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why is he doing this?
well were do I start me and my x had broken up because I'm not allowed to go out with guys and my mom found out so I broke up with him.well I found out that he was messing around with some other girls,but I didn't get mad cause we weren't together and cause I broke up with him when he still wanted to be together.well when I text message him he still tells me he loves me and still calls me babe and stuff like that.well now every time I text him he never has time for me.he's either to busy or he's eating or doing something and I feel like he doesn't care he wants to get back together,but when he tells me I love you I'm hearing it but I'm not seeing it,and it hurts.I feel like crying cause he's just dissing me,and it makes me feel like sh*t.so what I desided is not to call him or text him and just pretend I don't know him.but why his he doing this?I will rate a 5 just please give me good advice and it will be nice to get advice from a guy who does it.I just want to know why do you do it?
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well im not a guy but i think that he just felt like an idiot trying to win you back buy saying 'i love you' and still calling you 'babe'i think after a while he thought maybe if he stopped showing great intrest that maybe youd want him even more. you know how the whole cold shoulder act always attract the opposite sex we want things we think we cant have it stimulate us. any way i dont think he really wanted to lose you i thnk maybe his friends or something told him to move on and now since you guys are no longer talking he probly just trying to move on. Now its up to you do you have strong feelings for him or do you think you can do with out him!
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girl dont worry boys are jerks and they cant be anything but it... he keeps telling you he loves you because he wants you to stay by him and put you on hold but nobody can be put on hold you dont have to ignore him but you shouldnt waste your time on somebody who is only trying to hurt you and make you feel this way you should find somebody else who makes you feel good and you're comfortable around. yea i know guys are gonna make you cry make you mad make you feel like the world is coming to the end but its a guy thing i guess i cant really speak for them about why they are jerks but they are and the best way to handle it is moving on and trying to find somebody who will treat you right...
i hope i helped
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Boys are asswholes.. haha seriously, I feel somewhat the same way you are feeling.. so what you gotta do is just hold your head up rally high.. and make sure that he sees it isnt gettting to you.. because with that it makes him feel bad and in the long run he is gonna know he is an asswhole and he is gonna say sorry for what a dick he is being..
Melanie*Lynn
P.s sorry for the language, just a little mad at a boy that is doing that same thing too me :-)
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alright i'm not a guy buti think that he's doing it to make you jealous or he thinks that since you don't have time for him why should he have time for you.
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Well first of all, did you tell him the reason why you had to break up with him? If you didn't then maybe he feels that you just didnt like him anymore. Or maybe he's just doing what people usually do..move on. I know that sounds harsh but its part of what people do. I think that not having anything to do with him is a good idea, but try telling him that what he's doing is making you mad. Maybe then he'll stop. Hope I helped.
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