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Do all the misspellings and netspeak bother anyone else here?
YES! I HATE the stupid net speak and crappy spellin. i understand a some spelelinmistakes but dude, some questions ya cant even understand because they are usin 2 letters for a 5 letter word and number for other shit! some one should add a spell checker!
alright, so i moved into my new school last year (7th grade) and i didnt start of with a good reputation, because i was the new girl. but now a year later i have a very good reputation. i mean, i am friends with the populair people, i cant compiments, and people always say they want to be me.
there is this kid in one of my classes, and i have gotten a very big crush on him. he is nice, sweet, and very cute. i did some asking around and i have found he is a loser. like .. dork kid. hanging out with other dorks.
i think dating him might effect my reputation, but should i go for him anyways?
some one please help me.
ok yes i agree that we all do value the opinions of others, but if ya like the guy those opinions shouldnt really matter. and yes it is a very shallow thing to say. F*ck your reputaion, if ya like the kid and he feels the smae way go for it. and i might add that nerds are some of the funnest and nicest people i have ever met.
I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina
the age that you get your period varies, its nothin to worry about,theres people who can get it as young as 9 and those who arent untill later like 16/17 but seriously its not really something to look forward to , once ya get it ya wnat it gone, its just annoying!
hey ok i need help. if i am on birth control can i get pregnant?
uh....birth CONTROL, see that big word, control, ya its stop pregnancy, ....99.9% of the time.
i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
xoxx
if you love him why does it matter wether people know or what they think?
Ok my ex of a year and a half and I broke up about a week ago. I saw her sitting on some1 else's lap. Is that slutty or what? How long is considered good enough to wait. Personally I think she is a fu@#@ slut. I heard u should wait at least the time that you were in ur last relationship.
ok frist her sittin on some guys lap dosent make her a slut,her f*ckin the other guy woult, and there is no paticular time your suposed to wait till you have another realtionship. everyone deals with break ups differnetly, and some people get over them faster, or they just dont show it.
Is it wrong that I'm happy over the fact my ex-girlfriend just got cheated on by her most recent boyfriend?
lmao! hell no i would point and laugh at her! say" hhahaha! you ceheating bitch! you got what you deserved!" people who cheat should find out what it feels like, maybe it taught her a lesson!
ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?
it might be me being a horrible person or just not romantic but thats funny, if my bf did that ya i would think it was sweet but SO corny.and i have heard a few things of guys doin something simmilar, so its not too original. good luck with that tho
This girl and I have been casually dating for a little more than a month. She's only 14 and I'm 17 but I genuinly like her. I'm not using her just to get some, I don't even want to do any more than kiss her. At the beginning of the relationship she told me she had only held hands with a guy before. I was skeptical but went with it. Now, she just told me she's had sex, but it was when she was only 9 years old. I'm not upset that she's not a virgin, I don't want her for that. I'm upset that she lied to me from day one. I'm not even mad, just really disappointed and very hurt. I've told her everything I've done with every girl I've dated. I live by the basic rules: Don't lie and don't cheat. She wants to go out with me know and I don't know if I can. I've been hurt before, and recently, and if she's lied once there's no saying she won't do it again right? I know it might sound like I'm overreacting but I really don't think I can take being hurt again. Please let me know what you think I should do.
well she probaply lied because she was embarrased or nervous or just didnt wantthat known. best thing would be to talk to ehr about it and she why she lied. then decied if you will go out
Why do girls help a guy cheat on his current girlfriend, then date him after they break up? They've already proven that this guy is totally willing to cheat, so do they actually think he wont do the same to them? Are girls really that stupid?
yea sorry but girls can be very stupid and for those that are wilin to crush a realtionship to be some one, well would you want to be with them after ?
In what situation should you ask someone out? Should you hope for them to be your lifelong partner? Should you simply hope for a few fun months? Should you go for it only because you're desperate? Does every relationship need to be meaningful and long-lasting?
I ask because I'm uncertain whether to ask someone out, of course. I find him attractive and he can be pretty funny, but I don't think it'd last for a long time. I think the things pushing me towards him are my desperation for a relationship and the fact that he is pretty attractive, but otherwise there is no amazing spark. Are those good enough grounds to initiate a relationship?
wel a relationship isnt alway meant ot last forever, just treat each one as an exspiriance and have fun with it. as long as ya both like each other theres no reason to not go out
ok well i was makin out with this girl and i thinl i had bad breath. Can she taste the bad breath and stuff? I cant really chew gum or sumthin b4 bc yu no i never know when we will make out. Plus if you do sum times you 4 get to spit out the gum bla bla bla. plz help!
yea man ya can totaly taste bad breath, especialy alcohol. so just keep some of those listerine things in your pocket or something and remeber chacnes are she doesnt have perfect breath either!
So I've never really had to buy my girlfriend anything because my mom always took care of all of that. But last year, my gf found out that I don't personally buy her presents and she got all upset. Now, she wants me to go out and buy her her present this year by myself. My mom refuses to help me now. I've really never done this before and you don't have to believe me but it's true. Anyways, this is what I have so far:
100$ Abercrombie card (her fav. store)
50$ Hollister or Forever 21 card (her second fav.--I'm not sure which yet though)
And these earrings her sister helped me pick out. They're pink sapphires with pearl on top they're pretty nice.
But I can see my gf's face when she sees these..."oh gift cards...thanks babe..." She might like the earrings more though...I don't know. I'm already spending 250$ on all of that--I'll put in maybe like 75 more. Does anyone have any ideas?
how shit thats alot of money, you're makin me feel bad, i havent even got mt bf's gift yet! but ya it deosnt ahve to be exspensive or anything,make it some more sweet, and personal
I'm a 17 year old dude. I've got hair growing everywhere on my chest (NOT gross thick like in 40 yr old virgin or anything), just a lot of testosterone.
Anyway, do girls prefer unshaved or shaved chests?
If I shave my chest and stomach, what about my underamrs?
I don't think shaving legs and arms is good idea. I mean, I'm a Texan and shaving my body is hard enough.
What about, down there? That region. Shaved or unshaved. (I'm trying to stay 'young person' friendly with this question).
k dude, if your chest is really really hairy then think about maybe waxin or shavin or nair or somethin, but happy trails must stay, and dont shave your arms or legs or armpits, thats not a dude thing. i think i girl might be really confused as to why you would have your legs shaved
I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.
Cheers. I rate high
it isnt wrong, religion is something you choose to follow, just because it says one thing doesnt mean that its right. follow your own personal beliefs and morals, there is nothing wrong with what your doin and you really shouldnt feel guilty
i just had the worst break up ever my boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me today and i found out that he cheated on em. the worst part was he didnt have enough guts to tell me so he ha one of his friends do it. and i thought i loved him what should i do???
you should maybe relaise he,s scum and get over him. it was only 1 month, and he id somthin unfogivable.
Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?
if hey said it was normalhen it sounds like there fine with it, so do as you wish. chances are they looked at porn when they were your age too, and it is perfectly normal.
I've known this guy since I was three and we have been dating since I was 15. we are totally in love. but, we havent had sex yet and I'm 21!!! Is there something wrong with me?
no, theres nothin wrong with that!
i am suprised niether of you would have done something about it, sex is something you should only do if you are ready, and if your not your not, dont worry about it.
me and my boyfrend have been going out for 2 months and anytime we kiss i feel an urge to jump ontop of him is that normal
you horny dog;) have fun! lol
I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.
I give fives.
yea ts not realy a big thing, if the guys a horny pig then he might think it is just cuz you probaply wouldnt jump into bed with him , but those guys are scum anyways, so dont worry about it, your still young, you dont have to date the world, just a select few;)