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My friends a guy magnet!
soo i have this girl friend n shes cool and all, but everytime we go to the mall, or were down the shore on the boardwalk or something, she always gets the guys. Shes pretty and all but some of my friends dont think shes the prettiest girl in the world half of them sey im prettier then her. It doesnt really bug me, but im more outgoing n i speak for myself n im always the one doing everything for her and talking to the hott guys for her cause she cant do it herself. I dont know what to do cause the guys see right through me and onto her even though i'm the one usually the guys go for when im not with her. I dont know if i should let it go or talk to her or what? But when im not with her i get the guys n all my other friends get mad at me? pleease help!
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I know what you are going through, bkuz i have a friend that is the same way. even though its hard, and you think your going to hurt her by talking about it, you have to talk to her or let her know somehow. tell her that you dont think its right for you to have to go talk to her men for her. but your not going to make a guy like you, so juss be yourself and dont make it a race to see who can get what first. maybe just hang out with other friends, kuz i mean you must be pretty if all the guys want you. hope i could help a lil!!
--LiTTo DrEaMeR--
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well usually when you talk for your friend to the boys, they see your friend as the one interested- not you. if you say things to the boys that make you seem interested, they will consider you [most likely]. if your friend that shy, it's extremely nice of you to help her with the guy situations. what you should do is tell your friend what you told in your question- how you're tired of her getting all the guys when you're always the one to talk for her. for your second problem with other friends, and the guys being all over you- you cant help it! i assume you dont want to do something to make you non-attractive ;)! you just might want to help some of your other friends with guys [if thats what they want]- but if they are mad at you, as in they think you are too boy involved, then maybe you should take a break from the guys for a while? i tried to get the all the advice aspects you needed for your question, hope it helped a little! good luck! =] - ask_anything
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look your friend shouldn't get mad at you b/c guys liek you more than they like them thats truly not fair on your behalf and tell your friend that she needs to speak for herself instead of you speaking for her b/c some guys might not like that and then can get turned off b/c of that fact. and hunnie you go and liek the guys that you like and if your friendsz get mad at you because of that then they are really never your friends from the begining! -hope i helped!
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What are you going to talk to her about -- she can't control the fact that guys like her. You already said that when you're not her you get guys, so it's not like no guy on the face of the earth is ever going to talk to you because she's "stealing" them all. Just let it be =)
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What is there to talk about with her? Maybe she is really pretty and you just don't want to believe that. Maybe guys like her for the wrong reasons anyway.
-xXoBrianna
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u should just not talk to the guyz for her u need to tell her to talk to the guyz herself. They guyz look past u cuz u tryin to hook yo friend up they think u shy to talk to them. U juss gotta let her spit her own game and u do yo's. $M$
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well since u get all the guys wen ur not around her think of it like this: if one of your friends was fed up with u getting all the attention from guys wat would u want them to say to u? and try to go from there to work it out with u and ur friend.. good luck!
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