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Q: my parents keep asking me why im so sad. the funny thing is im as happy as i normally am i just feel kinda sick, and when i tell them that they think im trying to get out of going places with them. it is so stupid. they keep asking me if i was in a break up or if i got in a fight with my friends and it is so stupid. can someone please tell me how to convince them im not depressed? i rate thanx

just try to set them down and tell them how you feel and try not to smart off and stuff like that
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: I'm 15/f and I've had a boyfriend for about a week who has been my best friend for a while. My problem is that he's been trying too hard to become close with my friends. I know that sounds stupid, but I just don't want his relationship with them to be as close as his relationship with me. I like that he's a separate part of my life than my friends are and I really just want it to stay that way. I'm just used to my friends stealing my close friendships away and I don't want that to happen with him. Am I being too paranoid? How exactly do I tell him how I feel?

i do not think you are, and i would just set him daown and tell him how you feel and let him know that you do not want him to have that close of a relasionship with your friends.
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx

well you could try to talk to them and try to explain how you feel about ya'll fighting.
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rkgurl13

Q: Can you give me some ways to tell how a boy likes you:)

he keeps looking at you, he talks to alot or flirts with you.
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rkgurl13

Q: This is gonna be long but I need help..

So me and my boyfriend were totally in love.. But then he cheated on me with another girl, he made out with her for like an hour. AND he was the one that came onto her. I broke up with him, and was totally heartbroken because I still love him... So then I saw him, and he apoligized, saying, "I`m so sorry, You are perfect, I only want you, that kiss from her meant nothing, I love you so much and I`m so sorry.." And so now I`m going back out with him.. But the thing is, I`m not sure. I still love him, but I can`t trust him.. And things are just kind of awkward now. I have no idea what to do.. Please help, I rate high !!

well if you really love him then you tell him how you feel and mabey he understand.
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: Ok so im gettign a frecnh manicur3e on Wensdya and I was wondering if they could still do it even tho my nails are short, like there is barely no white on the tips, THANKS

i beleive you can if i am correct.
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rkgurl13

Q: Well i do not know why but my mom says i need more protein in my system.
could people tell me food that is very high in protein for breakfast,lunch,and dinner?

Also,is it true that the more protein you have the more you nails and hair grows?Or is this not true?

any kind of meat and dairy like chicken or beef stuff like that and dairyn wise milk chesse yogurt and stuff like that.
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rkgurl13

Q: I have writers block, I can't seem to come up with any ideas that will really work. Does anyone know of anything that might help me?

sit down in a nice quite place unlees you need sound like me and just get a note book and think that always works for me unless you are a computer person than a hand writen person also like me. so just do whatever will get your brain working!
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rkgurl13

Q: Is there any way of convincing my mom to let me babysit? She says she wants me to wait awhile. She said she would consider it though. Anyway, I would be babysitting with my friend. So she may be more comfortable about that. So how can I convince her to let me? And any ideas about how I could spread my services (if she says yes)?

first i would try babysitting with your mom there and let her help and then mabey she would see how good of a babysitter you are.
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Q: Does anybody know any good fonts that are cursive? Sorry it's a short question, but that's about all I need :)

Bistro autumn thats a good cursive font
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rkgurl13

Q: Is there any home treatments I can use to get rid of odor causing bacteria down there =(
I shower every day, and I clean down there, I've had this problem for two years and I have no idea what's going on. I've never done ANYTHING sexual.
I'm 15

well you should try using baby powder that should help.
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rkgurl13

Q: what are some good foods to take with you to eat in the car when your traveling?

Thanks

I rate 5 for good answers

well trail mix is good i always try to get that and then there is blow pops and chips and drink wise you should take coke or dr. pepper you know stuff like that. and then there is always chocolate if you don't leave it in the hot car.
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rkgurl13

Q: ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?

16/f

well you can not really get him to like you back he has to like you back himself. and if he respects you and you are real good friends then you might grow on you!
hope i helped!
rkgurl13

Q: i just got a hair cut. it is like the first one on the page only a little shorter,do you think this looks good? --[[first one]] --

http://www.salonweb.com/hstyles/long.htm

ya i like it!

Q: i'm turning 16 soon and i was wondering what are some jobs that hire 16 yr olds that arnt too public...lol i mean like not mcdonalds where everyone goes. thanks =)

limited too i think they hire at 15.

Q: does anyone know where i can find a link where i can find the course requirements for a major in multimedia? also, where can i find how much multimedia people make in annual income?

google it

Q: Ok, so Im sopussed to go on this vacation to this rented house on a beach with my moms side of the family and Im not really close to them like yeah I never talk to anyone of them but no matter how much I begged not to go my mom still said I had to; but then when my brother asked not to go she didnt care. So Im kinda already mad at my mom for that. Then my friend could go to help me not be so miserable but my mom wont help pay for her with the money that she was gonna use for my brother. Im inbetween going and not going because #1 there is a SLIGHT chance it could be fun, but #2 it could be really boring, #3 my mom would be miserable without one of us kids around with her, and #4 Id get a grand tan. So if you were me would you go?

yes i think you should but that is up to you to descide.
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high.

just set her down and tell her how you feel and that should work if not then try e-mailing her an e-mail and then tell her how you feel
hope i helped!
rkgurl13

Q: me and my boyfriend we're making out and stuff and he tried to take my shirt off and i wouldn't let him and he raped me. He said if i told anyone he would find a way to kill me. so should i tell someone or keep it a secret?

yes i think you should tell sombody and go into hiding or something like that becasue it is bad not to tell stuff like that!
i really hope i helped!

Q: What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?

And what should be a good age difference?

well i would think that about 20 would be a good age and for the other about 2 years apart i think is good!
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rkgurl13

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hi my name is rachael i like giving advice i think god has given me a special talent i also like surfing the net. my fav movie is either napoleon dynamite or lotr the triligy (i know big difrence). o and i like being random and i like googling things be that is the best place to find all you answers!

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