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Well I'm an honest, down to earth girl who like's to have fun! currently I'm attending college and hope to graduate as a nurse in four years. I love helping people with any issue, giving advice to people who really need it makes me feel good and nice inside. I guess i would say that i can more relate to love/relationship, education, and family issues since I've gone through allot. so if you have any problem or just a quick question dont hesitate I'm here to help!

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Hi. I like this girl a lot so i figured if i got her a present some sparks may fly. So i want to give it to her, but i can't figure out if she still has a boyfriend. I think they broke up, but im not 100% sure. If I give her the gift should i try and kiss her if they're broken up?

I think you should first make sure if she is still in a relationship. maybe ask her indirctly as joke ex. if shes on the phone be like "oh talking to your boyfriend lol" or something like that, then if she says yes or says shes still with her boyfriend i guess you know what to do, but if she says no or not really then go for it i guess!

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Alright. Well, my best friend in the whole world is starting to confuse me. She is a real big Christian, as am I, and I understand that. But sometimes when I turn on the radio and like rap or something comes on, shes like "God doesn't want you listening to that." But then she will go to a party and dance to that same music. We are in 6th grade and she is dating an 8th grader, I'm pretty sure God doesn't want her doing that either. How do I explain to her that its ok to listen to the music you like or the shows you like?

Plz help! I will rate 5 to any resonable answer!

um.. just straight out tell her, she sounds like a hypocrite and she has no right to tell you what not to lisen to.

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If God is the "Creator", then who created him? Surely one can not create himself. So, with that said, who said that God has all control over everything?

God did not create himself and no other created God. God always exsisted and we as human cannot understand this now because we are insignificant compared to him, and our brains cannot possibly get around to understaning such s great mystery. Dont worry you'll understand when the day of judgement/apocolypes occurs!

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I have pimples here and there. I have tried like almost everything. Proactive doesn’t work for me so don’t say that! Pulse half of you just say it because everyone else says it works because you just want a good rating. I need any home remedies or anything I can buy. I have oily skin btw if this helps! Plz what can I do??

my friend uses mary kay and she has oily skin so maybe try that. i think she tried the toner or something any way just look at their product if you want!

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What do you do when you've liked a guy for a really long time and are finally dating and you decide that you don't want to date anymore, but then after you break up with him, you like him still and now your best friend is going out with him?
Age: 13
Gender: Female

i really think you should not try anything to break them up, you had him and you let him go ,its now up to him if he likes you more then your friend then just wait and see what fate will do. dont risk your friendship over a guy besides i think its just infatuation, and im sure youll find someone else you feel strongly for .your still young and your feeling are mixed up inside!!

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well were do I start me and my x had broken up because I'm not allowed to go out with guys and my mom found out so I broke up with him.well I found out that he was messing around with some other girls,but I didn't get mad cause we weren't together and cause I broke up with him when he still wanted to be together.well when I text message him he still tells me he loves me and still calls me babe and stuff like that.well now every time I text him he never has time for me.he's either to busy or he's eating or doing something and I feel like he doesn't care he wants to get back together,but when he tells me I love you I'm hearing it but I'm not seeing it,and it hurts.I feel like crying cause he's just dissing me,and it makes me feel like sh*t.so what I desided is not to call him or text him and just pretend I don't know him.but why his he doing this?I will rate a 5 just please give me good advice and it will be nice to get advice from a guy who does it.I just want to know why do you do it?

well im not a guy but i think that he just felt like an idiot trying to win you back buy saying 'i love you' and still calling you 'babe'i think after a while he thought maybe if he stopped showing great intrest that maybe youd want him even more. you know how the whole cold shoulder act always attract the opposite sex we want things we think we cant have it stimulate us. any way i dont think he really wanted to lose you i thnk maybe his friends or something told him to move on and now since you guys are no longer talking he probly just trying to move on. Now its up to you do you have strong feelings for him or do you think you can do with out him!

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Theres this guy that i thought i liked. I liked him to. Well Today we had an arguement.Becuase i had told one of his friends that i didnt want to talk to him anymore. Well my friend told him, so then he knew. Ok. so today he calls me and ask why i dont want to talk to him anymore? i actually thought like, wow he cares enough to call me and ask. that must mean something right? i dont know, but anyways so i tell him why because he doesnt call me or take the time to IM me or anything. so he tells me why, and the reasons kind of personal, but trust me it was a good reason. so of course i let it go. so then he tells me. well i love you, and stupid me i said it back. ok so it seems like everythings good and all right? but wrong. later today we decided to hang out with my friends shawn and derek, well shawn and derek have been my friends since ever. their some of my really really good friends.so when im around them, i dont know its just crazy . so we were hanging out at my house and stuff. me shawn derek and the guy im in love with {kyle}. so kyle i guess isnt very good at trying to fit in the conversations i guess. i mean you really cant especially since me shawn and derek like nonstop crazineess. but anyways so we were hanging out, and to kyle i guess he saw it as me flirting with them bc we were laughing over stupid things and talking about some peverted stuff. i thought it was funny, well kyle i guess didnt like it so much. cause he didnt talk the entire time. neither did he laugh. so what am i suppose to do? im not going to be like beggin him to join in the conversation. so w/e. so kyle decided to go upstairs and hang with my brothers. well since me and shawn and derek are practically drunk, we werent drinking though we were just laughing at the stupidest things, bc we havent gotten together this whole entire break yet so there was alot to talk abot. but w/e. so were laughin like really retarded. and kyle tells my brother that i have the most annoying laugh, and the gayest laugh ever. and hearing this i was like wtcrap?? like i mean its something completely stupid. but since i care so much about him, it reallyhurts even though its something totally dumb. im just really hurt, bc at first he said that he loved me then he was just talking behind my back? i dont know but im really depressed right now. i know its kinda my fault bc i wasnt giving him attention and stuff, but thier my friends im not going to just dump them.but it really hurts to hear something like this from him. what should i do?

i think you should call him up have a seriouse disscusion on what happend just be like "y are being such an ass to me all the time", or maybe something like " what do you want from me really? do you really love, then y are you never acting like it" if he metions what happend with your friend just straight up tell him "were just friends and their my close friends so dont freak out, your the one i like" honeslty you should be able to hang with your friends with out worrying what your boyfriends gonna think. if he really like you he'll hold on to you no matter what. personally it seems you have him wrapped around your little finger lol!

hope this helps
syireen

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In case it matters, I'm 15/f.

So, lately I've had alot of guy problems going on. I'll start with my ex-boyfriend, Brett. We were together for 5 months, and what I have for him will probably never go away. We've been broken up for almost two months and he already has a new girlfriend. I know 5 months isn't very long, but it was my longest relationship and I think that may be part of the reason why I have so many strong feelings for him. I've tried moving on, and for awhile, I was talking to this guy named Alex. We've hung out pretty much everyday for a month. A few days ago, he was at my house and we were watching a movie and we kind of got "in the moment", I guess you could say, and we had sex. There was this other guy, Dustin, who really likes me. I think I may have led him to think I have the same feelings for him. We were supposed to hang out for new year's but instead I went to a friend's house. She had a few guys over, and one of them was this guy named Tyler. He's really hott and I've always had a "thing" for him. Not so much a crush, just I've always thought he was incredibly gorgeous. We were laying down together and he had his arm around me and we ended up making out. On top of all of these guys..I like this other guy named Justin. We've never really hung out lately, but we talk all the time online and he calls me sometimes. So here's my question. I don't know what to do with Brett, Alex, Dustin, Tyler, or Justin. I know I need to get over brett, and tell Dustin the truth (that I don't really like him like that). But do you think Tyler likes me? Or was he just being the typical guy and "getting some" from me? And what about Justin? Should I just try to get over him, or keep talking to him? And what about Alex? Have I led him on too? He doesn't have "serious feelings" for me..we're just "friends with benefits". hmm, I'm so confused with everything. Sorry if this was complicated to understand.

wow! ya it is really complicated what i did notice in your paragraph was that you kept going out and hanging out with a lot of guys, not trying to be rude but i think you should stay away from any male friends for the next few days only cause im sure your a pretty girl and thats why your having all these guy trouble is cause when guys show intrest especially good looking guys, its natural for us girls to want their attention. Maybe because your break up your trying to replace your ex eith another guys affection, but you still find your self wanting your ex in the end. if theres any chance for you two then you should call and try and see if your ex still has feelings for you. sometimes couples break up for stupied little things so if this is the case you should try and fix it.

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okay well i know this guy Christian and hes so hot..funny..and nice...and i think im inlove?!!....but the problem is I used to be able to hang out with him but then my mom said i couldn't see him anymore because she thought he was a bad infuence..and that really made me mad...but like on the weekends usually ill go to a friends house and then we will go to the movies and he will go to...but like he gets really frustrated beacuse he can't see me or call my house..so he misses me..but i dont no what to do....should i just keep seeing him behind my moms back....HELP!
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If you go behind your moms back eventually your gonna get caught trust me on this secrets always get exposed in the end. So unless your moms isnet the type of mom that freaks out completly if she found out,then by all mean go ahead. oh yea, and do you really like this guy or is it just like a dating thing cause if you really like this guy and see a long term relation ship happaning then i dont think you should just end it cause of your mom any ways good luck

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I was at my friends birthday party which was in an indoor swimming pool. I was wearing a Tiffany ring that my mom had gave me for my birthday last week. I forgot to take it off and when I got home I realized it was missing. What do I do if my mom asks me about it?

just tell your mom you put it somewhere in your room and you'll get it later. then go back to your friends house and try looking for it. if you still cant find it buy a another ring that looks like the old ring. or buy your mom a big present and beg for forgivness!!

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i was just wondering how old do u have to be to be able tolike get your own apartment? because i dont wanna live at home anymore and like could i go on welfare or something??

14/f

I think 16-18 not quite sure, so maybe you should move in with a friend or relative till you can get your own place.

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So basicly sense I was little ive been vergbaly and physicly abused.. and I really cant take it anymore I have gotten to the point i feel so low about myself I could crawl in a corner and hide for ever. I have reported my parents and so have other people but nothing has happend. What should I do now?

Someday something will happen and no one will be able to fix it. Im scared

You need to take control of your life and move out! i mean if its a seriouse as you say it is then you must protect your self from both emotional, and physical pain. Im sure your constanly unhappy with everything, and that not good. If you have any friends,relatives or anything then you should move in with them. if this is not possible then get your own place if your of age hopefully.

Best Wishes!
syireen

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okay well i have something really big to tell my parents and im not sure how to tell them. well i really want to tell them that i want to have a baby (16/f) everyone says i should but i really dont get along with my parents.. well its not that we dont get along its just that we arent that close. should i tell them now or should i wait till have a bf that i have been dating for a while because i am currently single. i know eitehr way they are going to flip but i dont want to screw things up. so how do i tell them and when?

I personally think your too young to have a baby right now,are you sure this is what you really want i mean really?... well if you are then i would suggest, if you know your parents are gonna freak out then maybe you should move out and live on your own, then you'll experience paying rent,bills, and all the other things that come with being a grown up. If you can handle that and you still want to have a baby, then start dating more and i guess have your baby. BUT! at the very least give your self another year or two and see if you still want a baby ok?

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im a girl 14/f and i like looking at lesbian porn. i love boys but i just like looking at it. i would never date a girl but its just interesting to look at. is this normal!?!


Its just hormones dont worry girls get horny to. dosnt mean your a lesbian.

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Let me start here. Before my friend moved here, I didn't have any friends of any kind. My parents were constantly argueing and fighting. I would lock myself in my room for 3-4 hours at a time and turn off the lights and just sit there. Read a boring book or try to do something that would make me a little happier. I don't and didn't do any sports. So then I started wearing black clothes. Then I got into rock and punk music for some unknown reason. I would Cry for no reason untill this girl who is now my friend moved here. Me and her became good friends. We had alot in common. Now I found out that she's moving thousands of Mile's away. I don't want the same thing wrong with me. I can't make any new friends cause I can't trust anyone.. Please Help.

Ok first and for most I need to say this SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER! I’m sorry but killing your self or trying to harm your self is not going to solve anything I don’t know if your religious or anything but i find that religion really helps with depression. If this isn’t the case with you id suggest you try to talk to your parents or if you have siblings. keeping emotions inside is not healthy, and even though this might sound easier said then done but you do have to open your self more and try talking more to people. I’m sure that’s how you met your friend before was by talking and opening up a little. Also if your to shy to make friends face to face then try making friends online be safe of course, make friends with people your own age and in your state maybe. this summer you could even join a camp or a club or something. I’m really sorry you feel this way your too young to feel so unhappy, my prayers are with you and I hope you feel better.

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I talk to a guy online who used to go to my school, then moved to another state, when he went to my school we werent really friends, and never spoke to eachother.

Then a friend gave me his email. So I added him and started talking to him, this was about a year ago. He had a girlfriend back then, and I, also, was with someone. We only spoke about once a week, and always ended up having an arguement over silly things.

Then about 3 months ago, we started talking normally. I fell inlove with him. He always called me things like beautiful, just flirting. Then he started liking some girl, and he stopped calling me nice things, I was heartbroken.

After that we didnt speak as often, but then one day he said "Hey beautiful, thats what I'm gonna call you from now on" I was happy, then we started talking more regulary again.

I always told him I loved him, I think he thought I meant as a friend. Christmas day I sent him a really sweet text message saying:

Hey Mike!

Merry Christmas...

I don't even know if you're awake yet, but you should be.

Nearly a year since I met you!

I didnt want to add you on MSN when Abel told me to, but I'm glad I did.

You're really awesome, and sweet. And I'm glad you're in my life.

I love you, xxx.



That night he said sorry I didnt reply, I didnt have any credit, but your message was really nice. He was being so nice to me.

Then lastnight he kept calling me beautiful and being really sweet to me, saying he wishes we could meet up, knowing it would be impossible, me being allowed to leave my state alone and all.

We stayed up till 3 talking to eachother online. He said he was going to bed, and kept like putting the love heart sign thing [

wow! ya i'd say he's falling for you i mean heart signs, and i love you's?, i'd say it's only a matter of time till something amazing happens between you two. you should find a way to go to his state i think you said your allowed to leave your state?. Well then maybe you should visit him and see what happens *wink* *wink*

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I have a bf and we've been going out for 3 months, but i've kept this hidden from my parents the entire time, i'm 13 mind u, and my mom wont let me have a bf she says its already enough that i've had my first kiss and she found me downstairs cuddling with a guy, with my head on his lap sleeping, i really dont see why i cant have a bf i think she's over reacting bc i know kids my age do way more than kiss or cuddle is she over reacting???? i'll rate high for any suggestions, or anyway to see my boyfriend w/o getting caught thanks

That's how most parents are like. What i would do is have a secreat boyfriend besides if you guys arent doing anything like having sex or anything than whats the problem of having a boyfriend? I think you should have the right to go out with who ever you want, 13 i think is old enough to start a relationship, or at least dating. Maybe you should just straight up tell her that your not gonna have sex if you have a boyfriend to reassure her (thats if you plan not to have sex)and if she still doesnt want you have a boyfriend then i think you should have to do what you feel is right!

good luck!

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I just finished watching the Exorcist. Is this stuff real? Has this ever happened? I know back in Jesus' time it happened because he performed an exorcisms, as it says in the bible. But does or has this happened lately or around the 60s-70s? I have read many things and there are some stories of exorcisms being performed, but the weird thing is when I watched this movie I don't see how all those things can actually happen to someone innocent whom ingaged in the Ouija board a few times, how does it happen? Im so lost and scared as well.

hi to answer your question exorcisms are real, and for people to say its not is kinda weird i mean movies are always based on some bit a fact, well not a movies but most anyway. i know this cause my sister witnessed an excorsim and trust me it freaked her out, she told me some guy got possesed not by the devil but by an eveil gen if you dont know what those are their a kind of being that are mistaken for spirits, but their not cause their very much alive. any way i can go in to detail but ill just say that exorcisims are done all the time in diffrent parts of the world.

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Im not anti-christian, infact im christian myself but, why do christians think that witchcraft is wrong? Its another religion just like Buhdism and christianity itself.

well im not to familiar with the religion witchcraft but in my religion it is viewed as evil cause it means an individual can have magickal powers and only god has the right to that. as well the religion is also connected with the devil and witchcraft involves curses im guessing so therefore curses are evil. any way i dont mean to offend anyone who prctices witchcraft im simply implying to what i've been told.

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they say the proof of gods existance is within the bible, but the reason i should believe the bible is because god said it. in other words, i should believe god is real if he said these things. that is like believeing someone who says they are honest, because they told you so. what do you think

I would say just look around you and see the world and the universe its many mysteries and aws i mean i truly belive that a greater higher being could be capable of making true beauty and amazing detail to the world, now whatever your faith is its up to you but keep this in mind

> you cant see gravity but every body belives in that, so why not god ?>

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