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what are 2 jobs similar to a wedding planner? (link)
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Well a florist who specializes in wedding flowers.. A cake maker/decorator.. A gown designer.. Catorer... stuff like that. They're not exactly wedding planners but they work with weddings. Hope I helped.. if u need anything else just drop it in my inbox!
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k, im 13 and I wanna wear thongs. lol, I know, weird, but newayz... i had one be4 that my cousin had got me and i had to throw it away after i wore it once cuz i didnt wanna get caught. I dont know how, because everytime it comes up, all my mom says is idk y u would purposly put your underwear up your butt. If you think about it, when you wear regular underwear, you pick it out. I think that thongs are really comfortable, how do i tell her I wanna wear em??? (link)
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This is wat i did. we were going shopping for underwear and i was in like 8th grade i think ? and my mom is just like your mom about thongs. i asked her if i could try them and just see if i liked them or not and if i lieked them we'd buy more.. if i didnt then whatever no big deal. but i brought it up and i acted really curious and told her i think i might like them. good luck!!
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
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If you like this kids its totally fine to hang out with them! If you dont want to smoke weed its 100% your choice. Dont let them pressure you into it. If they offer it to u just say 'No thanks, im good.' K good luck hun!!
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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her? (link)
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No youre definetly not wrong for not wanting to talk about it. Religion is a big part of some peoples lives and with other people it just isnt. She should respect the fact that you have diffrent views on God and relegion. You should just tell her that you'd rather aviod the subject because you dont want to get into another fight about it. Tell her its really cool that she has a strong belief in God but u just dont feel the same way and its your choice. Good luck! Hope I helped.. if u need anything else just drop it in my inbox!
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ok u people here on advicenators r my last help! not even my mom understands wat im goin through. well my boyfriend and i have been datin for a while and well now he's startin to scare me.
he's gettin very obsessive and im so scared that if i break up with him(which i want to) he's gonna do something crazy(kill himself or hurt me) the worst part is if he ever found out i liked his best friend he's gonna get very violent....i dont kno what to do!!! i try avoiding him but he gets madder and wonders if i dont like him..he told me that if i broke up with him he WILL kill himself
help me plzzz..no one understands i have no1 2 talk 2 (link)
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OK the chances of him killing himself are slim to none. but the chances of him hurting you are a lot higher. you definetly need to get out of that relationship asap. theres tons of websites to help u out just look up how to leave an abusive boyfriend or something like that on Google.com. sorry i couldnt help u more but thats all i know and u totally deserve better than him if he's threatened to hurt you or anything like that. good luck!
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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.
1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?
2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)
3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)
Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated. (link)
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Here it goes..
1.Tell her the truth of course.. but also tell her that shes the best thing thats happend to you ever in spite of the fact that you were raped. and tell her that you wouldnt take it back for the world (if thats true).
2.If you want him to live with you then of course. The baby should have his father around.
3.I think you should let your daugher help you in this decesion. I personally think you should adopt the baby but don't have him/her call you mom. let the baby know who his/her mother is. And have your daughter and the baby's father very involved in raising the baby.
Good luck I really hope everything turns out fine.
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Hey I have to get braces in about a month and Im really scared cause I cant imagine having metal on my teeth lol. I just wanted to know from 1-10 how bad it hurts and how long about do people have them on? (link)
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Its lyke a 6. Fer the next couple of days u wont be able to eat anything hard lyke an apple or somethin u need to byte down on. I had braces in 6th grade. Dont worry about it tho its nothin to stress over. It'll go away in a few dayz nd ull forget u have them. Just have a lot of ice cream n popsicles ready! Good luck!!!!! :-D
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i just got a blender. what are some good recipes...you know like smoothies or something. thanx! (link)
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my mom used to make me this drink wen i was sick lol but its pretty good.. freeze ur favorite drink in an ice cube tray(ginger ale is good) and then put them in the blender along with some of the drink unfrozen. its like a smoothie of watever drink u want. good luck !!
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im really confused. I like the girly look, but i also like the punk-rock look. I listen to both kinds of music. i dont know what i should dress like this year. what do you think? (link)
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Do both! I mean if you like both then whats the problem? And dont worry wat other people will have to say about it im sure it will be totally cute. good luck! if u need anythin else just drop it in my inbox!
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I tried to grow an herb garden but nothing grew except one thing: the basil. it smells really good and I have a ton of it! but I don't know what basil is used for or what to do with it. anyone have some advice? (link)
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tomato sauce!!!
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well im 14 and im not like...ugly actually ppl think im pretty and stuff but thats with make up on...well sometimez it comes off and its just hard to look cute...for me...and lately ive been so unhappy with myself...EVERY gurl i see i want to be..il b like well if i could have her lips id be pretty...i just want like certain features of EVERYONE im so jealous it makes me not have a good time...i just stare @ them..i want ot be them....or i want just ther hair or watever...im so unhappy....wat can i do to stop doing this..and if ur gonna say o think of the good things of urself...i dnt have ne good things..i MAKE them look good...my skin- has freckles and zits...i use make up...my hair...frizzy and wavy-i IRON it with a clothw iron...just everything is fake it seems like...and im stil not that pretty...wat can i do? wats wrong with me?? =( (link)
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OK wen u see a pretty girl.. shes probably got lots of make up on too! and she most likely does her hair and dolls herself up to look good too. u should totally not be insecure about ur zits.. everyone gets them!! and all girls use cover up on them too. and freckles can be so cute they make u original and not like everyone else but in a good way. and as for your hair , trust me TONS of girls straighten it. i know i do. good luck and really think about this. i really hope i helped.
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Anyone know any cool ways to decorate my dorm room. I'm going to be a freshman and I'm in a double. I'm not really into posters or anything becuase i think they take up too much room on the way. I don't care either what my roomate will say because one half the room is mine and she is already puttin up a poster(s)? So far I got leies to put sumwhere. Thank you so much!!
Ps. You can't paint or put haoles in the cement walls (link)
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omg u should definetly put up some lights. kinda like christmas lights but pink or purple or watever color u want. use tape to keep them on the walls. u could put up those sticky stars too so they glow at night. but i dunno if that would annoy ur room mate. good luck ! hope it turns out cute
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OK i think this is really sick, but for some reason, ionno why, but my dog love to sleep in the bathroom. I mean its not hurting me or anybody else. Can anybody enlighten me on why he does this every night? (link)
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well if its hot out he probably likes the cold floor. or maybe he just likes being alone. i'd make sure the toilet seat is closed tho lol. good luck .. hope i helped
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I have to get an MRI done on my head...(lol) n im closterphobic(sp?)..anyone know any ways to help me get thru that hour? (link)
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close ur eyes n dont think about where u are . my friend got one done and they let her listen to music. hopefully theyll let u too. just think about bein in ur room or school clothes u mite want to buy or think about where u want to go or wat u want to do when u leave. just dont fall asleep lol good luck!!!!!!!
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today i just found out that my school wont be opened for the fall trimester from some dumb fucked up reason.. and that they will reopen in december. i only need 3 credits to graduate so i was only going to go to school from sept- dec and then be done. now, i have to find a new school to go. the school recommended a new school to us and i checked out its brochure, and its a christian school. well, ive been to a catholic highschool before, and im thinking, if im going to be going to a school of religion, i might as well go back there to the catholic school. well, i want to know whats the difference between christian and catholic.. and how are christian teachings different? (link)
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thats always confused me . when i went to ccd my teacher used to say we were christian and then she'd say we were catholic. i think there are diffrent types of christians. im not sure but i think protestants are considered christians too. so theres diffrent 'branches' of christians. im not really sure i wish i could help u out some more but maybe i helped. good luck with skool!
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i am [13/f] and yet i masterbate. i think? what is masterbating really?
& fingering myself doesnt give me much pleasure, so i rub it, but it gets kind aboring after a while? do you know anything that can spice it up? make it feel good.
- and i was talking to my friend & he said he wouldnt finger a girl because pussy stinks. do all 'things' stink? and how do you prevent your from smelling? i rate high, so help? (link)
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yep masterbating is completely normal. most girls do it but they dont admit it. um a vibrator mite work good n i heard some girls use the shower head..? i dunno how that works lol um i dont think all of them stink .. if u shave that mite help with the smell maybe. k hope i helped u out. if u need anythin else just put it in my inbox.
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Ok theres a guy i like..and my friend told him and he said he likes me back...we were @ a party and he kinda acted like he likes me..anyways this other guy IMed me the other day and we were talking about school and he said that his fav. class was math bc he there were ppl he liked in his class and not geeks lOl and he said one of those 'cool' ppl was the guy i liked....so i IMed the guy who i like ((and suppsoedly likes me)) and said "Do you know who ((and then i put the other guys screen name in))" the guy i like didn't say anything but he BLOCKED ME! why would he do that..and i'm positive he blocked me bc i put him on my sisters buddy list and he was online!! i kno this isn't much information...but what should i do? what do u think it means...y would he block me?? ahh please help me!! (link)
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ok first calm down a little lol. try n see if he doesnt like that guy that said he was cool. doubtful but u never know. n then if u find out those guys dont like eachother then just tell him ur sorry for bringing it up. but if theyre good friends then try to talk to the boy u like online again if he unblocks u. if he doesnt unblock u go on another sn or make one up but dont make up like a million sn's if he keeps blocking u. and if he does block u on another name then try to talk to him in person or call him. if he was flirting with you at the party then theres no reason for him not to like you already. and if thats the case he souldnt have been so immature about it.
good luck ! if u need anything else just put it in my inbox.. hope everythin goes good
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Hi im a 15/f. i love my friend to pieces but i *cannot stand* her family. her mom is constantly putting food in front of me and i feel weird telling her i'm full cuz everyone else is eating still and sometimes they give me weird looks. and after being over her house a while i get a really bad stomach ache. and her little brother is really cute but he hangs all over me and it gets so annoying. she just thinks hes cute. this website is like my last resort lol im so fed up with going over her house. her parents are strict too so its not like she goes over my house a lot either :-/ please help me!! (link)
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Well if u get full wen ur there its not ur fault.. and if they give u looks for it then watever. its not their problem. and for her little brother try backing away from him a little wen he starts getting annoying or just straight out telling him i dont wanna play rite now. he mite get the hint. good luck.. hope i helped!
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soo i have this girl friend n shes cool and all, but everytime we go to the mall, or were down the shore on the boardwalk or something, she always gets the guys. Shes pretty and all but some of my friends dont think shes the prettiest girl in the world half of them sey im prettier then her. It doesnt really bug me, but im more outgoing n i speak for myself n im always the one doing everything for her and talking to the hott guys for her cause she cant do it herself. I dont know what to do cause the guys see right through me and onto her even though i'm the one usually the guys go for when im not with her. I dont know if i should let it go or talk to her or what? But when im not with her i get the guys n all my other friends get mad at me? pleease help! (link)
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well since u get all the guys wen ur not around her think of it like this: if one of your friends was fed up with u getting all the attention from guys wat would u want them to say to u? and try to go from there to work it out with u and ur friend.. good luck!
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I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now? (link)
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Just be there as her friend. If theres gonna be some sparks, they'll show up soon enough. Try not to rush her into things cuz shes new and probably going thru a lot. give her some time to get settled and once things are cool then make your move. good luck!
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