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old guy best friend
my old best guy friend use to be so close then we had a huge fight and now we tried being good friends again and he was my close friend for about a day and now things just arent working and when i try to talk to him about it he gets really mad and calls me annoying. He kind of is really rude to me and somehow i still love him as a friend and more. WHAT SHOULD I DO?(we used to hookup and stuff before are big fight)
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Well, I think you should talk to him about this. I mean, evidently the fight which you guys had is still on his mind and maybe he's also scared of that happening again because it is horrible for friends to break up over a fight. Tell him that you want to be best friends again and that you can do what you used to do before the fight.
In my column, I say that "life is kinda like a rollercoaster ride... there are the ups and the downs" and I'm going to tell you know that you've experienced the ups of the friendship, now you need to work through the downs and whatever may come after that. There could be a twist in the road, one which you didn't see coming and as friends, I believe that you can work this out between the two of you.
Don't be scared to hook up again. Take a leap of faith and see what happens, you know hopefully know how to avoid another fight and can continue the friendship.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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okay the same kinda thing just recently happened to me. this is what i think is his problem: i think he likes you as more than a friend but he's trying to ignore his feelings for you because he values your friendship more than being 'more than friends' and hooking up etc. but yeah i think he just needs some time to get over you so then you can be friends again :) but if you really want something more than friends then maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him how you really feel. good luck!
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