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Lately I have just been spending time with my brother because I am trying to get myself on the right track (in school off alchohal etc.) Am i doing the right thing by taking baby steps on bettering myself and not hanging out with friends?
you are doing the right thing by bettering yourself! i'm proud of you =) that's hard to do. but i don't know if you shouldn't hang out with your friends, like if they are having bad influences on you then i'd still be friends with them but not good friends that hang out all the time. try to get some new friends that are good influences on you, keep on bettering yourself! =)
I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.
alright well you could get like a bunch of magazines and maybe make a collage of like shoes? or something you like thats in the magazine. whatever. or you said you like archietecture and sculpting, so maybe if your friends birthday is comin up, or a special someone you have for valentines day, you could make a like sculpture of them. like get clay and make a bust (a sculpture from the shoulders up [i learned that in english today =)]) or well you sound artsy so maybe try just like free painting, paint what you see in your imagination and make it real..thats all i can really think of, hope i helped =)
i have this kitten, she's about 6 or 7months old, i've had her since she was born because she is the kitten of one of my other cats. anyway she's always had good health but recently she's been throwing up all her food. this happened two days ago and again tonight. she also has diarhea, gross i know. i recently switched food but we always switch the food so i dont know if thats the problem. the other cats are fine with the food. but i was wondering if there was anything i could give my kitten to settle her stomach??
ok well you said you switched foods so she might be allergic to something in that cat food. try switching back to one of your old ones and see if it does anything. i think you should deffinately take her to the vet and get things checked out because cats dehydrate very easily, especially kittens, so with her throwing up and having diarhea, she is deffinately not obtaining enough water. so like i said, take her to the vey SOON
I don't get it. I'm a guy and at my school girls arn't like omg he's so hot or wow. But...when i go to a different school like to visit friends or somthing all the girls are like giggling and all that stuff and i get like 10 numbers. I dont get it. If girls could please answer this question that'd be great. Thanks.
well your school sounds a lot like mine. see (i do this too) but when girls in my school see an unfirmilar guy we tend to think he's very hot and everyone wants to talk to him and get to know him. but like say the kid started to go to our school, girs lighten up about it and he's like 'old news' so thats probably what happened...sorry bud =(
This year has been rough.
I gave up on my best friend after saving her
life for the third time due to her heavy
drinking, I couldn't handle protecting her like
I did anymore. She was my very best friend,
moving on hurt so bad.
My boyfriend that I love cheated on
me, so of course we broke up. His new girlfriend
happens to be the girl he knew I hated more
then anything.
My great friend, Michael stepped in.
He became my big brother, my support system.
He was the only one that got me through losing
everyone. Well, he started to like me. Once I
told him I wasn't up for that after everyone
broke my trust, he left too.
Now I have nothing.
I'm alone all the time, I have other
friends but none of them come close to
those three. How do I step back up and
get on with life?
I used to be so outgoing and full of
life, I always had plans and people who
loved me. Now, No ones here.
What can I do?
i was in your shoes this summer. i know exactly how you feel. i think you should ya know talk to some girls that you are sorta friends with and start talking. and like if you guys have any classes or play sports or instruments or extracurricular activities have them over and be like "hey do you wanna come over and study for that test, or do you wanna come over and play basketball", etc. etc. or if there's like a volleyball or basketball game or hockey game be like "hey do you wanna go to the volleyball game together" ya know just start trying to make good friends and trust people, but not completely until you feel ready. also counsiling will help. don't get me wrong i don't think you need it but like it really helps to talk to someone. and if you need anything i.m. me at mjv422, i'll help you if you ever need anything. =)
Ok so, My best friend is going out withthe boy i like and she knew i liked him..and i was mad at her a first but now i dont know what to do please help me.
well alright. so pretty much she like stabbed you in the back. its happened to me before too so i know where your comin from. it's good that your not mad at her any more, cuz like i always say "don't sweat the small stuff." but like i know this isn't what you probably wanted to here but i think that you should just be happy for them you know. cuz like in a couple weeks you probably won't even like this kid anymore ya know what i mean, no need to get into a fight with your best friend over a guy you won't like in a couple weeks. but like if it's really bothering you just talk to her and be like, you know that i liked him so why are you dating him? just be really suttle about it don't make it go into an unnecisary(i have no clue how to spell that =]) fight. good luck tell me how it turns out x3
i have no idea why.. but when i sit, like the top part of the crack hurts.. like its a muscle or something i think. hmm i dont know why or how this happened :/
i get that all the time. if your athletic you might of fallen on it wrong or if you just fell or something. it will go away within a week
Dear Advisers,
Just call me scaredy, I'm female, age 17, and I'm really troubled... I stopped going to school because of my fears and I'm really scared... Its been 2 years already, almost 3. I really want to go back to school. But something is holding me back. Every time I meet my previous classmates, I feel insecure and I would sometimes run away from them literally. They are already in 2nd year college while I'm still in 12th Grade. I felt bad, now I am locking myself here in our house. I never went out for 4 months already... But I want to go back to school... So badly.... The only solution I can think of is that I move somewhere else... I hate here, I despise this place... But I will surely miss my parents, if I will move out. But if its the only thing that can make me go back to school, then I will... The only problem is.... I haven't told my parents yet... Also if I tell them, they will certainly say no... We are having financial problems recently and me moving could add up to that problem.... What should I do??? People have been telling me to fight my fears... But I can't... No matter what I do, I really can't... I can't....
well i think you should go to counsoling about your fears. i know even that may be scary but they really do help you and they know what they are doing. and about moving, if you have a family member that lives somewhere else call them up and ask if you could live with them so you could go to school there. then consult your parents about it. best of luck to you x3
Does sex feel the same for the guy and girl?
or does it have different feelings?
it feels different
22/f
Not sure if this is the right category so I am putting it in both
Ok I love my friends to death. But they can be real pain in the butt sometimes. I found out my friend *Carl has a major crush on me. He is sweet and nice but just not my type.Physically and mentally. I have made this clear that there is no way of us getting together. My best friend *Sally is always trying to get us by ourselves. Like going to get things just me and him or always sitting by him. It is annoying. Also I feel like it is leading him on which is wrong. What do i do? It makes me uncomfortable ever since I found out about it Do I try to find someone else to get them off my back?... like that is an easy task by itself.
i think you should tell sally basically what you told us. be like "ok sally i do not like carl he's nice but i don't feel that way about him and i'd appreciate it if you'd stop leaving us by ourselves because i don't want to lead him on"
Would masturbating me considered a sin? I guess this question would be for Christians or something, but it doesn't have to be...
it is considered a sin, but everyone does it. God will forgive you if you masturbate, don't worry
okay, so i like this guy, but there was an incident where he thought i liked him, and i did, but the incident had nothing to do with me liking him, so i just didn`t bring it up. well anyways, i`ve been talking to another guy, one that i`m kinda closer with, and now i never really talk to the guy i like, but for some reason, i still like him, &i can`t get over it. what should i do?
i think you should talk to the guy still like but just like be friends ya know, like hey whats up hows life we haven't talked in a while etc etc
17/M and wandering "What is the average length of the penis?" I've read many different things on the internet but I'm still not sure. So if I could get a few opinions then that would be awesome. Thank you very much for your time.
i'm pretty sure anywhere from 5-7 inches in average
my ex and i stopped talking completely for almost 4 months. and then he would start talking to me again just when i started moving on. and it would totally kill me because i still wanted to be with him. and now he has a new gf. and im in love with this guy but he lives in a different state than me and we are kinda together but not relle and my ex knows that i like love this guyy and yet now he decides he wants to be friends with me again and constantly do stupid little things that he knows makes me mad. its like everytime he thinks hes gonna lose me he wants to be my friend and get close to me again, but nvr be with me in a bf/gf relationship. and its pissing me off. i mean ill always care about him but i just dont know wat to do anymore? hes amazing and so funny and can always make me laugh no matter what. but i seriously dont know wat to do. because all my friends are like STOP! DONT TALK TO HIM! HES BAD NEWS. idk wat to do? help ... :\
funny thing cuz i pretty much have a guy doing the same thing to me. and it SUCKS. and yeah your friends can tell you to stop but both of us know that it's not possible. i think that you should just like enjoy the moment you know? when he talks to you, appreciate it, when he doesn't, who cares. you still have the guy in a different state. but maybe you should try like having a conversation with him and be like, what's up, like seriously why are you doing this.
over the weekend my best friend and i had the hugest fight we ever had, and weve been friends for 7 years now and i love her to death, but im tired of her taking advantage of me and taking me for granted. if im her BEST friend she should treat me the BEST. and she doesnt, so we made up at school today, but over the phone shes blowing me off again.. how do i get her to understand how selfish she is with out upsetting her *she upsets real easily*
she's not your friend. a best friend doesn't take advantage of you, hell, a FRIEND isn't suppose to take advantage of you. i think maybe you should be stand offish for a little just to like for some breathin room. then maybe talk to her about it and if she doesn't change her ways, then sweetie, it's time to let go because you deserve better than that and you know it
To start off, I'm 17. I live in Florida and I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He's totally sweet, caring and everything any girl could ask for. But I have one problem...he's 18 and lives in Delaware. I dated him a long time ago and broke up with him because of the distance, but to this day I still find myself thinking about him because frankly, I'm still in love with him. He was the first guy I ever fell for and, just like my current boyfriend, he's very sweet. I graduate in 4 months and plan on going to see him. He's the one I can seriously see waking up to every morning for the rest of my life. But I don't want to leave the guy I have now because I love him, too. But is it really fair to him that I love someone else? I'm sure everyone's heard the phrase "Your first love never dies." So do you think that I should let go of the Delaware guy and stay where I am or is he stuck on my mind for a reason? What would you do?
well it really isn't fair to the guy your with now if your still thinking about another guy.
and i think you should go see that guy in Delaware because it will be like a realization for you, if you know what i mean. like if your with him and that spark isn't there anymore, than it's ok to be with the guy you are now, you were in love with the guy you KNEW, not the guy he became. but if you still have those feelings for him, it's really not fair to the guy your with now
I wanna make my boyfriend something for Valentines Day.
I found out he is proposing then, and I really want to get him something nice, and from the heart.
So far, I've got him a feather rose, card, and DVD player. ("VERY" romantic...I know) So, what can I get him thats really romantic and from the heart. Something hand made maybe?
Any websites and/or suggestions would be nice.
Thanks.
aw congradulations =)
you should take photos you have with him and make a scrap book or something
and have like little side notes on what you were doing or something
can cutting yourself become an addiction?
yes, it can come a really BIG addiction.
i dont know what to do!!!please help me i am sooooo depressed!!! my friend nicole is sooooooooo mean to me!!!!!! she is soooooo nice sometimes.. but sooooo mean .. what do i do!!!!she is like my best feind... but she can be sooo mean.. ill give you an example... well
1. she never listens to me
2. and she NEVER STOPS SAYING MARR HARR!!!
you dont get it!!
i ask her to stop and she just keeps talking!!grr marr harr marr harr marr harr marr harr!!!
lol... not
if she's mean, she's not your friend. leave her and get new ones
I'm just wondering,
what hole does the guy's "thing" go into?
either one, usually the vagina though.