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Lost everything, now what?
This year has been rough.
I gave up on my best friend after saving her
life for the third time due to her heavy
drinking, I couldn't handle protecting her like
I did anymore. She was my very best friend,
moving on hurt so bad.
My boyfriend that I love cheated on
me, so of course we broke up. His new girlfriend
happens to be the girl he knew I hated more
then anything.
My great friend, Michael stepped in.
He became my big brother, my support system.
He was the only one that got me through losing
everyone. Well, he started to like me. Once I
told him I wasn't up for that after everyone
broke my trust, he left too.
Now I have nothing.
I'm alone all the time, I have other
friends but none of them come close to
those three. How do I step back up and
get on with life?
I used to be so outgoing and full of
life, I always had plans and people who
loved me. Now, No ones here.
What can I do?
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This might sound like and odd question but where is God in all of this?
Do you think He has abandoned you also or did you not stop to think,
He is right there! through all of you trials and suffering if you only ask Him to be He will be.
People may and will disapoint you but if you can trust in Christ, trusting others will be easier and more worth while in the future.
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Omg I am soo sorry.
If those other friends seem trustworthy enough, start talking to them more. You never know how perfect something could end up unless you try it!
If even THEY don't seem like people you can trust, try talking to another group of people. Again, you never know how something could turn out 'til you try it!
Another option is talking to Michael again. Explain and say sorry for not going out with him-he should understand.
My last option is try joining a sport, or a club--you'll meet new people this way-try to get close to them, too.
My best advice is, keep your head high sweetie-everything will be OK.
If you need anything, then just leave me a message in my Inbox and I'll GLADLY help!
My heart goes out to you,
Hope this helps
Sincerely, Jamie
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I know just how you feel. Bascially the same things have just happend to me also. The best thing you can do is just pack up and attempt to move on. You have more friends, of course they're not as close, but good friendships take time. You'll have time to build up better relationships with other people then you had before. Of course there will always be guys. All you have to do is take your pick. Just keep moving farward and don't give up on what you want. You're only 14. You have more then enough time to fix your life.
-BlackBatman-
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i was in your shoes this summer. i know exactly how you feel. i think you should ya know talk to some girls that you are sorta friends with and start talking. and like if you guys have any classes or play sports or instruments or extracurricular activities have them over and be like "hey do you wanna come over and study for that test, or do you wanna come over and play basketball", etc. etc. or if there's like a volleyball or basketball game or hockey game be like "hey do you wanna go to the volleyball game together" ya know just start trying to make good friends and trust people, but not completely until you feel ready. also counsiling will help. don't get me wrong i don't think you need it but like it really helps to talk to someone. and if you need anything i.m. me at mjv422, i'll help you if you ever need anything. =)
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i know how you feel! this happended to me to the ompliment on someone also, i would also suggest thextreme i was hospitalized 2 times, i know how you feel, someone steps in there place, they leave and you feel foolish. you did the right thing by leaving your best friend that cant be put on your sholders thats not fair to you. your boyfriend is a jerk, that wasnt right to cheat on you you desserve so much better. right now at this point, its not you who needs to be fixed, its the people that you used to be friends with, the ones that loved you if they did they always will. try makeing new friends like ask ask someone you know a little bit if they wanna come over after school or maybe make a compliment on soomeones oulfit. also i would sugggest therapy it helps so much not saying u need it but if you need someone to talk to it helps so much because you can trust a therapist. if you ever need anything you can IM me at brooke 411 xo . i really feel your pain so i wish the best of luck to you
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me and you should talk . I am just like that. Me and my best friend for like 7 years just lost it after i was tired of her using me and never geting any respect back from her. I was only an option for her. I havent had my boyfriend cheat but i did call it off and hand him to another of my firends while i stil loved him then pushed him away although he did caome back and we are just friends. Then one of my old friend became my only brother and suport system then me and him feel for each other but he decided to go with my cousin. It hurts. My three best friends left and it feels like i am stuck in the world all alone and my outgoing and rebeilous self is dieing and i dont know how to trust anyone anymore and i feel alone. All i can say is keep going that is what i am doing and please dont do the other thing i am doing. I am slowly becoming detached from everyone and i cant stop it. Just push on. if you want to talk more contact me at tsukisaurora@yahoo.com
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