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E-mail: shutupnkissme101
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, MO
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 21, 2007
Answers: 169
Last Update: November 5, 2007
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so theres this guy and we've been getting close but my friend said that he wants to hook up with me. or like he wanted to the last time he saw me or whatever. and like its not like i dont want to, its just i havent ever done it before. (just like make out) and so i dont know if i should because i might be bad at it and im scared... help please? (link)
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well you never know until you try right? its your first time, no one is going to be a perfectionist. just remember to be confident and only do it if you feel like your ready.
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Whenever I watch a very romantic movie, when you can just see the passion the two characters have for each other, I get overwhelmed and start crying.
For example, in the movie When Harry met Sally, at the end, when he goes to that party and admits to Sally that he loves her, I had tears running down my face and I felt a slight squeeze on my heart.
I do have a crush on this guy (I think I might be in love, I've liked him for almost four years, and it seems like my love for him is growing stronger by the year). I always get so happy when I imagine him saying those things to me.
Why do you think I am crying? If it's because of the guy, do you think I'm in love? There's just this huge bundle of emotion in me right now, and sometimes when I watch or hear something it triggers that bundle to tear a little and the next thing I know tears are running down my face. I never sob though (like I do when I am sad or angry). I just need to know what's wrong with me. I was never like that. (link)
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there isnt anything wrong with. teenagers have a very high hormone level. new hormones are coming into your body and causing you to have different emotional levels. this could be related to your feelings with this guy, so you should talk to him and get to know him better. maybe you actually start a relationship with him.
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so school start on tuesday and im going shopping this weekend to get stuff but i have no idea what i want to wear for the first day of school! any ideas?
i like to shop at:
hollister
abercrombie
delias
american eagle
macys
im going into 9th gradee. im about 5'2'' and around 100 lbs. i guess i could be considered preppy and i kinda want something plaid and something a little summer-y. thanks soooo muchh (link)
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try a cute jean skirt (not to short) with a layered tank top or a plain t-shirt. if you have some platform sandals that would match wear those or some regular flip flops. you want to look good but not like your trying to hard. you dont want to go in wearing prom dress, haha.
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I just found out my cat has worms. I know my dad is going to Petsmart today to get some stuff so she can throw them all up.
But where did she get them? What do they do to her? What can we do to prevent it from happening again? (link)
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after a week or so if you still notice the worms are there take your cat to the vet and they will give it medice to get rid of the worms and also medicine to prevent her from getting them again.
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hey
so i was wondering if you guys could give me a list of like....hip hop'ish dance moves
like ones that go along with songs and stuff
like walk it out
and pop lock and drop it
stuff like that
THANKS! (link)
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http://www.urban-dance-videos.com/
http://music.aol.com/video/walk-it-out/unk/playlist/hip-hop-dances/1737877
http://www.expertvillage.com/interviews/hip-hop-dance.htm
here are some websites with vidoes that you can learn to dance with. i lokked for hip hop ones because thats what you seem to like.
response to feedback: okay alot of the videos say the names and you didnt specify in your questions that you only wanted the names of the moves.
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I'm 14, female, weighing 91 pounds, height around 5'1". I'm not overweight at all, in fact I'm a little underweight. I'd really like to gain at least a few pounds, because I'm really thin and I don't really have much of a figure.
What could I do to gain some weight all over my body? Not muscle, really, I just want to fill myself out a little bit more. (link)
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eat a lot of protein and potassium. things like eggs, cheese, milk, bananas.this will help you bulk up a bit especially if youo do dome push ups and sit ups=. i know you said you dont want muscle nessacarily but this way you will be gaining healthy weight instead of just fat. protein builds muscle so you will have more energy.
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and I don't know anyone anyway i can make an impression? (link)
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always be confident with yourself. dont be afraid to go out and talk to other people. find a table at lunch and just ask if you can sit with them. your new so they will be interested to see what you are all about. ask questions about the school and the town. what they usually do on the weekends? where are some good hang out spots? just be friendly and make conversation with anyone you can.
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So my boyfriends birthday is tomorrow.He's turning 19.I already got him a shirt && shorts from AE.Personally, I don't like it, But my mother picked it out.I told him I already got his gift and he kept trying to get me to tell him what I got him.For example.. "Is it used or new" "Can I use it over and over again" ..etc. I told him I wasn't going to tell him though.Then I went on to asking.. well what DO YOU WANT?.. that I would consider whatever he wanted.And he wanted me to ressure him that I would.And he said.. "BOW CHICA WOW WOW" meaning.. (sex) It's been 4 months and it would be our 5 month on the 9th.Anyways and I was like SCUSEEE MEE? haha and he said he'd put that off the list.He's been wanting that for awhile now, But obviously it hasn't happened.I'm still a virgin and I'm not even trying to consider it right now.I'm 16.. i'd be 17 in a couple months.Soo, I don't know if I'm wrong for not giving it to him or what.I know if he was a good boyfriend he'll wait.. yeah I know that, But the thing is I tease alot and he recently has too.. I guess it seems unfair on my part for kind of leading him on.. does that make sense?? I don't mean to do that though, just I like doing it.Is it wrong of me to do that?We did all the other stuff and what not, But seems like it's not enough I guess.Sooo any suggestions to what to do.I know only I can decide to what to do and what not.I just want some opinions that's all.Thanks again whoever answers. :] (link)
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just remember that it is your body and only you know when your ready. it sounds like you want to hold off for awhile so just tell him that. say sometihng like its not that i dont want to give it to YOU, im just not ready to give it up at all yet. im sure he understands and was joking around about the birthday present. sure all guys want sex but most ARE willing to wait if they know that you just arent ready for it yet. its okay to tease him a little bit since you guys are doing other stuff to hold him over just dont push it over the line, where he thinks you just wont have sex because you like to tease him.
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I tried a tampon today but i CAN'T get it to go in...I don't know what I'm doing wrong! I read the directions and checked it out on a web site and was relaxed and stuff but it just didn't work! I tried 2-3 times but still nothing worked! I know they're great and I really want to be able to use them but i don't know! Today was my friend's pool party but i couldn't swim and it sucked and i really need help! Please if anyone could give me advice i REALLY need some! Thanks! :D (link)
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try putting your foot up on the bath tub or toilet seat. angle toward your lower back. insert it slowly and dont puch to hard. it might hurt the first couple times until your body gets used to it. practice a couple times when you arent on your period to get better. also you might have a size that is to big for you. try an ultra slim or slim.
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I'm going to be a freshman on monday, and i dont know anyone at the highschool cause I moved. I realllly want to make a good first impression, so this is what I was thinking.
-My fave blue jeans from hollister
-A cute tanktop with an undershirt
-flip flops
-and then the bag ill probly carry is like a tote from hollister.
is that ok? is it too dorky or what? I need your opinions =] (link)
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that outfit sounds cute. just be confident. highschool really isnt that scary. the older kids arent going to pick on you like in the movies. remember to keep your head up and smile. dont hunch over, sit up straight and you will look more confident with yourself.
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this guy rekons ive been making stuff up about him and he is going to get me smashed/bashed.
my parents and friends say dont worry about it and that nobody will touch me.
do people just say stuff to scare you? (link)
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go up to him and say, listen...i dont know who was making things up about you but it was NOT me. tell him that you could try and find out who it was but it wasnt you. make it seem like you are on his side about the whole thing. be confident, dont let him think that you are weak. most likely he just messing around but there is always a chance he is really angry. if he keeps threatening you talk to your counseler at school and get switched out of his classes. avoid him and his friends as much as possible. im sure he will forget about the whole thing in a few days.
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So i had a crush on this guy for like a whole year and he has a crush on me . he asked me out and i said "no" . well because i knooww im not ready for a relationship. Now its summer, and i just figured out... well , i dont like him. He was a big flirt and, now that i think about it, i am so better than him and hes not the type i want. A complete jerk, thats what he was. But now that i dont like him ; i see that. So im going back to school on monday and he sent a message to me saying tht ' he can wait to see me and he missed me' pshh ahah yeah right. he missed my body , thats how perverted he is. now, how am i supposed to tell him without hurting his felings or telling him straight up that he is a; perve,jerk,not my type, douche bag, wanna-be, ''in my pants'' , guy!? .
now that would be harsh. But true. I dont want to say it like that though. Any advice on a nicer way to tell him hes not my type and to stop flirting with me? (link)
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just say, look your a pretty cool guy and i liked you for awhile but i have moved on and i just dont think your my type. if he keeps pushing it then just ignore him and let him know that your definetly not interested. he should get the point.
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so all of the boys at my school are so preverted. is that normal for boys or are they just like taht around me? (link)
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ALL guys are perverted! trust they only get worse as you get older. but dont let them bother or hurt your feelings. boys just have a more agressive approach to flirting sometimes. usually if a guy is being perverted a lot around you, then he probably likes you.
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i THINK i started my 1st period, but I'm not sure. Like for about 2 or 3 days i kept finding brown marks on my underwear (and no they werent skid marks) and by the end of the 3rd, beigining of the 4th about it started turnigng a little red, but then it stopped. The weird thing is, the stuff would be on my underwear, but i never actually saw anything like come out if you know what i mean. So, I'm not sure?? (link)
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its probably your period. the brown stuff was most likely blood but you just didnt notice it until it was dried because it was such a small amount. write the date down and check for your period in about a month but if it doesnt come dont worry. the first couple years of your period will be very irregular and different every month.
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on june 6th 2006 it was supposed to be a very unlucky day and on july 7th 2007 it was suposed to be lucky
what will august 8th 2008 mean (888) and what will september 9th 2009 mean (999)
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im not sure about july 2007 or so on but June 6th 2006 was supossed to be the day of the devil. 666 is supossedly the devils number or his sign. so poeple thought that it was an unlucky day. i have never heard any superstitions of the other dates you mentioned though.
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my hair just naturally flips out at the ends, and its really annoying me. are there any ways i can get rid of it?
i have a straightener and i know i can use that, but it takes so long because my hair is so stubborn and i can never really tell if i did it right.
thanks♥ (link)
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try getting some hair gel. get your hair wet and rub a tiny bit of the gell all over the tips of your hair where it flips out. style it so that it is straight and it should stay and it doesnt take long at all. also it doesnt damage your hair like straightening it will.
gel WONT make your look crispy or crunchy if you get it wet first and only use a small amount like i said before.
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15/f here.
Recently I was crushing on someone who might have worked out. I talked to their female friend, came out to them and had a long discussion on -AIM- about stuff. Turns out the friend is a lesbian, too.
Told her about the crush on her friend, and she told me a load of irritating personality traits and all, and so I've basically decided this crush will end up crushing me if I decide to go after her because of sheer incompatibility, and the fact that she's pretty much asexual..
Now I've gotten the first few warning signs from myself that I might be falling for her. Which is sort of sleazy considering the fact I liked her friend to begin with. I'm not one of those lusty people (ok, RARELY), and I always have strong emotional ties.
Would it be a bad thing to go after her? Share any thoughts or ideas, please. (link)
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dont be afraid to reach out to the first girl you liked. even though you think you guys may clash you would be surprised how much opposites attract. but if you really do like this new girl then just talk to her and explain how much you have grown to like her. let her know that you dont usually go from girl to girl so quickly but that you just really started to like her. alls i can say is follow your heart and do what you know is write.
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Does anyone know the name of this song?
"I will go down with this ship
I won't put my hands up
And surrender, there will
Be no white flag above
My door, I'm in love and
always will be" (link)
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it is named "White Flag" by Dido.
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im really curious about sex i want to do it and know what it feels like i dont know what to doi think about it a lot any ideas?? (link)
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try not to think about it so much. just know that when the time is right it will happen. but dont just leap into something just because your curious. wait until you are ready mentally and physicaly until you decide to have sex. also dont just go with the first guy that asks. wait until you really care about the guy and think your going to be with him for awhile.
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hi friends ,my girlfriend is still a virgin and me too but we have some oral some times, last week i met her and touched her vegina in and out as well,acidently i touched her whole but tht was just a soft touch and nothing else, but next day she told me that she had a period and regular bleeding,and she had her period 12 days back only .so we both are worried about this unusual period , she had this bleeding for 2 days but in more heavy flow.plz tell us what could be the reasion , is it normal or she have some problem ???thanks for any reply (link)
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the first couple years a girl has her period it wont always come at the same time every month. one month it could be a heavy flow for 2 or 3 days then then next month could be really light for a week. dont worry it doesnt have anything to do with findgering.
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