To start off, I'm 17. I live in Florida and I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He's totally sweet, caring and everything any girl could ask for. But I have one problem...he's 18 and lives in Delaware. I dated him a long time ago and broke up with him because of the distance, but to this day I still find myself thinking about him because frankly, I'm still in love with him. He was the first guy I ever fell for and, just like my current boyfriend, he's very sweet. I graduate in 4 months and plan on going to see him. He's the one I can seriously see waking up to every morning for the rest of my life. But I don't want to leave the guy I have now because I love him, too. But is it really fair to him that I love someone else? I'm sure everyone's heard the phrase "Your first love never dies." So do you think that I should let go of the Delaware guy and stay where I am or is he stuck on my mind for a reason? What would you do?
and i think you should go see that guy in Delaware because it will be like a realization for you, if you know what i mean. like if your with him and that spark isn't there anymore, than it's ok to be with the guy you are now, you were in love with the guy you KNEW, not the guy he became. but if you still have those feelings for him, it's really not fair to the guy your with now [ vomski10's advice column | Ask vomski10 A Question ]
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