xo.Name.ox Kirby
I answer ANYTHING and EVERYTHING. I don't care what it's about, I will try to help. I've got a lot of good advice up my sleeve and I LOVE to help. :)
I really try not to be mean, but just to give some people a wake-up call. Sometimes people need it. Sometimes I need it. lol. Well, ask questions and you'll get answers.
~K~
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Ok, this guy I have liked forever told me somethings last night i confused me a bit. Well to start things off, we went to a dance at our school. When i got home i talked to him on AIM. He said he really screwed things up when it came to this he liked. He said that he thought she kept eyeing him throughout the whole thing. Which i was doing. Then he said that he never asked her to dance but he could tell that she wanted to...but he never had enought courage...and i never danced with him, but i deff. wanted to. But the wierd part was he never told me who it was...he refused, he usually always gives me a name of the he likes...so im wondering if its me this time. Please help me...i rate high (link)
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Well, I think he was dropping hints. But, you can't be totally sure. You should just ask him who the gurl is. You've got to take the initiative. I'm pretty sure it's you, but you need to ask him!
I hope it's you!!!
Good luck!!!
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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My best friend and i never told lies to each other when we were younger but now were both 14 things seem like they changed she's constantly lying to my face and i can't figure out if she's telling the truth or not anymore.What should i do i mean we're both going to different high schools next year and i still want us to be friends...???
-signed
no more lies (link)
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I know how you feel. My two best friends moved to diff schools and I was left with a friend who considered me her best friend and she likes to constantly lie to my face. You just need to tell her to stop. Tell her that best friends don't lie to each other. She's obviously not your best friend if shes lying to you. First asj her nicely to stop then you have to get more aggressive about it.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I'm a 15/f and I me and my family are thinking of going on a cruise this summer. None of us have ever been on a cruise. I get sea sick pretty easily, but I heard that on a cruise since the ship is so large, you don't get sea sick. Is this true? Also, what was your experience like on a cuise and which cruise line did you take? Lastly, we are debating about where to go on the cruise (it's between Alaska and the Caribbean)... have any of you been on one/ both of these cruises, which one did you like more... or what was your experience with one of them. Also, are there more teenagers on one or the other. Thanks so much!!! I rate 5's for serious answers! (link)
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GO TO THE CARIBBEAN! Are you crazy? Summer and Alaska don't mix. Come on now! CARIBBEAN all the way!!!!!!! Plus there will be more kids than on the Alaska one.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Ok me and my BF just broke up and now I really like him..or do I am not sure what the hek my true fellings for him are....do I like Him or not..I dont know, someone please help me! (link)
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You can't ask other people to tell you how YOU feel about someone because we are not inside your head. Ok? You're probably just in denial about the break up and you should just move on with your life.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I`m pregnate and i`m not gonna say my age due to how much you all will critisize me.im 2 1/2 months in and valentines day is coming up.. and i`m completely absolutely in love with my baby's dad..one problem is he's not so into me...he is but not as much...at all. I told him i was going to get him something for the day coming up and he said-"no..i`ll feel bad 'cause i`m not getting you anything." we don't go out or anything but I have real feelings for him. He has about 5 other girls that are getting him things to..he said he just doesn't spend money on girls...i don't want anything in return..I just want him to know I care...is that the right thing to do? Or should I do what most my friends day and not get him anything..and try avoiding him for a while until he comes to me?? That's hard..because i know how he is..he says.."I`m not going to chase after a girl..if they dont want me then fine thats them." And trust me, if I don't talk to him..some other girls will..even if i DO have his baby *yes,he knows* ..help help help! please! (link)
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Well, he obviously won't spend money on his childsupport money if he doesn't spend money on girls. Hon, you have his BABY. That stupid asshole should be spending every penny on you and your baby. And are you even with him? I mean, heez, how much meaner can you get? The man won't spend any money on his baby's mommy. Come on now. What's up wit dat? Hon, five otha gurls buyin' him presents, this boy seems to be a bit of a playa to me. As I usually say, go find yourself a real man.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok 15/f..me and my bf of 6 months go to diff schools but we see eachother alot and our relationship is great..our parents know eachother and im allowed 2 go to his house alot...but every wednesday theres this church thing that we always would say we were going to..wed tell my mom we were goin there so shed take me to his house and wed walk over there...well the thing is we stopped going for like a month or 2 ...and wed just walk to t he church at 9 3o and my mom would pick me up there so it looked lkie i went!! well she caught us walking there before church got out and found out we werent going and she yelled at me....and now shes "dissappointed" and she says she cant trust us..how can i make things better? we apologized and im nto grounded or anyuthing but i want her to trust us and stuff...ughh (link)
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Well, it'll take time. I should know. I have experience in this area. Basically, you have to do what she says you can do with your boyfriend and have a way for her to know that you are doing the right thing. It'll take time, but you can do it. I did. Be strong. lol.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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i've kind of been seeing this guy and hes 3 years older then me but we havent really been seeing each other because he has other girls in his profile saying he can't live without them and so on.. and that he loves them and we arent going out.we just kind of hook up a lot. but i really like him and he says he has feelings for me too. and im a virgin and he says he is too. and he doesnt want to be. im 13 and hes 16. i really dont want to lose mine but i sort of do when im with him. but he wants to be my "first" and i dont know if im too young but i feel like im ready. if you do it once do you get addicted like drugs and end up doing it a lot? or can you just do it once and wait a while to do it again? i'm really nervous because hes serious. because i really care about him and i know he cares about me too. should i? plz answer i rate! (link)
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You are THIRTEEN. You care about him a lot? How can you care about someone a lot when in their profile he names a lot of other girls who he can't live without and loves. And it says ya'll just hook up a lot. Think about it. Do you want people to know that you just hook up a lot? He's a sixteen year old, horny as hell, boy. All he wants is to get some. He probably isn't a virgin and he probably wants to pressure you into it. You need to see that he is just gonna get some from you and then act like nothing happened. You guys aren't even really together. You really should think about this. Thirteen is very young.
~Hope that helped. Didn't mean to be harsh.~
~K~
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okay--well me and my best friend got into a fight! (it is a guy) i wen to his house yesterday and i was going out with his best friend shawn,but my he(best friend the guy) broke up with him for me(i asked him to) and like 10 mintues after me and shawn broke up..i hugged my best friend
then later my ex shawn called and was excusing me and my best friend of making out--and shawn went to my best friends house and said why did u make out wit (me) jamie! he said he didnt- then shawn told him i said i did- when i didn't and now my BEST friend is mad at me! and when ever i try to talk to him he says mean things and im nice! please help i RATE HIGH!!!! (link)
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Well, you need to sit your best friend down and have a long talk with him. You should probably bring Shawn, too. So that way your best friend can see you tell Shawn that he was lying. If your best friend is really your best friend, then he will believe you. Just talk to them both at the same time in person.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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he always hugs me close and everything and i want to ask him out but not in a cute little flirty way like notes in locker or anything like that but i just dont want to be like hey dude i like you wanna go out ya know cuz he might think im weird or something so does anybody have any ideas that arnt all cute and flirty ? thanks (link)
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Well, not cute and flirty......well, just ask him. All you have to do is say "Will you go out with me?". It seems hard, but you can do it!
~Hope that helped!~
~K~
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This person Ive been thinking of constantly is becoming one of my best friends. I think I like him because when I'm with my friend hes all I think about and i get this weird feeling when I'm around him. Valentines Day is coming up. I think I'm going to ask him if he wants to go out with me the day before but I'm wondering...What do I do if he says no? I dont wanna look like a moron or start crying or anything.. (link)
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Does it seem like he likes you, too? If he says no, it's his loss. You're not gonna look like a moron for liking someone. It is a natural part of the human lifestyle. Maybe you can find out if he likes you, and this doesn't always work, but if someone asks him if he likes you, it will probably tell him you like him and if he likes you, too, he might ask you out. Very confusing, I know, and I apologize, but it's a thought. I say go for it. I know it will hurt, but you can still be friends. I've been in your situation before. Just see what happens!
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I dont know how to explain this but in the left top corner of my computer screen it like.. idk it fades like the color i have a blue background and it fades to a purple it just happaned today and its happaned before and went away when i restarted but not today so whats the deal? how do i fix this?
-stupid (link)
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You probably have a magnet near your computer. Magnets do it to T.V.'s and laptops,too.
~Hope that helped
~K~
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okay my best guy friend and my best girl friend are going out...i really wish them luck..but i cant help but feel jealous...i keep telling myself that i dont like the guy.but every time i see him i melt..the girl invites me to the movies with them but i dont think i could take it..watching them hold hands..is there anything i can do about it..or should i just sit back and watch them go out to the movies and crap right in front of me...i promise ill rate high and i really need help...(13 female) (link)
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Ok. I know about the whole jealousy thing. I know. It's really hard to see people you really care about going out. You might actually like the guy, I don't know. But for now, you can't stop them being together. I really know how you feel right now and it's down right crappy. After they break up, then you can go after the guy if you really like him. But for now, just sit back and relax. I know it's hard to watch them together, but for now, cheer up and be happy. You don't need a boyfriend, you can be happy anyway. :)
~Hope that helped~
~K~
~If you need anymore help, I could probably help better through e-mail or AIM. pink_is_pimpin09@yahoo.com is my email. darkangelsfire09 is my AIM screename.~
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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :( (link)
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Tell your boyfriend what happened. You're boyfriend, as many people have said before me, would rather hear it from you than someone else. Just tell him, and after you do, the guilt will go away over time. And then tell Ryan to bug off. He's what you would call a STALKER. You should call the police on him, that would scare him pretty bad. You should confront him and tell him in your most serious tone that you and him aren't going to have any more contact. Tell him that it was a mistake and you don't mean to hurt his feelings, but you really love your boyfriend and hate to hurt him.
~Hope that helped!~
~K~
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My best friend never beleives me she always beleives her mom or ... ANYONE exept me, then i yelled at her because she is my best friend and is sopposed to beleive me, so she got really sad and i feel bad for me making her sad and her not beleiving me. what should i do i need to know now (link)
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Well, if your "Best Friend" doesn't believe you, how is she your best friend? Best friend's are always there for you and will believe what you say. It was wrong for you to yell at her, you should apologize but sit her down and have a long talk about what's going on between you.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok i have this friend were seually sometimes thorses each other sometimes.and we flirt alot ! but he asked out someother girl that he never really talks to i was so shocked i idn't know what to do so i didn't talk to him for a day or 2 or when he looked at me i looked the other way .pretend i never saw him then i fought out they broke up with in a day then he decides to come up to me and hug we out of nowhere ?.....what the crap is that ? (link)
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Hon, that guy is a playa. Can't you see that? But first, you guys should actually be together. It's not entirely his fault. You guys aren't "together" so he can go with any gurl he wants to go with. Hugging you out of nowhere is his idea of an apology. Do what you feel is right.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok this might be stupid but im going to ask anyways..me and my boyfriend have only been together for 8 days..but i know its love..its hard to explain but we've known eachother for awhile and last night i relized i was in love with him.hes my entire world..could this be love? (link)
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Eight days? And you think you're in love. Entirely possible, but probably not. I think you're in love with the IDEA that you're in love. A confusing concept, but still. You sound kinda young so I think you need to sit and think for a loooooooooooooong time.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Does any1 know how to get rid of some of the website listings under the URL place on your home page? This is kinda hard to explain but on your homepage there's the bar for typing in the webstite you want to go to, then there's an arrow on the right end, which u can click to show all the websties you've visited recently, well how do you get it to not show some of those? thanks for any help! (link)
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Well, I don't know what you don't want people to know you've been lookin at, but at the top of the screen it says "View" click that the go to "Toolbars" then click on "Standard Buttons" then you'll see a bunch of buttons come up and look for "History". Click on it and right click on the websites you don't want and delete them.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok i got this friend and i thought he rly liked me and or so he says and then like so i would you kno kiss him and things like that and we were supposed to have sex this weekend i was supposed to lose my virginity to him but now this moring i found out at the high school hes sayin all kinda of rumors about me and how he can get anything from me.. so my question is how do i ask him about this? (link)
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Ask him? Honey, this boy is obviously a asshole and you need to find someone sooo much better. Most guys will spread rumors about you after you've had sex and if you tell them you want to have it on a certain day, they will probably spread lies about you then. But are you going out? This guy is a serious playa, hon. Go find yourself a real man.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help. (link)
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These girls, well, I can't say they are on something, 'cause they are, but I think you should defintely tell an adult, but then they will probably hate you. I think first you should confront them. But also, it's your duty as a friend to protect them and tell an adult. I mean, if they can't see that you were trying to help them now, they probably will in the future and will thank you for it later.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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There is a guy I like at school and today, when the last bell rang, i saw him walking in front of me to the busses. He turned around and looked right at me. I was thrilled, so when we got out of the building, I watched him get on the bus and he looked at me 2 more times. does this mean he likes me? i need advice from both girls and guys to get different views! THANX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well, has he done other stuff to show that he likes you? Looking at you doesn't neccesarily mean he likes you, but if he's done other stuff...ya never know.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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