends who cut and i was one of the first that did it and everyone just started doing it cuz they thought it was cool ITS NOT! it hurts and just leaves scars && dont start doing that either! if they make fun of you for telling them your not comfortable with it then just forget them and try to find other people to hang out trust me this is not something you want to get caught up in

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ok so i was being really stupid but i was talking on the phone and trying to straighten my hair at the same time when i accidentally burnt myself right below my chin!! it looks so bad, so does anyone know how to cover it up or get it not to scar!! please help!

put a cover up over it or a foundation or powder or whatever and to get it to not scar DONT PICK IT if u do it is most likely going to scar and try not repeating this again! lol

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If you walk 1 mile how many calories do you burn?
If you run 1 mile how many calories do you burn?

go to www.toneteen.com and it will tell you how many calories you burn doing anything from walking to brushing your teeth u just have to type in how long u do it for and your weight and it will calcualte it for you hope i helped! any furthey questions put them in my inbox

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ok i have stretch marks on my legs (15/f) and i was wondering how the heck do i get rid of them? summers comming up and i dont want to be seen in a swim suit with stretch marks on my hip/legs...
please help i rate high

cocoa cream helps but they wont dissapear completly they will still be somewhat visible

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