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"talking"
16/f
Okay, so this guy and i are officially "talking" now. We talked for like 3 weeks just to get to know eachother and just be friends. Well for a week now we have been "talking" as in i like you more than friends but were not going out yet. Anyways, he calls me every night and we talk between 1 and 2 hours each night. I hardly get to see him in school but he never comes to my locker and he knows where it is. He knows where i stand in school before it actually starts. I see him for a second after my 1st period and i guess he never sees me (or maybe he just acts lie it)i'm just so confused on why he won't come see me. If i guy likes you, wouldn't he find time to come to your locker and wait for you or talk to you in the halls? Am i right or wrong? Thanks!
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He is probably very nervous about it. I mean it's easier to talk on the phone, text, or email because it isn't face to face. I bet that's why. I don't think he'd avoid you for any other reason. He will probably come around. If not, why not talk to him about it? It couldn't hurt. I hope this helps. =]
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i think he's probably just nervous. he might not know how to act since you guys aren't actually going out, you're just 'talking'. maybe you could ask him why he never talks to you at school? or if that's too awkward or embarrassing YOU make the effort to say hi to him, that way it will give him the oppurtunity to talk to you. and if he still doesn't make an effort, then you really need to talk to him and see why this is. :) good luck
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Some guys are different. Is he a "player" or is he known to be a "good" guy? Next time you guys talk ask him if he likes you more than friends. I know you say he does but has he told you himself? Another thing you can do is go up to him, why wait for him to go to you. See whats up and than you can ask him to walk you to class or something and hopefully it will become a routine. hope i helped good luck and be good...;)
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