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Finally, I dare to make a move by giving hints to the guy whom I love few months back. And when he realised it, he asked me whether is it true that I actually love him. Obviously, I said "yes" to him and in another way round I wanted to know his answer too whether he loves me anot by being so caring towards me. The thing is he loves me but he told me that he will not be a good boyfriend for me. He told me that I can find a better guy than him to be my boyfriend. I felt so sad and hurt at the moment he said that even though he loves me. What does he meant by he loves me but he will not be a good boyfriend for me? Is he rejecting my love towards him? Few days later, he started to avoid me as though I am invisible in front of him. What should I do now? Does he have a very low confidence about himself? (link)
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he's probably been in some relationships and he's really messed up. some guys really love people but they always cheat on them. belive me there are lots of guys out there that can say you're their everything and turn around and cheat on you on a weekly bases. anyway, whatever the case is he probably thinks you're to good for him and he doesn't deserve you.
you should thalk to him and tell him that you're gonna thin he's a great boyfriend... untill he proves you wrong, and askk him if he wants to go out with you.
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Ok long story semi-short. Im 18, shes 17. Dating this girl for 8 months. Around new years she started talking to her X of 3 months (her first "love") and i found out a few days after that she still loved him and she admited it to me. a few days after that she realized she made a mistake and told me she was crazy, that people were just getting in her head. i told her ok, i just need some time to think. that we needed a break so i could forget about it. i told her i would probably go out on a few dates with some1 just to vent out and get it outa my system. and she was fine with that, i mean she told me she loved some1 else... and also durin the break was her time to PROVE to me that there is NOONE else out there for her. no1 she wants. We talked every day on the break and i told her every day that i loved her, that this wouldnt take long, and it would be me and her again soon. So we get back together. get on her myspace 2 nights ago and find out she was fucking a 20 year old "friend" while we were on our break. i confronted her. she said shes been suicial about it, shes regreated it, shes disgusted with herself... non stop crying.
k the problem is
im in love with this girl
if i wasnt i wouldnt of lasted past the first thing. and now i still cant walk away from her. but i cant even look at her. and all i think about is him and her in the bed that me and her sleep in. help what do i do
top score for any advice (link)
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you have to get that she probably isn't emotionally ready for the relationship you want. the fact that she does other guys and tells you that she loves other guys shoud tell you this. but if you still don't get it then maybe you should ask her about it. or just keep on dating other girls, eventually you'll get over her, or she'll see what she's missing out on now... just give it time and it'll work itself out
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Does anyone know somewhere (other than Youtube)that I could watch anime?Not download or anything,just watch it straight from the site. (link)
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i'm sorry i really don't know any sites that you can just watch anime on... but you can download almost anything legally, and for free from bit commet
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okay. this is really complicated.
but i need help..amd fast.
theres this guy.
lets call him dan.
we went out over the summer.
..we never kissed =0
i broke up with hima fter 2 weeks. cause we was too clingy.
now we flirt a lot. however, in octoberish he went out with one of my close friends to try to get over me. he broke up with her. long story short he might still like me.
a little while ago he asked me to be his valentine. i said yes.
do i get him a gift? or what?
pleaseeeeeeeeeeee help!
so i give him a kiss on the cheak? i dont know =\ (link)
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give him a little kiss, and a big hug! it'll probably mean alot to him, and another thing you could do is just hang out with him, ya know? it doesn't have to be much, just make him feel special.
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this kid and i always flirt and he liked me at one point and we went out but he dumped me for some other girl but he still is always touching me, staring at me, and like saying little sexual innuendos and stuff...so does he still like me or not? (link)
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he probably likes you on some level... but that's probably just how he's learned to treat girls, i've had to deal with many guys like him... they're not so easy to cope with... just keep on flirting and don't put too much thought into it
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i am 13 and i weigh 101 lbs, it's all fat, i have no muscle, i live on oatmeal, pizzia, and fruit. i don't drink so much pop mostly kool-aid and water. (link)
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run for about 40 mins a day, or an hour every other day...
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under my eyes after i get no sleep, it gets a little darker and a little puffier then usual,but not dramitically. i got a cream from Chanel for bags under eyes but it didnt really help, just a little bit and make up near my eyes, the powder doesnt really work and foundation(sp) irrirates it
do you know any ways to cover them/make them go away?
also do you know a good cover up that you wont really be able to see im wearing makeup but that will cover zits/stuff like that?
thank you! (link)
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for the dark circles try drinking more water, like 7 cups a day, i used to have the same problem, and once i drank alot of water the circle things went away
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ok...sorry if i put this in the wrong category..
Anyway I'm 14/f... I used to shave my stomach (near belly button) because the hairs around there i thought everybody noticed them and stuff. Well I did't know that if you shave em they come back darker and some times more of them.... So is there away to get it back to normal?!?!?!?!
Yea I know it was stupid!!!
Thanx for any advice! (link)
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wax it a couple of times, that'll make the hair come in less dark and corse.
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ok i am freaking out their is this guy who i liked for four years and he liked me for like one and we are in highschool now so their are more guys but i just can't figure out why i have this strange attraction for him please help me and tell me what to do. (link)
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talk to him more, get to know him better, maybe you'll get over him and just like him as a friend, or maybe it'll evolve into a relationship
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ok. i am 5'5 and im 123 pounds. it is spread over my body, so im proportioned..kinda. accept my stomach sticks out..alot and my thighs are bigger than i would like. what are some particular exercizes i could do to get rid of the fatty belly and the thighs?
one more thing, when i eat my stomach gets all beloaty(sp?) it doesnt matter if i eat alot or a little. but anyways is there anything that i can do to make that stop? (link)
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try running for about an hour every other day, it really helps
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okay so im really worried about the SATS. i took the PSATS in october & lets just say i didn't do so hot. i got half right! i've been studying for a few weeks now & im taking them in march. i have the collegeboard SAT book & the Barron's math book [since math is my low point]. i really don't know what to do. im trying to get as much done as i can but a lot of this stuff just makes 0 sense to me. i didn't take a course on it because there aren't ones offered at my school & a lot of them are extremely expensive. basically, what else can i do?? am i completely hopeless with the SATS??
thanks!! (link)
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you can take the SAT as many times as you want... so that can kind of be your study guide. like take it once, see what stuff you don't know, then study that stuff and take it again.
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so theres this boy that i like.. and today i found out that he gets LOVE letters from girls! hes already gotten like four or so, from girls.. probably because the valentines dance is only a week away.. but they signed as secret admirers. Oh yeah, I found out because his locker is like right next to mine, and at the end of the day he was packing up and saw one, and talked about it to his friend, who was laughing. He seemed to not really care about them, and was like "all these crazy girls that are obsessed with me" or something.. i dont think he really liked it. im not one of them, but im still a tad jealous. I mean, he might like me, I dunno yet.. like I kinda lost a little interest in him after a while since I started liking someone else (and focused more on schoolwork haha) but there are signs he may like me.. like theres this kid in my class and he always comes up to me randomly.. especially when im wearing nice clothing that day (or put more thought into my outfit) and like says random stuff to me. i used to think that he likes me, but hes always like that, cause hes a joker. but he doesnt do it to everyone, but like right after he does stuff like that, he calls the guy's name, then goes to talk to him. and sometimes when im talking to this joker kid, my crush comes up too, and kinda joins the convo. and like other things too.. alot of them that i wont bother to write (unless needed) i dont wanna like ask him out though, because im not entirely sure......... but those girls writing him love letters make me jealous! also that means that theres competition, and if i even get with him at all, like some girls will like.. be jealous too, and i'd feel weird, lol. even one of my friends likes him too, because.. well, hes hot, nice, funny, and really sporty.
13/f (link)
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make him feel special, talk to him after class and see if he wants to hang out, stuff like that.
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well recently i have been in a really bad spell of depression and decided to examine my life and relized that the guy that i like has put me this way. I ahve been chasing after him for 2 years and everytime and get close i just get washed away because some other gilr gets him or he just some how gets really distant. This year really hurt me bad because we went to this camp and afterwards he began talking to me and he even called me once and finally he asked me if i like him and i said yes and then he talked to me a little after that but got a girlfreind and i haven't heard from him in two weeks. i thought i had a lmost got close enough to be freidns a little and i was so happy then it just got washed away again and i have to start from scratch but htis time i can't grap anything to start over with...there is nothing and i have cried and creid becaue i care so much about him and i have done a lot of things to prtect him.....things that could have got me in alot of trouble becasue i didn't want to see him ge hurt but i end up heartbroken again and i knowthat i should try to get over him but i have tried so many times and it is completle useless because everytime i tried he decied to tease me a little (that;s what i call it) and i fall right vack into the place i was in the first place. Any ohter time i've treid to get over him but i still cound't.....i was just wondering what should i do because he knows how i fell but nothing will happen because everytime i get close it all falls apart. (link)
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try making some guy friends and walking around with them and flirting with them infront of him. then you can also try asking him to hang out, if he says yes, when your alone... or kind of alone go in for a kiss then pull away, i know it sounds stupid but it really does work.
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13/f
I know there's nothing wrong with dating anyone of a different race, and I think I may have a crush on this amazing guy, who is of a different race.
Well me and about 2 friends are the ONLY people in the school who think biracial dating is OK.
The rest of the school thinks its disgusting.
And I know that shouldn't matter, and I mean it doesn't REALLY. But I don't want to lose all my friends, just because of a crush. I know they're not good friends or whatever if they don't accept it, but still, it hurts to lose all your friends.
I know some would be accepting of it, but I know most won't.
A subject similar to this came up in school today, where me and the two friends I mentioned, were talking about the cute guy at Burger King, lol.
I kind of bit my tongue about the guy I think I might like in the school, because people were eavesdropping.
And its not just friends, my grandma would know if I had a boyfriend (she has legal custody and I live with her) and she said she'd kill me (in a non literal sense) if I ever dated anyone who was of a different race. No exaggeration, she would make me live with my aunt down the road. My aunts nephew, is currently dating this girl named Janine, who is of a different race, and she's AMAZING. Me and my aunt are more open minded than most of the family. So me and her, and Jesse (the nephew) and Janine, went to the mall one day.
But I don't want to lose my friends / be disowned by my family, what do I do? (link)
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if you like him then go for it! if people say that they don't like it tell them that they don't have to deal with it. and if they point out that he's a different race say "what! i didn't relize that!" and just walk away. apparently you;ll still have some friends if you date him, just hang out with them, and with him.
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okay, so i went snowboarding this weekend, and 2 of my guy friends came. (they're best friends) and 1 of them i like, and the other one likes me. neither of them know i like the 1st one. Anyways, the second guy told me that the 1st guy is going out with this girl, who basically has a new boyfriend every week. however, guy 1 and i are really good friends and he hasn't mentioned it, even when we came really close to the subject. i don't want to say anything, because i want him to tell me on his terms. but i don't know why he hasn't told me! we talk about everything.. its so weird. what should i make of this, do you think? (link)
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there's always the slight chance that guy 2 lied to you because he likes you and wanted you to think that guy 1 is off the market.
or
guy 1 might like you and the thought of telling you he has a girlfriend freaks him out, because he doesn't want to ruin his chances with you.
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Well, I'm 15/f and my older brother is 23/m. My mom has always sided with him and she is completely rude to me. She always compares me to him, and I'm sick of it. She complains that I don't do anything to help her out around the house when I always clean my room on "cleaning weekends", I vacuum when she asks me, and I do the dishes when she asks. Yet, I still hear all the time how my brother, when he was 15 had a job and all this other stuff. Well, I would truly love to get a job, but nothing around here hires 15 year olds, so I'm kind of stuck. I really am fed up with her always comparing me to him, saying I'm a bad daughter and all I care about is myself and my boyfriend (which is not true at all). Yet, she has no idea what my brother does behind her back, he throws parties at my house when she goes to Atlantic City for the weekend, and she doesn't even care; he makes a mess of the house, and I end up having to clean it because he's too hungover and inconsiderate to see that it was him and his friends that made the mess not me. I really am just so done with listening to her complain about me, and think of how "wonderful" her son is. Plus, she complains that I'm not responsible enough to get my license/permit, but my brother was able to when he was 16. Yet, I do ALL of my homework, and I try so hard in school, but I don't have the best grades, I'm a B/C student, and she doesn't accept that from me; and yet, he slept all through high school, and passed, but he never had to hear it from her. I really don't know what to do, and how to confront her, every time I put any effort to it, I get yelled at.
Sorry this was long; any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you kindly. (link)
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my sister's always getting compared to me... but my parents stopped when she told them how she felt so just try telling them, if they won't listen then ask your brother if he can help you out
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I had sex a few days ago, and now I think I might have a urinary tract infection or something of that sort. Do the two go together or could this be something else? It burns a little when I pee, but nothing else seems to be wrong and I'm just worried. (link)
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you might have UTI you should get it checked out. sex does increase your chances of getting UTI... the risk of getting it goes down if you pee after sex
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Okay so all i really drink are frappucinos.
Ive had cafe vanilla, carmel vanilla, vanilla mocha, and peppermint mocha. (link)
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iced chi tea! i love it!
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one of my friends, sarah, used to be big into drugs and that, but when she met me, she stopped.she promised me that she wouldnt do drugs again, because she knows how against it i am, and because she didnt want to do them anymore. about six months later, she told me she had smoked a cigarette. i was really mad, but i was glad she told me. she once again promised me she was done with all that. about a month later, she told me she had smoked weed and smokes cigartees twice again. that time i didnt talk to her for like a day, then she, ONCE again, promised me she wouldnt. that was about a week ago, then yesterday, she told me she got "baked" over the weekend and smoked a bucn of cigarettes. she told me that she didnt want to do it again, ect., all the bullshit she told me before. i got reallyyyyyyyy mad at her, and told me not to talk to me until she gets help, comletely stops, and tells her mom about the weekend, because her mom doesnt know. is this being too hard on her? i hate the fact that she does this stuff, and she knows how against it i am, and she always says that she doesnt want to do it, that its an "accedent". i dont fully believe her on it all, but i just want her to stop. i know its not my responsibility to make her stop, but she wont do it on her own. so i just need some imput on if im being too hard on her or not.
thanks for reading my increadibly long question! (link)
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i've been in sarah's situation before, you need to support her, not jus get mad and make her pick you, or the drugs, because honestly it's really hard to stop. She probably really does want to stop, but there's just that little voice that tells her that this will be the last time. each time she does it she gets more and more addicted, tell her that you're strongly against it, make sure she knows it. but if she won't stop try to get her help, like finding out where some meetings are.
but then you could also just say that it's not your life... it's hers. you should just tell her that if she does do them she shouldn't do to many and try really hard to convince her not to get into anything stronger. and just leave it at that. live and let live.
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i've been with my boyfriend for almost two years & i'm clueless on what to get him on valentine's day [ i know, i'm horrible ] but i wanted it to be really romantic. we're probably already going out to dinner but i'd like to buy [ or make ] him a gift, too. does anyone know something sweet i could get him? i don't really care how much it would cost. i rate high, thanks a lot. (link)
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instead of going out to eat you guys should stay at one of your houses and make food together, it's really fun and guys love it!
for a gift you should go to one of those places where you can paint pottery or cups or something, do it together and exchange then when you're done.
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