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what is up with my chest? please help!


Question Posted Wednesday October 8 2008, 4:10 pm

i'm 14 years old and COMPLETELY FLAT-CHESTED.
every every every one of my friends and people i know my age has at least started to get boobs and i haven't.
i'm so sick of it.
i'm so flat.
people keep saying it's normal, and that i should just be happy and "everyone develops at different rates."

well it sure doesn't seem normal. everywhere i look EVERYONE my age (unless there's something wrong with them) has boobs. at least a little.

p.s.: i'm small and i haven't started my period yet. does that mean anything?



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Er_Bear19 answered Wednesday October 8 2008, 9:26 pm:
Look at the facts: You're 14. That is young. You have a lot of time left to develop. Since you haven't gotten your period yet, it just means you could be a late bloomer. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. :]

However, even though you have a pretty good chance, this does not necessarily mean that you WILL get boobs. I'm 19, started my period at 12, my mom is a C-cup, and I'm still, and most likely will always be, an A-cup.

But whatever happens, you should always just love who you are. I know everyone says that, but what other option do you have?

But, I think that you have a good chance, so don't sweat it. :]

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hotpotato answered Wednesday October 8 2008, 9:07 pm:
People are right.. you may be a late bloomer. Don't worry. You will get boobs by the time you are sixteen probably. Look at your mother and grandmother to determine your approximate breast size. Ask them when puberty started for them.

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Winter5 answered Wednesday October 8 2008, 8:37 pm:
You are only fourteen....it will happen. All of my friends became larger A's when we were all about thirteen or fourteen and my one friend has always been very petite. After the summer of sophmore year she became a large B. And mid-way through junior year she became a C. Dont worry, it will happen. It most likely will just be more spontaneous.

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shelbz7077 answered Wednesday October 8 2008, 8:07 pm:
Knowing both of these I'd just say you haven't gone through puberty to yet. It's okay though. You're actually very lucky, periods are not fun at all. Don't worry though. You will get them soon enough. Good luck and I hope this helped you. =]

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