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i dont know what to do
Theres this guy that i thought i liked. I liked him to. Well Today we had an arguement.Becuase i had told one of his friends that i didnt want to talk to him anymore. Well my friend told him, so then he knew. Ok. so today he calls me and ask why i dont want to talk to him anymore? i actually thought like, wow he cares enough to call me and ask. that must mean something right? i dont know, but anyways so i tell him why because he doesnt call me or take the time to IM me or anything. so he tells me why, and the reasons kind of personal, but trust me it was a good reason. so of course i let it go. so then he tells me. well i love you, and stupid me i said it back. ok so it seems like everythings good and all right? but wrong. later today we decided to hang out with my friends shawn and derek, well shawn and derek have been my friends since ever. their some of my really really good friends.so when im around them, i dont know its just crazy . so we were hanging out at my house and stuff. me shawn derek and the guy im in love with {kyle}. so kyle i guess isnt very good at trying to fit in the conversations i guess. i mean you really cant especially since me shawn and derek like nonstop crazineess. but anyways so we were hanging out, and to kyle i guess he saw it as me flirting with them bc we were laughing over stupid things and talking about some peverted stuff. i thought it was funny, well kyle i guess didnt like it so much. cause he didnt talk the entire time. neither did he laugh. so what am i suppose to do? im not going to be like beggin him to join in the conversation. so w/e. so kyle decided to go upstairs and hang with my brothers. well since me and shawn and derek are practically drunk, we werent drinking though we were just laughing at the stupidest things, bc we havent gotten together this whole entire break yet so there was alot to talk abot. but w/e. so were laughin like really retarded. and kyle tells my brother that i have the most annoying laugh, and the gayest laugh ever. and hearing this i was like wtcrap?? like i mean its something completely stupid. but since i care so much about him, it reallyhurts even though its something totally dumb. im just really hurt, bc at first he said that he loved me then he was just talking behind my back? i dont know but im really depressed right now. i know its kinda my fault bc i wasnt giving him attention and stuff, but thier my friends im not going to just dump them.but it really hurts to hear something like this from him. what should i do?
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i think you should call him up have a seriouse disscusion on what happend just be like "y are being such an ass to me all the time", or maybe something like " what do you want from me really? do you really love, then y are you never acting like it" if he metions what happend with your friend just straight up tell him "were just friends and their my close friends so dont freak out, your the one i like" honeslty you should be able to hang with your friends with out worrying what your boyfriends gonna think. if he really like you he'll hold on to you no matter what. personally it seems you have him wrapped around your little finger lol!
hope this helps
syireen
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guys will say anything to get attention from you... hes feeling left out so hes trying to gain attention back from your guy friends because he feels a little jealous and boys arent as mature or emotional as girls so they dont understand that their words can hurt they just say the first thing that will pop up into their mind without thinking if it will jeopardize their relationship or hurt their girlfriend's feelings.... he probably didnt mean it but you should really talk to him and see if there's a way he can get to know your friends so that he wont feel so left out
hope i helped
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well if kyle doesnt have the respect to let you have a good time with your friends then you dont need him.
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wow! you should think about being an author for your future career!!!!(hehehehhhahahah) well this kyle, is a jealous jerk, messing with your mind boring dude! what's his problem? you have a right to have other friends and enjoy th time your spending on winter break!! sorry to say but you're going 2 have 2 move on! either way when you're talking 2 your other friends:shawn & derek he's still going 2 be jealous! you're always trying 2 reach out to him but he's always resenting you so you're trying to have a relationship and he CLEARLY isn't. you're a good friend for trying to get with him but if he doesn't want to get with you what are you going to do then??? for now you could either stay friends with him or just drop him completely! remember friends are more important than having a forced realtionship. DON'T DUMP YOUR FRIENDS!
hope i helped!***hershey wishes hugs and kisses***
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Mm, wow. Haha, well I think Kyle was just jealous of you having a good time with two other guys, rather than with him. Sometimes when people get jealous they'll go talk about the person, because they're mad. If you still like Kyle, try spending seperate time with him alone from Shawn & Derek. Kyle probably just wants time with you, and not with two other guys hanging around. Happy new yearrr, girl.
Brooke ♥
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