Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
Answers: 182
Last Update: November 15, 2007
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okay here goes..... this girl i been friends with for years we just recently kissed and after that kiss we about to do again till she stopped me she said she wanted to go throw with it but she cant casue of our friends... which i understand cause in the last 5 yrs she been with of 2 of mine and her friends already One was just a fling and other (which is my roomate) was serious for him and her not as much Well they broke up and he acts a a jerk to her but we all still chill in the same group ..... so the advice i need is how to make her forget about the past and just let us roll and see where it goes of course I dont want anyon eto know but she says that doesnt work(which it wont for to long) but i always like her and i feel like i just had my chance but i couldnt take it cause of this convo also i feel if we only kissed once (allnight long Though) why we having so manu convo thats a bad sign I just dont want to go back to being friends I told her i could do that and i can but i dont want to i know she dont want to niether so my question what should I do or should just do nothing and just hope out of nowhere oneday it will spark back up I dont feel like waiting though any advice let me know MIke (link)
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take her out to a really nice place n tell her how you feel! buy her flowers or something too be really sweet about it-girls love that! n just let her know how much you like her.. watever your thinking or watevers in your heart just let her know.. tell her how much you like her and how you wont hurt her n u love spending time w/ her and everything.. n just tell her that your not like those other guys and you know how to treat her well.. most of all-just give her a night to remember! n dont rush anything.. if that doesnt work just talk to her a lot n flirt with her!! eventually things will happen.. it seems like she likes you but shes scared to jump into a relationship with someone because she doesnt want to get hurt.. but u gotta prove to her like your not like you friends or the other guys shes been with! so prove her wrong! =P
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OK When I was about 14 my mom told me that when I wanted to go on birth control that all I had to do was ask her about it. Well its been over a year and I dont know how to bring it up. We're not really that cloce. She meant when I'm 'in love' and I want to do it with that special person. Well thats kinda not the deal rite now I'm not in love at all. I dont even have a bf. But I want to go on it .. how do I ask her ? I cant just bring it up out of nowhere.. (link)
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hey! i know exactly what you mean--its hard for you to tell your mom things when your not very close.. i know from experience, cause i'm not close with my mom either. its normal to be afraid-but if its really in your heart to do it.. then just gain confidence in yourself and sit down in private when no ones around and just say "mom i think its time for me to go on the pills" or something.. just let her know whats on your mind and she'll understand!
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Ok when either me or my brother are on AIM it says we have ad-ware in the AIM software. When I'm in it it randomly puts on a away message with this link and it says still friends?? We've run the Norton Anti-Virus on it and Spy Sweeper which is supposed to get rid of ad-ware and spy-ware. How did we get it and how do we get rid of it? (link)
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hey! yah i use spy-sweeper but that won't get it off.. its a virus you get when you look into peoples profiles or away message they have those certain links that contain viruses in them.. what i do when i get it is if you have windows xp ((which is what i have)) run system restore on it..you may want to ask your parents about it first just incase they don't want you to.. but what you do is go to start all programs accessories system tools n it should be there system restore-- then when you click it there should be this thing its like a calendar n you pick a date.. it depends how long this has been going on.. like today is august 30th so if its been happening for a week then pick a date for when its been over a week ago.. like 2 weeks ago or something.. if you get what im saying.. then it will shut down your computer and start restoring--depending on how recent your restore is it may take awhile if your restoring from like a month ago or something.. but just let it run and then it will restart when its done and this pop up will come up that SHOULD say system restore complete.. then your set to go. on that date it will have everything you had from that time.. it wont delete like AIM or anything.. but if you want you can save some stuff that you really need just incase. it SHOULD work.. if not-try re-installing AIM.. hopefully htat will work.. if you don't understand something IM me and i'll help you out--xtoxickisserx
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Me and My boyfriend have been going out for awhile but we haven't seen eachother sence we started going out because I had cheerleading and he had football..we talk on the phone all the time but I wanna do something together with him..should I just ask him one day on the phone to do something or wait till he asks me? (link)
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no! tell him that you havent hung out in awhile and you really miss spending time w/ him n then ask him if he wants to chill one day! then compare schedules n see when a good time is for both of you n there ya go! have fun!
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uh i liked this guy, (like recently) and he also liked me but we wernt goin out or anything, then one day he just tells me that he doesnt really like me any more, but i could tell he was sorry when he had to tell me cause he was really sweet about it and all, but i still like him, what should i do, ill rate high! (link)
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tell him that you still like him and ask him why he just decided one day to not like you anymore! a guy broke up with me one time n u could tell her wasnt all sure about it.. n then tells me later that he still loved me n wanted to go back out so maybe things will work out for the best!!
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Ok so I'm starting my new job at Subway on Monday. And I want to know how I should do my make-up and stuff. I have medium brown hair, green eyes, and kind of tan/pale skin. They said we can wear jewelry, but not long necklaces. I want to wear earrings but do you think hoop earrings would be ok for the first day? They also said we could have our nails done but just professionaly. Thanx! I'll rate you a ONE! (link)
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hey! wear eyeliner-a lil bit of blush-all that.. put a lil bit of lip gloss on n i wouldnt wear real big hoops.. id wear like lil ones. n yah if u want u can have ur nails done that would look cute as well! have a good day hope u like it! n u dont have to rate me lol its ok
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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever
Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?
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aww well i think thats cute! just because his a year younger than you doesnt mean anything at all.. to me, age is just a number! but its maturity that brings it out in people ;-) hahaha.. yah well i think if its in your heart to get to know this guy then you should! you shouldn't just stop hanging out with the people your hanging out with now to be with him.. but you should def. call him up n ask him to chill one time or somethin n see how u feel! if you really liked hangin out with him after that, then i'd tell him n see wat he thinks about it! he just might like u too! =D n dont worry about wat neone thinks.. if they dont like the fact ur goin out w/ someone a year younger than u they'll have to deal with it because its not about what they think.. its about what YOU and HIM think!! soo yah just have fun w/ him flirt with him n everything.. n you'll be good to go!
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does drinking lots of water actually help you lose weight? and if yes, how much should u drink? (link)
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well its better for you to drink than sodas n stuff so yah it can!
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this guy that i used to date and i are still like semi friends...we can talk about anything and when i say that i mean anything...and the other day we talked on the phone for EIGHT hours EIGHT!!! i think i still like him but i dont know because last time it didnt work out...but now i feel closer to him and comfortable talking to him and i dont know what to do?! (link)
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i'd stay friends with him.. i think your lucky to even still be his friend--some guys are jerks and after you break up they just decide not to talk to you ever again! but believe me, being his friend is better than being nothing at all! if you want, let him know you like him a lil bit n see wat he says but i wouldn't stress over it if he doesnt feel the same way back! if he does then i'd go ahead and give it anotehr shot you have nothin to lose!!
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I have a wedding to go to in about..a month in a half and I need a skirt like knee lenthy kinda wavy and layered kind of skirt solid color i prefer maybe with a little design i dont care but anyways do you guys know any sites online to order cute skirts and shirts to go with it and a cute shoe site with high heels or sandals too. thanks so much! (link)
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well i think charlotte rousse as good clothes or like jc pennys or macys or something!!
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Has anybody heard of gender identity disorder? it's when you are born one gender but with the opposite gender's body? example, you can be a guy trapped in a girls body. I think I have a friend who has this. She's more than just a "tomboy." She dresses like a guy, acts like a guy, does manly things, talks manly, denies that she has or ever will get her period, and she duck tapes her boobs down. what do you think of this? (link)
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wow.. umm i'd go to the doctors n ask about that.. she hasnt had her period yet n she duck tapes her boobs down??? somethings gotta be wrong there!! ask the doc wat he thinks even though it may be a lil embarassing lol sry!
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does anyone know of any good websites with aim icons that are cute...not the dolls or original gay ones but cute ones?? (link)
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umm like ballericons.com i think thats one.. you can also search online for sum go to google or somethin n type in icons
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i dont kno what to wear on the 1st day of school
i am a very sporty gurl and i dont like to wear that much gurly gurly stuff but i wanna like a sport sexy look for the 1st day and i dont kno what to do with my hair either . i have madd curly hair but i can strightin it but it might be frizzy
i am have with brown hair with blonde hightlights . . ((i have a nice ass ppl say))
what should i wear and what to do with my hair helppp me please !!! (link)
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wear dark jeans or capris w/ a white or pink shirt!! n u can put mousse in your hair so it makes it curly... n put a headband on!! it'll look cute
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about a month or 2 ago, i tripped and fell and a nail sliced my leg all the way down...(sorry if that is gross) and now i have this really ugly scar...is there anyway to get rid of it? thanks! ill rate you either a 4 or 5!! (link)
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umm i don't think so.. you should probably go see a doctor and ask what he/she thinks!! good luck n im sorry to hear about that =/
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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..
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making out is the same as french kissing the difference is you use tongue when you french/make out.. normal kissing is no tongue just lips lol =P
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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.
1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?
2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)
3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)
Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated. (link)
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wow i'm really sorry.. yeah, i definitely think you should tell her someday soon! and just let her know that your there for her if she ever needs anything.. as for her boyfriend to move in with you guys.. i wouldnt be so sure about that... because their not going to be together forever, eventually they will break up n then what? to add on to that, their only 12 years old... they don't understand much you know? and i think they'd be wayy too young to even sleep in the same room! if i was letting my daughters boyfriend move in theres no way i'd let them sleep together! personally, if you do let them they'll probably end up doing something they'll regret--it seems like your daughter is already regretting this.. it might make things worse if you know what i mean!! people at school also might say things about them if you let him move in.. so im not really sure.. it may be best if he just moves with his mom and even though your daughter may not want that.. it just seems like the right thing to do. but then again, thats just my opinion. better yet, ask him what he wants to do!! after all, it is his life so he should have some say right? if he does end up moving, she'll find someone new there are going to be plenty of guys in and out of her life until she finds the right one.. so right now she should just enjoy her time bein young n spend tons of time with her boyfriend incase he does decide to move! n as for you adopting the baby or letting her take care of it--i say you adopt it. like i said, shes only 12 and probably wants to enjoy herself. shes going to want to hang out with friends, be busy with school, and other activies and stuff.. especially when she gets older like in her teen years.. shes goin to want to party and stuff- theres no way she can do that with a baby. its a big responsibility i just don't think a 12 year old would have no matter how mature they were. i know your scared and just wanna do the right thing for your daughter.. but you should probably just go ahead and adopt the baby. i'm really sorry to hear about all of this and i hope i helped in giving you my opinion! good luck, and write back you can IM me or leave a message on here for me.. let me know what happens! =)--if you need any other help just let me know!
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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think? (link)
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well. i think you should just tell him that you don't want to personally.. if your having ne doubts about it then thats that.. u probably shouldnt do it because u'll regret it later. if he doesnt understand then maybe it just wasnt meant to be.. hes gonna have to understand if he cares about you and if he doesn't understand n gets mad or something then hes just gunna have to deal w/ it! just dont let him pressure u into doin somethin u dont want to do n u'll be ok!
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My 12 year old cousin is going through puberty. She has always been a tomboy and she's disgusted with the whole process. To make matters worse she is developing rapidly (she's already a C-cup), and she started her period. She is normally a very happy person, but has become very depressed. She wears layered clothes and big sweatshirts, in the summer, to hide the changes of her body. Is there anything I can say or do to make her transition any easier?
(I've already tried telling her that it's normal and all girls go through it, but that didn't help.) (link)
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hmm just tell her that its ok to be herself--just because shes going through changes doesn't mean she has to change herself!! and take her shopping or something that always helps.. help her pick out stuff that is appropriate for the season lol
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Hi well I already have a boyfriend but I bumpped into this other guy and he is so hot but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend.
I don't want to break his heart!!
THe other boy likes me and we talk but if My boyfriend found out I'd break his heart!
what do I do???!!! plz don't erase this because I need total help!! (link)
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well i'm sorry to say but if your having any doubts then you should probably just break up with your b/f.. like if your starting to have feelings for another guy you shouldn't stay with your boyfriend even if you will break his heart.. lemme tell you, its better to break up with him now than later.. the later you wait the more heartbroken hes going to get & its not fair to him or you. he may be upset.. but at least he'll understand and get over it eventually and u'll feel better.. u'll b doing the right thing!
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So I broke up with justin and i told james how i felt...he told me that he would have to think about it and that i hurt him alot..this kristina gurl is gone..she played him..and now im juss waitin fer him to let me back in his life...thanks fer ur advice and i rly aprectiate it.....
Heres the ? though
Okay so my friend goes out with this guy named joe and hes a total ass whole...n everyone says that he is playin her n stuff...bnut she wont dump him..she crys over him all the tyme and wen he talks on the phone wit her and her friendz are over hes always like oo are they hott n she gets hurt..he called her prude b/c she would do nythin with him at camp and he just recentally dumped her becauase of that...she wont stop cryin and being sad..juss the otha day joes gurlfriend imed her n flipped out on her n she hasnt been the same since then..i need ur help...how can i help her ferget...what advice should i give her??
thanks alot...Bbye (link)
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Hey! sorry it took me so long to answer. im sorry about your friend-- really all you can do is just be there for her, tell her that your there if she needs a friend or just someone to talk to.. and tell her that your gonna be there for her no matter what, so she may not feel like talking right now, but if she ever does she can come to you and just help her out! i'd suggest taking her out.. like goin shopping or go to dinner and a movie or somethin! just hang out w/ her and i'm sure she'll get her mind off him for a little while! after a little of hanging out and having fun she WILL cheer up and she'll probably start being herself again.. i'm sure she just really liked him and was upset that he did that to her.. when you really like someone its hard to see the bad side in them sometimes.. and even thoug hyour best friends are there telling you that its not good to go out with him you don't listen because you just don't wanna face the truth sometimes.. but i'm sure your friend will live up to it eventually and be her normal self.. so i would suggest talking to her and tellin her what i told u up there ^^ and takin her out!!
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