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Well there isn't too much to say about me. I love to give advice. It makes me feel great. I am very short lolz. I have blonde hair and I'm in love. =] Also don't be afraid to give me feedback because I'd like to know how good of a job I am doing. Don't be afraid to ask me questions or send me a message.
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i put this under Love Life bcos it was the closest to what i'm asking about!! Basically i'm just really confused with my life right now...i'm only 18 but i'm thinking ahead and worrying about how my life is going to go!! I'm out with my friends most days yet I still feel it's not enough- like i'm not getting enough out of life,!i have never felt like this before and it's really confusing me!! but i have been like this for a couple of months now. i've even started to think about my ex (who I split up with in April, and i don't even like him anymore!) idk i was just wondering if anyone else felt like this? and what can i do to take my mind off it?
This is very normal. A lot of people worry about the future. I mean it's good to think about your future careers and things like that. Just don't get ahead of yourself. You should enjoy the present while you can. Worry about the future later. To do this you could focus on your friends, your career plans, etc. Just don't get carried away and remember to have fun while you can. Hope this helps. =]
What are you seriously going to do with them? I mean, they say one thing, but do the other.
Anyways, I suppose I should start from the beginning. My names Megan, and I've been completely Anti-love for the past few months, due to the final realization that it's not really something I'm good at. I have problems staying interested in one guy, and it drives me competely nuts. And when I actually care, they don't.
So for the past few weeks I've been having all these mixed feelings about this one guy. He's a real sweety. But sometimes I think he's just saying all these cute corny lines just because he can, not because he means it. It drives me nuts, although I should just trust him and believe that he does care. But I don't know.. I just opened up my heart again, after I thought I couldn't care again.
Should I give him a try..? Or what? x-x
Okay well does he act the same in front of his guy friends? How has he treated other girls in the past? These are a few things you really need to consider. I mean if you have a lot of doubts about his love maybe you should wait until someone better comes along that you know will love you and treat you nice. I hope this helps you.
hey shelbz its your brother i need help! how do i impress my girl i mean ya know i know to be myself but ok look can ya just help me
Ethan-san
Hey Ethan! I'm glad u asked me for advice. Okay. Yes, being yourself is perfect. Also make sure you don't diss her in front of your guy friends. Like if yuo're hanging with them and she comes up to you don't act like you don't know her or you're not dating her. Let her know that you like or love her. Be really sweet to her. Just make sure you don't do anything that you'll regret, k? Love ya bro! =]
What do you think about dark brown to black hair with caramel blonde streaks in the bangs??
Half tthe people I asked said itd be really cute, them some said it would look wierd...I found a great picture on google images.....
Type in 'girl scene hair' and its the second picture on the second page if you wanna see it.
I do think it'd be really cute. Make sure you have the right type of bangs to do it though. I'm sure it'll look great. Good luck. =]
Just wondering what some peoples goals are. some things you would like to do before you die.Your dreams.
All I ever wanted was to find my true love. I am positive I've found him. We plan on getting married in the future. =]
i cant seem to stop getting hurt by this boy. we dated for 2 years and i was in love. the first time he broke up with me it hurt so bad. he did it about 3 times and always came back to me. the last time he broke up with me i tried to make it work for a month and then gave up and tried to move on. about 3 months later he started talking to me again. of course throughout the time we didnt talk i still always thought of him and i still had a ton of feelings for him, i just was trying to get over him and it was working. but when we started talking again he had already gone off to college which is only about an hour from where i live. anyways for about 2 weeks we just texted and stuff until he finally asked me to come down. i said i didnt know if it was a good idea and he told me how he still had feelings and that he thinks he might still love me. so that weekend i went down tehre and it was amazing. he was soo nice, it was the good him the him that i missed, the him that loved me. when i got home that night i texted him and he didnt respond. the next day we didnt talk at all. it was strange because before he would text me everyday. so the day after i called him and he didnt sound like he wanted to talk? when we hung up i just started bawling because ive been through his whole i love you i miss you and then i dont like you thing tooooo many times. and i had this horrible feeling that he was going to let me down again even though he had said it wasnt going to be liek that anymore. but the next day he actually ended up texting me. just saying whats up, but i knew he was thinking about me. but i brought up going down there again adn he said "idk" like wtf does he mean idk? just before he was telilng me he still loved me he still misses me and now he doesnt know if he wants me to see him again?! at that moment i knew he was going to try to play those mind games with me again and my heart just cant take anymore from him..... yesterday i got on facebook and his status said he was coming home 2morrow. it just sunk down my stomach. like are you serious? you're coming down and he didnt even say anything to me? especially when i asked about comeing down ther again sometime.. i just cant do it anymore. i have so many feelings for him but i just feel like.... i deserve better?! what do you guys think?! i actually just like 20 minutse ago deleted him from a friend on facebook, and about 5 minutes later he called me. i didnt answer.. i think i need to just let it go?
I totally think you deserve so much better then that! Any guy who is a jerk like that to a girl should be ashamed. I think you should try to get over him. Deleting him and not answering the phone was a wise choice for this situation. Remember there are other fish in the sea, just as there are many other guys in the world. Good luck to you. =]
i'm 14 years old and COMPLETELY FLAT-CHESTED.
every every every one of my friends and people i know my age has at least started to get boobs and i haven't.
i'm so sick of it.
i'm so flat.
people keep saying it's normal, and that i should just be happy and "everyone develops at different rates."
well it sure doesn't seem normal. everywhere i look EVERYONE my age (unless there's something wrong with them) has boobs. at least a little.
p.s.: i'm small and i haven't started my period yet. does that mean anything?
Knowing both of these I'd just say you haven't gone through puberty to yet. It's okay though. You're actually very lucky, periods are not fun at all. Don't worry though. You will get them soon enough. Good luck and I hope this helped you. =]
i am 13/f :)
Well... there are 2 guys, and they are both cute... and well, one of them is really funny and the other is really cute! Is it normal to like 2 guys???? And, if not, I DONT KNOW WHICH 1 I REALLY LIKE ... :(
thats my first question. Second, if i want to like actually INTERACT with them (i dont chat with either 1 much... and they are in almost every class!),how can i like get a conv started??? Like, should i just go up to him or WHAT???
thnx for ever1 who will (try to) help!!!!!
Liking two guys at once is very normal.
Well what I suggest is starting a simple conversation. Talk about an upcoming school event or their clothes, shoes, etc. Just become friends. Later you can realize who to go for and how you want to do it. I hope this helps you. =]
16/f
Okay, so this guy and i are officially "talking" now. We talked for like 3 weeks just to get to know eachother and just be friends. Well for a week now we have been "talking" as in i like you more than friends but were not going out yet. Anyways, he calls me every night and we talk between 1 and 2 hours each night. I hardly get to see him in school but he never comes to my locker and he knows where it is. He knows where i stand in school before it actually starts. I see him for a second after my 1st period and i guess he never sees me (or maybe he just acts lie it)i'm just so confused on why he won't come see me. If i guy likes you, wouldn't he find time to come to your locker and wait for you or talk to you in the halls? Am i right or wrong? Thanks!
He is probably very nervous about it. I mean it's easier to talk on the phone, text, or email because it isn't face to face. I bet that's why. I don't think he'd avoid you for any other reason. He will probably come around. If not, why not talk to him about it? It couldn't hurt. I hope this helps. =]
i work out everyday or 6 times a week,and rest one day im not fat at all im really thin but i would like to stay in shape since i was overweight before so whenever i run my lower part of my stomache really hurts like its next to your hips and close to your stomache? haha i know this might sound confusing but does anyone understand what i mean? anyways,why does it hurt? my friends tell me its because i probably drink and then go run?but idk...thanks! :D
This is a good thing. It means the muscles are getting stronger. This is normal fro people who work out and such. You should feel the burn. lol. It will probably stop after a period of time though. I hope this helps you. =]
I had a boyfriend not long ago and I still have feelings for him. we went out for 3 months and i just cant let him go. now and then i sort of tell him as a joke.. was i a good gf to see if he was still interested. the reason we broke up was because he IS a hit of a player but is soooo kind and loving! the perfect boyf. intelligent and handsome and taller than me. but his ex's are his best m8s and he has been out with most of my year group. and he told me that he has never felt this way about a girl before and that i was soo beautiful which i really disagrree. help me! i want him back but i dont want him to play around.
Tell him your limits. He can have all of you and nobody else, or he can have nothing at all. Explain to him that you don't like him seeing other girls while he's dating you. I mean it's okay to be friends, but not all this other stuff. Enough is enough and you should be good enough fro him by yourself. If he doesn't realize this then he does not deserve you. I hope this helps you. =]
My boyfriend and I love each other to death, but we're drifting apart..
Any songs to help?
Thanks so much
No air. This will make you two realize you can't be without each other. I hope this helps you. =]
I like this guy.
He goes on my bus ,but he doesn't even notice me!
What Should I do?
Here's what I'd do. One day when you get on the bus sit close to him. Either beside or behind him. Don't make it to obvious though. Strike up an interesting conversation with him. Like an upcoming school event would be perfect. Try getting a friendship with him first. If you just can't wait anymore I'd go ahead and tell him. It's better to do that then just let it slide. You can't just keep your feelings hidden forever. I hope this helps you. =]
I absolutely love my father, I really do, and he's a great dad and all but... I don't want to live with him any more. He's a slob, he's always moody and he uses his depression as an excuse. He also has a lot of debt and I'm sick of having his weights on my shoulders all the time, you know?
My brother has offered me that if I want to, I can rent a room of his house. I'm thinking of taking this up and possibly bringing a friend with me so it'd be less rent for me to pay 'cause we'd be splitting it. He's a reliable guy, too.
Does this seem like a bad idea? I'm 15 and a half, I'm paid $800 a month from my job, I plan on staying in school and my brother lives close to the school.
I'm just afraid my dad will get upset and stop talking to me.
I think this is a great idea. I would do the same. Hm, I would break it to my dad slowly and nicely. Explain to him that you do love him, you just need your space and already have enough problems to deal with oun your own. I hope this helps. =]
Well, first off, I'm not the most popular, pretty, or skinny girl in our school. I'm just average. So I don't think it's one of those jealousy issues. I'm also basically pretty shy around people so I don't know about my personality?
So, there's this girl who's a sophmore, I'm a freshman, and she randomly decided to just hate me. Now, I've never spoken to this girl, I've never hung out with or around her since she's a grade older and we've never had any classes. She added me on myspace over the summer but she one day decided to block me. Now, I don't hate her, because I don't know her, but she obviously has a huge problem with me because any time we happen to see each other in the hallways or something she glares at me and does anything she can to make me notice her hatred towards me.
I guess I only want to know why because of curiosity. I don't know if I should confront her about it though, because she might take it the wrong way or something and hate me more. I've left it alone for a little while, but I'm just so curious lol :) So, should I email her or something? Thanks so much!
I personally think you should confront her about it. I mean that's has got to be better than what you're going through now. Make sure you take it nice and easy while talking to her though. Be careful. =]
okay, so i have 3 cats. one female, two males. well my female i've had for almost 5 years. my two males ive had for like 3. well, once i brought in my two males cats my female cat started using the carpet as the bathroom. now its like a daily thing for her and the males began doing it as well. i know they do it now because the smell is there and everything. well i was wondering how to get them to stop?? like i know cats dont like moth balls. If i were to put moth balls in the area they use as the bathroom, do you think they would quit? Any help would be nice. i need my cats to quit or i have to get rid of them :\
Hm. I think you should potty train them. You know, litter boxes. If you've already done this then why not take them outside. I know it may be strange but you can buy leashes for cats too. I hope this helsp you a bit. Cat's aren't realyl my specialty haha. =]
ok so i really want to lose weight. Thi month i am drinking only water and eating no junk food but fruit and vegetables. is there anything else i can do that can speed this process up like exercise or something? but i dont wanna do any strenuous exercise like five miles a day. do you have any ideas thanks!
You could go to a gym. Even getting a membership would work. I mean I would continue working out for the rest of my life if I could. There are many different gyms out there. It just depends on where you live. Search for a=one that fits what you want to do. Also yoga actually works very well and it keeps you relaxed too. I hope this helps you. =]
i cant tell if this guy likes me. we text everyday, and we've hung out ALOT but he sends such mixed signals. when he asks me to hang out i cant tell if its a date or not because he doesnt want to do it anymore when i invite me friends ( he hasn't said it but i can tell), but if i dont invite my friends they get mad because they like him too. please help :(
I bet he does. Maybe he wants the privacy so he can tell you he does like you. I would go with him by myself a few times so he feels better. I mean you could invite your friends along sometimes but not every single time. I'm sure that could get annoying if it's you he wants to spend his time with. Maybe you can see him different times then you see your friends? I hope this helps you. =]
So homecomeings next saturday and go figure, i dont have a date yet. Everyone thought the dance was going to be casual, but last minute they decided to change it to semi formal. Because of that a lot of people have decided not to go becase they dont feel like going out and buying a dress. Only one friend of mine is going dateless, like me. And we thought we could just go and hang out the whole time. Im kind of afarid that she is going to get asked to go with someone and i wont, and ill have already bought my dress (which im buying tomorrow), and ill be forced to go alone. Should i chance it?
If you want to go I think you should, especially since you have got the dress. I mean who cares if you don't have a date? That's fine. Even if you're friend does you don't have to. Go have fun. Hang with you're buds. I hope this helps you. =]
Hi everyone! Well, I'm fourteen, and to pathetically sum it up, I've never dated, and/or gone on a date before. Alright, so I know the subject for my question (My Immature freind is bugging the CRAP outta me!!!!!) was really immature as well, but Any way, I have a freind named "Z". (Who's a boy by the way, this info is important later on in the story.) We really aren't all THAT close as me and some of my BFF's, but he's pretty high in rank. Well, I'm a christian, and I go to a youth group meeting every Thursday night and he goes too. A lot of the times, he brings one of my close friends "A" there with him as well, as they are friends too. Well, I had found out a few weeks ago that Z likes me from one of my best friends. Well, I will show up for youth group and of course, he minorly "flirts" with me. Like, laughing at jokes he normally wouldn't laugh at, making funny faces at me across the room, like the kind of kid flirting. That part I don't mind at all. Really, it's "A" that really gets me ticked off. She mostly comes to youth group because I'm there, so she folows me around all night. So, she's there when Z "flirts" with me. She does the "Awwwwww!" Or the kind of kindergarden taunting thing, "Z loves Rachel! Z loves Rachel!" It embarasses Z really badly, but he never denies it, or sometimes goes "So...?", or ignores her/ pretends not to hear. But the point is, I don't get why she can't just SHUT UP about it ya know? But, I always keep my negitive feelings hidden from friends, so I just go "A shut up!" jokingly. I don't get why she can't just leave me and him alone. It bugs me SOOO much I just wanna scream when shes near! It seems i've developed some sort of a twitch from that. xDDD But thats not all, she does. She teases me, literally, TEASES me and him about it. In front of the youth group too! This whole thing between me and Z is kind of new to us so we kind of want it on the down low. But A wont take a hint. I may be over reacting or something, but I want her o CUT IT OUT!! Please help! Thanks! :)
It sounds to me like she may be jealous that you're getting this kind of attention from a guy. I think you should talk to her about it. Tell her that it really bothers you when she does this, even though she isn't meaning to hurt you. I hope this helps. =]