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ok im 13 female and i cut myself but not as much as i ust to i mean i havent in a week or 2 but my best friend betray me and my ex. bf still likes me and i dont no wat to do cuz his best friend makes me feel bad and i just tell myself not to cut becuz i dont want to but sometimes i have to like its the only thing i can count on to help me but i realli dont want to tell anyone so i dont no wat do can you help me?
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Don't cut - honestly, it's really not cool, and it only helps for like a maybe a week, tops, and then you're down again. Whats so good about that? And then you end up with scars that won't go away and people giving you those "knowing" looks where they think they know what you've been through just because of the scars you have. The best things you can do is 1. get a counselor or shrink or something and talk about your problems, it helps, 2. talk to your best friend and try to make up with her 3. if you like your ex, go for it, screw his best friend, he's probably an asshole (pardon the language). I hope I helped some..
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hey well it'll be alright. You know you have to stop. Get away from anything you can use to cut yourself. Take it one day at a time. There are other ways to ease your pain. You dont have to inflict it on yourself. Confide in someone. If you really cant stop on your own then please find someone you trust anyone you trust and tell them. You could even admit yourself to a hospital if it goes that far.not doing it as much as you used to is a little comforting. email or im me on aim (secretzxXxwithin)if you need someone to talk to.
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AHHHH!! PLEASE dont do it again i stopped and i kno it was bad for me and now practically everyone of my friends kno about it and are yelling at me and saying im goin to kill myself so that is something you do not want to get caught up in so stop and i was around your age (13) when i started and now im 14 and i stopped just throw away everything that you can cut yourself with and dont have people kno about it so they can remind you about it and make you want to do it this is not a good thing to do so please STOP!!
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Well I went through the same thing...and it sucks! But yea...what Im about to tell you might sound really weird but it worked for me! OK, I know that it might be really hard to stop cutting but just think...if you don't stop now then you might not ever be able to stop! Instead of cutting try wrighting poems or on a piece of paper just wright everything and everyone that you hate and the things that you just can't handle anymore, basically just wright down all your anger, but don't let anyone see it...and after you are really sure that u have let all that anger out on that piece of paper...burn it!(just don't get anything of fire)Because if you don't burn it and you find it again then you might start to cut again! So yea just burn it! Just no more cutting anymore!
Hope I Helped!
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You are just a selfish person that has to inflict pain upon yourself b/c you are to timid to stand up and just take it. Just suck it up, no one really cares about you, you just have to except that fact and say 'Fuck it, don't mean nothing' and get on with your life. Deep down inside you're just mad at yourself for being a failure, you have no life and no friends, suck it up, get off your ass and start doing something better with your time than just feeling sorry for yourself.
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i cut 2..i try and stop but i cant...i seem like im the only person who understands me..but music sometimes helps me..music helps me get through a lot things......i can relete to alot of it...hope i helped
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i know what you mean because my freinds used to cut but i helped them stop because cutting yourself isnt healthy what i told them to do is insted of takeing it out on themselves take it out on like a piece of paper (crumple it up, rip it,ect.) or you could start to play a sport so you dont have time to stay home and feel alone and it gets you to met new people and keeps you fit!
i hope i helped! feel free to ask anymore questions or if u just want to talk to someone emial my inbox!
~cam
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Cutting isn't going to solve anything. It makes you feel worse. You have to hide and lie to people you love, and that doesn't do anything for you. There are so many more productive ways to let out how your feeling. Cutting isn't the only thing there for you. Try writing in a journal, exercising, ripping up paper, or talking to someone. Try talking to a guidance counselor at school, a trusted friend, or a therapist. It's good that you've realized something's wrong. If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to IM me or send me a message. ♥ Kristen
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Cutting yourself is not a good way to deal with your problems. A lot of people feel that they need to do this to let out their agression and that hurting themselves makes them feel better, but there is a better way to let out your feelings. If you don't have any friend that you feel you can talk to about this, you might want to think about talking to a psychologist. There's nothing wrong with it! when I was 14 and 15, I went to talk to a psychologist everyday: it really helped me resolve my issues and feel more confident about my life and decisions. I feel that this might really help you out. Hope I helped. Good luck in the future!
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First things first, STOP cutting yourself. You don't need these people if they make you feel like you want to do this! Also, I think that maybe you should talk to someone about this problem with cutting yourself! Please don't cut yourself! Hope i helped!
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