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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?
size three is small, lol, so why the fuck are they making fun of you for? thats ridiculous.. how do they even know your size anyway? dont even worry about what they say, cause yeah, 3 is small
I'M HAPPY BUT SAD.. the guy i really like has been trying to ask me out, but can never find me after school. He also likes my best friend. He's like "She's going out with ____? Maybe if i ask her out she'll dump him and go out with me." Right AFTER he was trying to find me to ask me out.. But yeah.. so today he was looking for me again, but I couldn't go meet him because my ride was coming and plus I didn't know if I should because he likes my best friend, too. I think I am just his second choice, but my best friend says that he likes me more... but he tried kissing her yesterday! She pulled away though because she has a boyfriend.
I'm going to see him tonight. I think he's going to ask me out, but I don't know what to do. He seems to like my bff more than me, but then again I barely see him.
Should I go out with him? I just don't know..
honestly, im not sure if you should.. because to me, it seems like hes playing mind games. how is he interested in you and your best friend at the same time? say you and him started going out,how do you know if hes trying to talk to some other grl. but if you really like him, then give it a shot. just be sure you know what you want and that you looked at all sides before following through
I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...
who cares what other people think, its your life. me and my boyfriend are different races, we dont care. dont worry about it. it shouldnt matter what other people say or think because theyre not in your shoes.
ok i like this guy... ALOT! but there seems to be this little rat face bitch always in my way. and she keeps flirting with him. and i know she is doing it to piss me off. but i dont know what i should do?
yeah, there are always going to be little rat face bitches getting in the way. tell her to fall the fuck back. she knows shes doing that to make you mad, so say something to her. she needs to stop being immature
Okie, here's a little background...my guy and I have been dating for almost 11 months, and we're really serious.
Recentlyish, my mom's been focusing on EVERY little "mistake" my guy makes. For instance, today he was late picking me up for school and she kept saying "I hope he's really coming, because you missed the bus and I'm not driving you." and stuff like that., and I wanted to smack her...Lol. I HATE that she keeps doing this. She takes the tiniest things, like lateness, or the way he's so tight with money and turns them into huge flaws.
I pointed out to her that she makes me think she doesn't like him, and she tells me she's just "looking out for me" and "making sure I see things/the whole picture". Honestly, the only thing I see wrong with him is that he snores on his back...
My guy also thinks my mom has issues with him, and I suggested maybe HE should talk to her about the impression she's giving off, but I doubt he'd do it unless I bothered him about it enough.
The thing is, I've been really careful with this relationship and am able to take myself out of the picture and see what's going on because I want it to work more than anything.
The confusing thing is, mom says she actually likes him. I don't understand her. How do I get my mom to shut up?
i dont know if what i say will help, but im 18 years old and my mom still says dumb stuff about my guy as well. im EIGHTEEN! moms are always going to be protective, no matter what. and its true, they are looking out for you. i know this, but the shit she says still urks the shit out of me. but what else can i do? ive talked to her about it, yet, she continues to say dumb things. i guess you just have to let it be. she'll have to get over it at her own pace.
Hey I am a 14 year old girl and I really like this guy at school and he knows I like him. He used to like me but I'm not sure he does anymore. Any advice on how to be more flirty or drop a hint that I like him. And how do I figure out if he likes me? Thanks alot!! Ill rate!!
i dont want to sound mean or anything, but its better that you dont beat around the bush. youre 14, so im guessing youre in high school. youre not a little kid anymore, so you should just tell him straight up, how you feel about him. there isnt a point in playing mind games because sometimes, guys just dont get it. be real with him. he'll admire your boldness.
Hey all, just looking for some different opinions on my hair. I'm getting it cut, dyed and tipped (im a guy by the way). Im going to have it so its medium length, and im going to get it dyed black, but im not sure what colour i should get the tips. I was thinking of like a copper colour, but i need help. Any advice would be great, even advice on styles or cutting lengths n styles lol. help would be greatly appreciated. Cheers!
honestly, because you say any advice will be great.. i think that you should just dye it black and not have your tips done. the guys around my way, some of them have their tips dyed and i personally think it doesnt look so good. i mean, hey, if you want to do it, then go for it. maybe youre one of a few who can pull it off.
but if youre going to dye it and your going to base it black, i say tip it blue. thats the only color i think would look nice with black. ;]
ok here it goes and i really hope yall can help me. ok i wanna lose sum weight in my tummy n my inner thighs but i want my bottom to get bigger not shrink. does anyone know any exercises or diets i can do to get this?! oh and also my face gets oily during the day and i really dont like it. is there anyway i can stop this?! thank you and tell me if you want a rating cause i rate good! thank you!
i dont know about diets, im a skinny piece of shit.. but about the oilness, there are these powder things that you put on your face to prevent your face from getting oily.. and there are like these blue sheets of paper to wipe the oil from your face. i think theyre by clean and clear.. you can find them at any drug store under the section where it has like lotion and stuff.
is age nuthin but a number? i mean like im gonna be 14 soon and i like three ppl who r all juniors and im a freshman. thats not bad at all but i am a young freshman ya kno? and my mom doesnt have a problem with me going out with ppl who are older then me but i kinda do. i just feel so young and these ppl r like 16, 17 and almost 17. how do i stop falling for older guys?
well nothings wrong.. because 17 isnt much older than you at all. dont sweat it, youre fine
Why do poeple shave down there? I've just alwasy wondered that. And what does it do in terms of sex? Does it make the experience diffferent? And doesn't it depend on the guy if he likes it shaved or not?
i shave my hairs, yeah. but i dont think it makes a damn difference. i used to not shave it, and my guy said he liked it like that. but i guess its different for everyone. anyway, im asian.. and asian grls have straight pubic hairs instead of wavy? or whatever.. so even if i didnt shave it, it looks fine. so really, its what you like, or what you prefer. but as long as its trimmed some, youre cool.
ok i know this is a question alot of people ask..but i like this guy..like alot and we're good friends and we talk sometimes..i guess? i wanna tell him i like him but i can't..cuz im too shy..and he doesn't have a screen name..Ah..so are there any ways to show him i like him..without ya know..atchually saying it directly..alomst like flirting? Thanks!
you can flirt and some people still dont get the point. the best thing to do is straight out tell the guy that you like him. theres no point in beating around the bush
ok im trying to get an ipod off of freeipods.com does anyone know if its a scam? have u done it and not gotten one or gotten a crappy ipod?? plz lemme know.
thanx--
well i know a couple people who actually signed up for it and got free ipods. i tried to get it as well, but there were too many steps to go through so i just said fuck it..
if someone is wearing lime green tights, or pantyhoes or whatever, does that mean anything? like does that mean theyre lesbian or gay?
well i hope not.. because my other aim screen name is "green tightss." only because green is my favorite color. lol.. but uhh.. no, ive never heard such a thing
LOL she's a bitch . i wouldnt know. I never meet the girl before. He talks about her alot saying she pretty n theyere always talkin. i dont she would be a "bitch"lol He's not dumb to go out with a girl like that. He said her name a few times. I really dont want to say Her name. want to keep this kind of an secrect thingy. but thatnkz alot for helping me help him.
ill think well be chattin later
ohh.. well if you ever need anymore advice, feel free to ask me!
wow u answered fast. thanks for answering back so fast. well i didnt wanna say to much becuase i didnt know who was going to answer back or what not. I kno this much. he Likes to be alone now. He stopped hanging around his friends. Most of the time i see him . he drive around with a depressed face.
When people Talk about girls Or when girls come up to him he does say "No im okay. i have strong feelings about this one perosn" The Girls says"O so your involved with someone" He says "NO but i would like to be verymuch she everything I always wanted" He such to nice of a guy to feel this kind of way n act this kind of way.. alot of girls think so. Me n Him dont really much but hanging around with him & his friends U can just get the vibe that a cool person
People told be about this web site i thought it was people jus giving peple bull crap advice.
I read what advices you given N u sound like ...u like helping people very much.
Thanks alot
oh no problem ;]
you seem to care about your friend very much. he should be happy that he has a friend like you to worry so much about him.
soo.. hes not with this girl huh? well, thats our answer to his problem. if hes in love with this girl, and hes not with her, this can really upset the hell out of him. has he tried to talk to this girl about the feelings he has towards her? if this friend of yours is such a great guy, why wouldnt she be with him? maybe shes a bitch? lol who knows. but i dont think he should waste his time on a girl that doesnt want to be with him. its kind of mean to say, but.. there can be plenty of other girls out there. you say that girls try talking to him but he turns them down.. maybe he shouldnt do that.. but then again.. it seems like he has very very strong feelings for this girl. if he loves her that much, then i guess its worth it. but it all depends really.. it depends on how this girl feels about him. see i understand his side, but i dont know about her side.. so its hard to say. but really, youre a girl, youd probably know if this girl is a total bitch or not. if she is, tell him the best way, that he shouldnt be wasting his time on a girl like that. its not fair for him to be stressing over a girl like that. how old is he anyway? well.. i dont know.. but all i can say is to talk to him and tell him he shouldnt waste his time on a girl that doesnt have the same feelings as he does towards him.
Not really sure where to start. i have so many questions. first I have this friend that really likes this girl. Matter infact i think he's inlove with her. Recently he changed. Bfore he would be all about business n serious n goofy at times. but now he's actin different he's really not goofy anymore he's mostly quiet like he has things on his mind. Looks like things bothering him. And when i ask him whats wrong he would play it off by goofing around or laughing. he has alot of guy friends .. well matter infact i think im the only one(grl) that notices this.
He's been home lately. and now he brings a little book around writing things in it. He looks down most of the time. when he realize people looks at him change his face. you can tell by the way he act hes thinking about something. And He's been home alot lately.
I dont know much i just want to know what kind of advice i should give him. i think that if U talk about Whats going on you feel better.
Can you give me your best advice.. i scared it something serious.. or maybe he just is inlove
well.. love can do many things to a person. it can make a person weak, it can make a person strong. you say that your friend is in love with a girl, but is he going out with her? if he is, hes probably having problems with her.. maybe things arent working out too well.. if hes not with her, then thats probably basically why he feels the way he feels. its quite obvious that hes sad.. hmm.. i dont know.. try to sit him down and tell him that you know whats going on and that you know hes upset about something. try to get it out of him. tell him that he shouldnt be soo sad over a girl, especially if he loves her.. because if this girl loved him, she wouldnt want him to be sad. i dont know much on this situation.. so maybe you might have to tell me a little more about it, if you know more that is.
but then again, it may not be about this girl. he may just be depressed.. everyone goes through a stage of depression sometime.. whether it lasts a week, or a year... just go to your friend, and let him know that youll always be there for him no matter what. and friends arent supposed to keep things from other friends, so he should be able to talk to you about anything.. i dont know if i helped much.. but if you have any other questions, feel free to drop one in my inbox. if you find out more about this situation, write me back. good luck with your friend
this is kinda a dumb ?..but i have a 5 month old shihtzu..and when i sit him up..he has this red stuff that comes out if his "penis" but when i stand him back up..it goes away..what is that and why does it happen..lol..sorry if you dont understand my question..i tryed
well.. i have two shihtzu's.. one male one female.. the males, yeah, his penis seems to look red at the tip.. but i think thats normal for my dog. im not sure about having red stuff come out of it, you might need to go to the vet for that. if you have any other questions about shihtzu's, you can leave one in my box.
so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!
that means he wants you to go deeper.. if you cant go any deeper, tell him to calm down.. he should be happy he getting head period.
I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?
if he tells you straight out that he would cheat on a girl, then hes definitely not worth it.. because if you went out with him, in your mind, youre always going to be paranoid thinking he may cheat on you.. and thats not a very good feeling. so, i dont think you should go back with him. he seems like a guy thatll break your heart, and you deserve better
Ok, are you supposed to shave your ahem pubic area? Ive heard you are and you aren't and it's so confusing. Or do you just do it if you're going to have sex? I'd appreciate the help.
its not like you have to, but some guys prefer it. when i didnt shave, my guy liked it just the same.. but i shave it now. i dont know.. it doesnt really matter, as long as its trimmed. its just a hassle having to shave it all the time because it grows back pretty quick, but yeah.. i do it anyway. it does look nicer.