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Hello guys and girls, welcome to my advice page!I guess you can say I am a born advice giver, my family and friends all ask me for it, its kind of a gift! I really love helping others, its what i was born to do and people like oprah and tyra banks inspire me so much! I don't give advice based on what i feel i give it on the basis of what is right, just and moral. I think that is so important, to give advice free of bias!
I like giving advice mainly on relationships and to people with low self esteem and basically anyone who is genuine in wanting some help!
I have seen a lot of the world, i have helped lot of people with a lot of different problems so i do give quite good advice!! :)
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My boyfriends brother is really cute and well when i am at my boyfriends house and he is there i cant help but be attracted to him!!! It that bad, just because i feel attracted to him does it mean that i should break up with my boyfriend. I dont think i like him, i really like my boyfriend but all my friends think his brother is hotter. Also his brother tried to kiss me behind my boyfriend back last week... is this bad and should i tell my boyfriend? Or should i confront his brother about it? HELP!!!!
Its perfectly ok to feel attracted to your boyfriends brother, its natural as you are growing up and you have a lot of extra hormones running around your body!!!
I think the biggest issue that i want to solve is the fact that he tried to kiss you. He had no right to do this to you AND least of all to his own brother. He needs to be told that this kinda of behaviour is unacceptable and he cant go around kissing other peoples partners!!!
I think you should tell his brother, just keeping it between you and him, that you did not appreciate him trying to fool around with you when he knew perfectly well that you were his brothers girlfriend!
Tell him this and do it quickly, he needs to know...
my computer crashed so i needed to wipe it out and my itunes got deleted....once i download itunes back on it...how can i get all my songs from my ipod back on the itunes.
thanks in advance
i dont know about all music, but if you have bought your music from itunes online and have them on your ipod, itunes will automatically recognise them and when you connect your ipod to your newly downloaded itunes it will ask you if you want to transfer purchased music from your ipod to itunes... that is what mine did when my computer crashed and i had to buy a new lap top!
I've never hung out at the mall before with my friends, and I want to basically hang out with my friends more before summer ends. um how do I bring it up, and how do I convince my parents to let us go? cause i'm a 13 year old girl, and sometimes my mom can be a tad overprotective. and also to other places.. where else can i hang out with my friends that would be fun? bowling alley? my house (its hard to do that since my mom doesn't like having people over when the house is messy and its like usually messy-ish)? and if my friends hang out at my house what fun things could we do? by the way, no swimming pool, trampolines.. or any fun things in the backyard. I mean, I just got Sims 2, so I guess we could do that.. but like other things to do. and how many people should I invite? I don't want too many, or too little.. thanks! cause I'm feeling a little out of touch with my friends, some whom I havent seen since school ended! by the way, most of my good friends dont even live in my neighborhood.
I can relate to you, my mum wouldnt let me go down the mall with my friends until i was 14! She would always say to me 'I trust you...BUT' so until i was 14 I had to be happy with the fact that I could have people over. What made my mum happier was if say Id help with the housework a day before my friends came over, I would go to the effort of cleaning my room and setting up, so she would feel better about them coming around. It is all about organisation with my mum!
Tell your mum that you want to have a hang out time with your friends and give her a few days notice, that way she will feel better about it. Help with the housework and she will be even happier!!!
As for what to do, the sims 2 could be fun but try and mix it up and do things that really involve EVERYONE at once. Why not a bit of craft? My girlfriends and i love that, or cooking is always fun! Board games are good, how about singing contests, maybe you could even give each other makeovers and take photos and make scrapbooks! The stuff you could do is endless!
As for them not living in your neighbourhood maybe you could call them and arrange some way for them to get to your house, its all about giving them a lot of notice, like a week, before you invite them over to get organised.
In time your mum will become used to seeing you with your friends and if you keep showing her you are mature and responsible she will loosen up, it just takes time and I know for a fact that shes like the way she is because she loves you!!!
Hope that everything goes well, just relax and have a fun time with your friends!
I met my BF 6 months ago in a club and at the time i told him i had an italian background because i thought it was cool and i can get away with saying that cos i am dark.
now my parents are coming to see us next week and have refused to go along with the story, and i know he will raise it when we go out to dinner.
what shall i do? I really need advice!!
Ok well its obvious that your parents aren't going to go along with it, so on your behalf telling the truth is the best thing that you can do. Im sure he isnt going to break it off just because you are not italian...he loves you for you being you and not that you could have an italian heritage. If the topic does come up at dinner, casually laugh and mention that you really are unsure if you even have italian in the family and ask your parents infront of him about your origins. It creates conversation and interaction, he gets to find out about your REAL heritage and gets props from your folks who will love it that hes interested in the family! Trust me, he will enjoy the mini history lesson and your parents will love him all the more for listening!
I want to get rid of my lip hair. It's brown like my hair color and almost noticable. I am not interested in waxing it or shaving it, because i's gross when it grows back. (btw- i'm 13/f) My friend told me that she bleaches her lip hairs (her mom does it for her). She's the same age as me, but I was wondering if it was safe? And where can I get this 'bleach'? Are there any side effects? Is it expensive? Just let me know what you know about it. Thanks!
Bleach is definately the way to go! It is completely harmless and doesnt hurt a bit! Just make sure before your mum applies the bleach to the area you wash your upper lip WELL with really cold water. This closes the pores of your skin so that the bleach doesnt irritate the skin. First time i did this i made the mistake of washing it with HOT water and yes that did hurt a bit! Its safe, clean, cheap, easy to use and you will feel so much better with your hair bleached white! You wont be able to tell its even there anymore. Good luck with it!
is it true that you cant lose weight in your arms?? if not, does anyone know any specific excercises i can do at home to tone my arms and my legs? if you want direct me to a site. im really desperate and anything helps. thnx in advance =].
Ok arm time! The best exercise for your arms, 100 per cent fool proof way to tone is to stand about 60 cms from a wall. Put your arms out on the wall and lower yourself up and down. Repeat 3 sets of 15. Can you feel the burning sensation in your upper arm? Good, that means your'e doing it right! For your legs i suggest jumping on a bike and going for a ride for 15 mins, really going hard at it! If you dont have the time simply crank up some music, lie on your back with your legs up in the air and pretend to ride! It works!!! My legs got really tonned from just doing this 3 times a day, once in the morning, after school and before bed for 2 mins. Try these exercises, you will see results. And dont forget, everyones body is beautiful!
how should i go about it.
Instead of wanting to loose weight ( which you obviously do not need to...) why not kick start a healthy eating plan? Give it a go, try it out for a week and see how much better you look on the outside (brighter, happier, healthier!) and feel on the inside. If you want acess to a healthy eating plan don't hesitate to ask me and i'd be glad to help!
hey. well, i'm 14/f. well, i'm just gonna cut to the chase. i suck at talking to boys. i've just started high school, and i always see all these girls talking to guys and giving them hugs and stuff, but i'm just too shy and not good at talking to them. i know their just other people, but somehow i find that when i get around guys i tend to be mean and rebelious (sp). i'm not lesbian or bi or anything, but idk. there was this one guy last year in like all of my classes and i really liked him, and i mean a lot, and i could always talk to him pretty well, but he's not in any of my classes this year, and he has a gf, and i still like him. but idk. i just need some HELP! thanks!
Ok it seems that boys can be scary when your'e 14...
Take me for example. When i was 14 I'd find myself shaking at the site of a guy, especially ceratin guys who were classed popular, when i'd see them walking towards me in the hall. If they'd even so look at me id wonder 'oh no whats wrong, what do i have on my face, oh no is it a zit coming up, HELP!' and make a mad rush to the toilet to check!
When it all comes down to it, in reality... the more you worry the more 'un-approachable' you will come across and the less likely a guy will talk to you.
Talking to guys is so hard at first. You will stutter and think 'what next' constantly and im afraid to say as you get older it doesnt get any easier!
I know what its like when you see the confident girls getting hugs and getting attention from them but trust me, boys will start talking to you if you show them your'e a smart girl and have a lot to give in a friendship.
Take the step of sitting somewhere new in class one day, try raising your hand more in class discussion and getting your name known. From there is easy, just in the yard if they are playing sport join in, or compliment a boy which they love! If you have msn or computer chat try adding them on there and starting a conversation after school too, its a good conversation starter for the next day!
Good luck, and remember boys like it when you are yourself!
i'm 17/f. so lately i've been have a discharge down there.. it's like white and cottage cheesy i guess, but in like a clear liquid.. it doesn't smell or itch. i had my period 2 weeks ago, and i went to the gyno a week ago. i haven't had sex since then. what could it be? it doesn't hurt or anything.. i'm just wondering what it is.
One word, hormones. It is perfectly harmless and actually good, it shows your body is in perfect working order and you are producing hormonal fluids! Usually a couple of days before your period you will experience it, dont stress most girls go through the same thing so your'e not alone!!
how can i avoid making out with my bf. I mean he wants to make out all of the time. And i dont want to make it obvious that i dont want to. We are going to watch a movie together on wednesday .
If you have ideas please let me know.
Ok, well if this guy is your boyfriend its safe to say that you really like him right?
If the feeling is mutual, he should be liking being around you for you, and not wanting to touch you and be close to you 'in that way' all the time.
You need to work out if all he wants is to make-out with you and use you for this only OR hopefully he likes you for you and is happy just being close to you.
Making-out should be special and not something that becomes a chore. Mix it up a bit, kiss him spontaneously, kissing doesn't have to take place at a certain time and its better when it isnt anticipated! Thats the beauty of love so they say!
If the boy is using you for all the wrong reasons id give him the flick and look for a guy whos interested in talking to you, not just using your mouth for his own purposes!!!
Good Luck!
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So, im a BIG flirt. and everyone tells me I am. and most people that have heard about me think ihave had sex. most people do actually untill i tell them its just a rumor. in fact, i've never gone past making out. i really want to though. but i dont have a boyfriend and dont really want one, and i still want to be a flirt. so like where could i like hookup with someone? a party or something like that, without having to have a boyfriend?
and truthfully, im nervous, and i am almost positive i will freak out right before i give/recieve oral.
and so how can i overcome the nerves?
thanks in advance =)
Ok. Lets sort through the first part first off. Your reputation should be valued amoung one of your most prized posessions. No one, and i mean no one can take your dignity away from you but yourself. If people think that you have had sex and that you are willing to have sex with random guys, they are going to like you for the wrong reasons and dislike you for the wrong reasons. Liking you for the wrong reasons (think boys and 'oh shes easy!!') isnt really a good way to gain extra self esteem... and you might be missing the chance to get to know really awesome guys that might not want to talk to you coz they feel intimidated by what they've heard. Before anything I'd make sure i correct all the rumours about myself and make sure that no more rumours start.
Its ok to be a flirt, I'm a flirt, I like talking to boys in 'that way', its natural and fun and apart of being young! Dont let any girls make you feel bad about being friendly to boys.
Just hooking up or making out with someone is fine, i dont know your age but if your'e at a party and dancing with a guy i dont think its a problem and as long as you dont get a reputation for just pashing on at parties, its ok to do every now and again.
I think as far as oral goes, i would wait until you have found a boy that likes you for you and you love being with before you even think about giving/recieving oral. To do it with a random guy would not be the smartest at this stage, and of course its perfectly alright to freak out (trust me... this is coming from a girl who was totally grossed out by it when she first heard about it!!) it is actually not so bad when you have a wonderful guy that you love! Save your love and affection for the guy you meet that you know it wont be wasted on!
If you have any other worries make sure you speak to someone about it! Its better to be informed and make informed decisions than to be unaware and make bad ones, you'll thank yourself for waiting to give yourself to a guy in the long run, trust me!
Good Luck!