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My Immature freind is bugging the CRAP outta me!!!!!
Hi everyone! Well, I'm fourteen, and to pathetically sum it up, I've never dated, and/or gone on a date before. Alright, so I know the subject for my question (My Immature freind is bugging the CRAP outta me!!!!!) was really immature as well, but Any way, I have a freind named "Z". (Who's a boy by the way, this info is important later on in the story.) We really aren't all THAT close as me and some of my BFF's, but he's pretty high in rank. Well, I'm a christian, and I go to a youth group meeting every Thursday night and he goes too. A lot of the times, he brings one of my close friends "A" there with him as well, as they are friends too. Well, I had found out a few weeks ago that Z likes me from one of my best friends. Well, I will show up for youth group and of course, he minorly "flirts" with me. Like, laughing at jokes he normally wouldn't laugh at, making funny faces at me across the room, like the kind of kid flirting. That part I don't mind at all. Really, it's "A" that really gets me ticked off. She mostly comes to youth group because I'm there, so she folows me around all night. So, she's there when Z "flirts" with me. She does the "Awwwwww!" Or the kind of kindergarden taunting thing, "Z loves Rachel! Z loves Rachel!" It embarasses Z really badly, but he never denies it, or sometimes goes "So...?", or ignores her/ pretends not to hear. But the point is, I don't get why she can't just SHUT UP about it ya know? But, I always keep my negitive feelings hidden from friends, so I just go "A shut up!" jokingly. I don't get why she can't just leave me and him alone. It bugs me SOOO much I just wanna scream when shes near! It seems i've developed some sort of a twitch from that. xDDD But thats not all, she does. She teases me, literally, TEASES me and him about it. In front of the youth group too! This whole thing between me and Z is kind of new to us so we kind of want it on the down low. But A wont take a hint. I may be over reacting or something, but I want her o CUT IT OUT!! Please help! Thanks! :)
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I think that your friend is just, trying to be supportive in pushing you and the boi together, because my friendz use to do that all the time, but I would just ignore them. If she is really bothering you to the point where you cant take it anymore, tell her how you feel
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yeah i'm pretty sure she's jealous. maybe she likes Z too? anyways, you should talk to her about it. just tell her to stop teasing you guys because it's getting really annoying. if you don't say something she'll just keep on doing it. so you need to let her know it bothers you.
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It sounds to me like she may be jealous that you're getting this kind of attention from a guy. I think you should talk to her about it. Tell her that it really bothers you when she does this, even though she isn't meaning to hurt you. I hope this helps. =]
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