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kinda hurt that he hasn't told me..
okay, so i went snowboarding this weekend, and 2 of my guy friends came. (they're best friends) and 1 of them i like, and the other one likes me. neither of them know i like the 1st one. Anyways, the second guy told me that the 1st guy is going out with this girl, who basically has a new boyfriend every week. however, guy 1 and i are really good friends and he hasn't mentioned it, even when we came really close to the subject. i don't want to say anything, because i want him to tell me on his terms. but i don't know why he hasn't told me! we talk about everything.. its so weird. what should i make of this, do you think?
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Okay? So he doesn't tell you EVERYTHING. Maybe he doesn't think you'd care, or maybe he just didn't feel it was any of your business. It's honestly not, so don't get pissy with him. Just accept that he didn't tell you & leave it alone.
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No, it's just not what you wanted to hear. I'm not sorry that I don't sugarcoat my answers & give you what you wanna hear, but it's the truth, whether you like it or not.
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there's always the slight chance that guy 2 lied to you because he likes you and wanted you to think that guy 1 is off the market.
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guy 1 might like you and the thought of telling you he has a girlfriend freaks him out, because he doesn't want to ruin his chances with you.
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It could be that he is even embarassed to be going out with this girl, because by what you said she seems to go through boyfriends pretty quickly. Not to insult him, but it's possible he thought she would be easy to go out with and maybe would hope to make you jealous even? Talk to him about it =]
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