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i like this one guy named tyler. ive never actually really talked to him but i think he is really cute and i really want to get to know him. i have 2 classes with tyler and i dont sit near him in any of them. any ideas on how to talk to him without going too far out of my way?? thanx

Well for starters, if you see him in the hall try to talk to him or atleast smile so he knows your nice and knows you care. if your friends with any of his friends or somethinng like that you canorganize something where everyonecan go out somewhere, that would be good. because you want to know him well it would be a good way. other than that just try to talk to him and be nice...over time it'll progress and you can see where it leads you!

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does doing squats really make your theighs smaller?

i dont think it'll REALLY make them smaller, but they will tighten and firm your theighs which would kinda make it seem like your theighs are smaller.

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you know the song gold digger by jamie fox and kanye west? well i know this sounds stupid, but what is a gold digger?

a person that goes out with someone just for their moohla ($$)

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Hey, im 13 about to turn 14 and im having a party at a house that my church owns so0n. All it has is about 6 rooms with a couch in one and t.v with 4 channels in the other and one with a desk. I have no clue wat there would be to do to make my party fun. I need some ideas or some games or something i could do with my friends (Co ed). Thanks!

hey i would recommend just having music and just dancing. thats always fun, but also you could try having a themed party like tropical, hollywood, game show, etc. have games, music, food that would match the theme. see http://www.partydirectory.com/guide/partylnk.htm i think its good

♥ hope i helped..good luck babe X0X0

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where could i get a background for my advice column...


Advicenators gives you a site from them...
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also like holisterbabe said you can get them from xanga backgrounds or just wallpapers in general. thats what i do sometimes.

inbox me if you need help for making it your background, websites, etc.

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I want to be something slutty for Halloween cause thats what all my friends are being... But they all wear JR's clothes I wear a large in kids sizes. I needa find a costume for Halloween thats cute and a tad bit slutty but I can't cause I'm small. Maybe you can help me.
I'LL RATE 5'S!!!!!!!!

haha okay well i only have 2 ideas : french maid (!!luv it!!) or playboy bunny. either one would be really cute! hope i helped a little

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ok so here is the thing i have known this girl for like 8 yrs and she lives like 2 houses away from me. she loves to emaresss me. she does it all the time. we are on the bus and she is like omg timmy.. remember in 6ht grade when A***** like you and everyone knew? and i will be sitting right there. and lately this friend is like hitting me or kicking me for no reason and like i will say stop and she will be like but it doesnt hurt you, even when it does and when i hit her she gets so mad at me. so today on the bus, i was saying jokes like are we at a barbacue? No. Then why you all up in my grill and then she like pounds her hand down on to my head. then she is laughing and then she starts to kick me. how am i to tell her to stop doing these things like the embaressing hting and the hitting me
Thnks A*****

Omg, wow , what a violent friend! anyways... first i would just say that you do it the normal way. talk to her and tell her how you feel, why, and what you'd like to do about it (the change). if her behavior still continues i would def. talk to her AGAIN and lay down the law. she doesnt really seem like she'd be someone i'd want to be around but if shes worth it to you make sure ya'll get everything straight

inbox me if you need more help...im here!
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i dont know you but i was dpressed and i cricted my self alot... so i shaved my arms cuz i thought they were hairy... now the hair is tottaly back but its a littler hairer is it gonna keep growing? what sould i do if im like a hir monster?

i ratie hight

haha dont worry you wont be a hairy monster! when you shave it only grows back alittle thicker and faster each time. not significally bigger just slightly...you wont notice. but since it was the first time, you still have 2 options, letting it grow back (just a tiny bit thicker) or continuing to shave them. which eveer one you like better go with!

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what do i do if i think im too clingy? but my friend doesnt like it if i ask if im annoying?

if you think youre too clingy then try not to be. for example, for the people you think youre being clingy around, leave them alone for awhile. not that youre bothering them, just incase they think youre clingy 2 it'll give them some time too cool and forget about it. idk give it try and see if it works... inbox me if you want to ask something else hun!

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i dont know you but i was searching advice collums cuz i was bored and i just loved yours soo im gonna ask something kay babe?

my bestfriend has this brother and hes sooo cute! i mean we have lots of jokes and we have become friends over a year or so.... yeah and he goes 2 my school now but im 2 years older then him! and i guess i sorta have some feelings 4 him i think... kay? and like babe i dont know... i mean should i tell my bffae? casue she might tottaly flip out! LOL... i dont know hunny... i mean i cant controll my feelings! help me please!!

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ashely

if you like him then go for it! i would just find out for sure if he likes you or not because if you ask him out or tell him you like him and he doesnt feel the same way it will be really awkward because of the age difference. but if you 2 like eachother then its fine...the age isnt that big of a difference. think of parents. some parents are 2, 3, etc years apart and it doesnt matter! and if you 2 feel the same way i would def. tell your bff, she has to know sometime!

♥ hope i helped ya hun! X0X0X

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Ok.. i'm going out with a guy and he smokes ..

i'm 14 and he is 15. do you think thats bad?

i rate high for good answers.

well if your talking about age, no. if your talking about him smoking, personally i wouldnt wanna date a guy who smokes but that might be different for you. think about what you think and if you think its bad try to think of these to change it or just inbox me

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i know how to bold and underline things but how can you make it bigger?

if your talking about on word or any document like that then you simply just make the font bigger. but if you mean on a webpage i am pretty sure it is -TEXT- (with no dashes next to the text) but i am not sure thats it for sure. try it if it doesnt work let me know i'll find the code.

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well i just dumped my boyfriend because me and one oif his bestfriends have been having a relationship behind his back and like were friends now b/c i told him he wasent my type so when we broke up my and his friend broke up but we want to get back togther but we dont know how to tell him b/c he still likes me ALOT please help me XoXo

i took me a couple times reading it to understand it, so dont get mad if the answer isnt right for your situation cuz i was confused, but you should just go out with the guy after you made it clear to your old boyfriend that you dont like him like that anymore and you think you should just be friends. if he seems sad, annoyed, or acts you why youre going out with the guy then just talk to him so he really understands. he shouldnt have to stand in the way of your new relationship.

hope i helped
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my crush kknows i like him.hes my best guy friend,( we are inseperable) sweet,gentle,would never hurt anyone.im pretty sure he doesnt like me, but he wants a friends with benefits thing it seems.if we have a FWB it would only be like kissing and cuddling..nothing too sexual.
well, it was raining out and we were holding hands, dancing to this spanish music. (you see, we left a party and you could still hear the music from where we were) and it was perfect. we even looked each other in the eye for a few moments, and it was that awkward kind of moment where if i leaned in for a kiss it could have been perfect.
my question : tonight is homecoming. any ideas on what i can do to kiss him tonight? ideas on how to get the two of us outside alone perhaps? any advice thanks!

hmmm well maybe after homecoming you could invite him to your house. at homecoming whisper it in his ear or do something cute to get his attention. just have him come over and have something planned like watching a movie or playing a game. i dont really know what would happened in between but just be prepared for anything.

by the way -- what does FWB mean?

hope i helped .... ♥ X0X0

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ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!
also latley i have been feeling guilty after i eat. help with that too plz.

no..not at all!!

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how do i loose weight? i want to improve my apperiance.

Well basically you need to remember 2 things when youre trying to lose weight : eating healthy AND exercise. most people think its just one or the other for example if you eat at mcdonalds and then run on a tredmill, its good excercise not exactly good food for losing weight. so make sure you are eating vegetables, fruit, protein, dairy, etc. each day some more than others. snacks are okay i would just say a low-fat one and only one. for excercising do whatever you want, swim, jog, ride a bike, dance, play a sport, go to a gym, hike, anything that burns calories quick.

hope i helped you!

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well i just started dating this kid, let's call him john, and we are always hanging all over eachother. we just blend well physically, and are always caught kissing and hugging. i love being around him because i feel loved, but when we talk on the phone or it is just me and him we have hardly any conversation going. alot of the time we are just quiet when we are alone. how bad is this? is it a big deal or just something that will fade? should i reconsider our relationship?

it just seems like your not as comfortable with just the 2 of you than if its with other people. i think that it will fade eventually as you get to know him better and you'll feel more comfortable. just talk how you do in a group like how you do now. maybe you'll learn something new and when its just the 2 of you can talk about it which might keep the convo flowing!

hope i helped...good luck hun
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so me and my boyfriend were goign out for 11 months and then broke up for the summer even tho we were sitll like in love wiht eachother jsut so we could do our own thing for the summer. he liked me all summer n didnt do anythign wiht any other girls bc of that reason and same for me. Now we are going back out and i wanna do something really special for him or just like cute not like dinner or anything like something i can do besdies that bc tahts boring. please help!


you can try finding something he likes to do and go out and do that. but also i think just staying home at your house or his and just relaxing..watcing a movie, talking, whatever just hanging out with not alot of people around. but other than that i suggest movies, the dinner idea, or anything like that!

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I have to learn all the countries, their locations, and their capitals by tomorow. ( I have 3 tests on them tomorow ) Any ideas to help me study, I'm having alot of trouble and these are major tests!!

- I`ll rate wayy high.

Well first i would def. study your textbook or any handouts your teach gave you. then from that make up a list of questions you think would be on the test. have your mom or dad ask you them or just take it yourself and grade. for the ones you get wrong study them extra hard and ask the questions again. also if that doesnt sound good, flashcards always work! next time dont wait till the last minute unless its not your fault cuz its really hard to cram it all in the night before! =)

♥ good luck...u'll ace it!

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o.k. so there are these 2 guys at our school one of them usually hangs around girlz (i think hes gay) and the other one is more boyish. well anyways when i'm hanging out with my friends they always come over to us. i usually like them but theyre being SO annoying. i dont know why but it is really annoying. how can i tell them to go away and get their own friends. (by the way you might know them they go to our school.)

i think i know who your talking about but idk, but idk who you are but n e ways ....i would suggest just talking to them nicely and just telling them when they come over that you jusst want to be with your friends for the moment. you can do it whenever they come over, or tell them your busy. just tell them the truth but nicely. if they still keep bugging you then i would def. tell them whats up and that you think theyre being a little ah-noying!

hope this helped

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