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okay so i like this kid for some time (2 years, i think it might actually be love but i cant admit it). last year we were really close and i still liked him and i am positive he liked me, he would sit with me at my lunch table when he had soo many other friends at another table, and we would just only talk to eachother. i remember how people would come up to us and be like "are you two dating?. you two look really cute together!".. and jokingly he would say "yes"..haha i was eating icecream once and i couldnt finish it so he took it and helped me finish it, and one time this kid was flirting with me and my friend was like "you should totally date, right dan?" (his name is dan). and the kid that was flirting with me was one of dans good friends. so dan says "no, no she shouldn't"..i just looked at him and he didnt even stare at me..but when he said it i have never seen him so serious in my life. and theres this ex that always bothers him and she always talks to him and i get sad cuz she never lets me talk and he just randomly cuts her off to ask me a random question. one time i fell asleep in his arms and i looked up while he was holding me and we had eye contact for the longest time and i kept asking myself "should i kiss him?..should i?" but i looked down because i just felt so embarassed..so, haha lost track in the good times. i kept waiting for him to be like "lets hangout" or something but he never did. so i had doubts that he didnt like me. so this guy asked me out and i did..just because i felt sadand lonely. after that me and dan were never close as we used to be. we would still talk and stuff but not like long one on one conversations. and when i broke up with my boyfriend after a couple of weeks i wanted to rebuild our friendship but it has always stayed the same. so now i decided that i need to get over him by avoiding him. i was doing a good job but one day we were face to face and he opens his arms for a hug. and that was it. i felt like crying and i never wanted to let go. i know we are perfect for eachother, i have never been sure in my life. so now i messaged him asking him "what happened?..we never talk anymore like we used to..we used to be close friends.."..i know he might have gotten over me. but is it possible that some one can like you again? please help. i am in pain. and i know its stupid. i always make fun of the girls that cry over girls...now i am one of them (link)
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oh wow this is the story of my life.
but your is a little cuter.
i wish i could help, but if i knew what to do then i wouldnt be in this mess myself.
all i can say is that avoiding him wont do anything.
if your so sure about him then you have to keep trying because you will never be happy with yourself if you dont. and it will only get worse as time goes on.
good luck! let me know how it goes!
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There was this guy i have known 12 years i met him wen i was 4 started liking him wen I was 12 but that time he had a girl nd became a player i didnt kno he was one and he acted so diffent around me nd later it turns out that he knew i liked him but he always sed he wants to get to kno me so i waited like 2 years for him to come and he did after i started ignoring him he started giving me madd attention for like 4 whole months Iming me calling me madd late way he spoke to me everyone thought he liked me nd he use to get jealous to easily nd den some shiiit happened that he sed about me nd he denied it that he never talked shiit about me nd he kept trying to be friends wit me so i didnt talk to him 3 months nd i had some problems with this girl and he helped me outt he was by my side so i took him back nd we got closer friends better than b4 he told my friend he likes me alot more than b4 and those late night callings and messaging started coming again den in my house he sed something mean about me my friend told me and he kept denying it called me a billion times texted me but infront of his cousins he acts like he doesnt know me because i think they hate me and say so much shiit about me so infront of people he acts like me and him don't talk and on the phone he acts like i am his world and that got me madd everytime i question him that he changes the subject and then i told him he is very coldhearted so then he tells me he knowes i like him and he cant c himself having a relation with me because I take stuff to the heart so then i hung up on him and he calls again saying lets just forget everything that happened and be friends AGAIN....and i obbiously didnt want to because i like him so i told him no lets forget each other and then he is like that is not going to help he was like if you want go ahead blame everything on me but dont stop talking to me and i said no so then he goes like i dont care now because trying to be friends with you made me go through tons of dramas then i blocked him the next week i kept gettting private calls everytime i would pick up he wouldnt say anything so 2 months he kept calling private and then i finally unblocked him he IMED me saying hi and i flipped out on him because if he doesnt like me doesnt care why does he wana be friends with me so badly ? So i was being reallly mean to him i told him i dont like him....so then he tells me he has no interest in me and that he has no problems being friends with me and he was leading me on...so i was like yea because you are an asshole so i signed off on him and he IMS me again the next day we said sorry to each other and he told me he was never leading me on....and i am really confused because if he doesnt care then whhy won't he stop ? (link)
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oh wow this is a long story.
but that really does suck so im sorry.
it seems like there are obviusly some isues you two have to work out but the bottom like is you like him...and youve liked him for a long time. and he likes you. and i think you should forgive him for everyting and you two should start over with the agreement that he will not randomly tell you he doesnt like you, or he rude in front of his friends. So make it offical. that way he has no excuse to do this. but i know that if you give up on him you will regret it. good luck.
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well, i was dating this guy, josh and then we broke up nd then i dated this guy named Alex, who trun out to be a total douche and then i started dating this guy i kno from england bt i live in thuh usa bt im still dating him. He's moving here in 2010. and then there's this other guy whom i really like a lot, brett, he nd i had a fling quite sometime ago nd he told me he loves me about 20 mins. ago.. and i still really like him. bt there's a lil promblem, josh and i got back together bc i thought that there was no hope at all for Brett and i due to the fact that i thought that he didnt like me nd even when i tried to tell me , he still acted like he didnt like me :( and then i tried to move on. bt now there's this other guy Joe, he says that im thuh only thing worth living for.... i really dont kno what to do. HELP! (link)
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okayy so there are five guyss?
1. josh- old bf, got back together, seems like you like him the most
2. alex- douchbag....no
3. england guy- deal with him in 2010
4. brett- if he acts like he doesnt like you then he probably doesnt like you enough...
5. joe- just because he says that doesnt mean he means it and it doesnt mean you have to feel the same way...
so i suggest josh for now....
but its really up to whoever you like the best...
good luck!
lemme know how it goes kay?
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im on the xc team so i run. i usually do curlups and bikes and ab workouts before and/or after i run. how many should i do in order to get nice abs by halloween? and any good advice. thank youu! (link)
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ummm well if you eat healthy and run and do ab workouts already i would suggest doing it for at least 45 minutes a night....
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I'm Ashley, I'm 16, and I have an indoor pool. I recently had a slumber party, and everyone brought their bathing suits so we could go swimming. Me and my friends were talking about boys, by yelling across the pool, (we're weird like that, lol) when I noticed one of my friends was like, making weird movements around where one of the pool jets are, and about 5 minutes after I noticed this, I also noticed her breathing was starting to get heavier, and she was moaning just a little. I swam over to her, and asked her if she was okay, and she looked at me, and said: "It feels soo good...". I asked her what she was talking about, and she stood up, grabbed me by the waist, and positioned myself in front of the jet that I was assuming was hitting her. I was right! Almost immediately, I felt something that I've never felt before. It DID feel really good, like, I really can't even describe it! I don't think anyone else noticed what we were doing, but my question is, what was this experience? Does this mean I'm a lesbian? I'm straight, but this just felt so good. Is this also normal? Do all girls know you can do this? (I'm sorry, I know that's more than one question, but any answer, I will be very thankful for! Thank you!) (link)
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ummm idk if this is normal but im pretty sure it has nothing to do with being lesbian.
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Im a 14 year old girl who has a major crush on her friend who happens to be a cute n funny guy. We hang out in class and i told him i liked him i even asked my sis to ask him if he likes me he said no but continues to flirt, hug, and make me laugh. No matter what i do i cant get over him. I dont know what to do. (link)
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im sorry, i actually have a really similar problem. i think just continue flirting and stuff, or actually maybe ignore him just for a few days, play hard to get, and hel come to you. and if he doesnt, then go back to flirting and maybe he will eventually change his mind. but whatever you do, dont act like you like him too much or that your visibly upset that he said he doesnt like you. and dont worry , just because he said he doesnt like you, doesnt mean he actaully meant that. goodluck!
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Okay, im 17/m starting college soon. My sister lives about 2 hours away from me but one of her friends moved down to where i live to go to college but not the same one as me. My sister wanted me to start hanging out with this girl. So my sister came down where i lived and we all met up for the first time and she was kinda quiet, but she seemed really nice. I'm not sure if she just wasnt in to me or if she liked me idk we talked for a little bit but no really too much. I have been thinking about this girl and i do want to be friends with her or be in a relationship with her. I have her number but how should i start talking to her?? And btw my sister wants us to go out lol. But yeah she was on my mind all day and I do not know what to say or start off a conversation with her. (link)
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i have a similar situation, i think the only way is to be brave and talk to her. the best way to start a conversation is to follow up on something she said last time you saw her. like if you were talking Aabout a movie you want to see, tell her you just saw it and it was really good. or something like that. kk good luck!
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ok so what does dating mean to you??iv been on two dates with this guy and theres potential for more dates to come, we have already kissed a faw times does that mean hes my bf now??is that what dating is??just want to know because he hasnt said that im his gf but when we go out he calls it a date
thanks in advance (link)
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theres a differnece between "dating" and "being his girlfriend". what you are doing now (going on dates, kissing, etc.) is considered seeing eachother, or "dating" . you are only his girlfriend if he asks you to b is girlfriend, or you ask him if your that kinda person. but dating is exartly what your doing now.
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I have always liked short hair more than long hair, but I have never had short hair. My hair has been long for my whole life. I told my friend that i want to cut my hair really short, but she said not to because my hair is "really beautiful". I have always wanted to have short hair, but I dont feel like I would look good with it.
I have a big nose, and not very good bone structure (which is my problem), do you think I would still look ok with short hair? And I mean like very short hair. All the models I see with short hair have nice noses and bone structure.
I changed my yahoo avatar to have short hair, which is kinda my first step lol.
This is a bit like the style I want (but not the colour):
http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs…
*What I look like*:
I have brown eyes, they are kinda small, but look big because of my make-up and eye colour, my nose is definately not my best feature (some people say it isn't big, but I know that it is), my skin isn't too good (but I wear make-up so that doesn't matter), and my mouth is small, but my lips are plump. I am very skinny (but not because I want to be), I don't have a chest, and I am a white 15 year old girl, and I am kinda tall.
*What my hair looks like currently*:
It runs down to the middle of my back, it is wavey (and usually frizzy). My natural colour is a dark blonde, but then I dyed it brown, then I washed the brown out, then it turned red, so I put blonde in it, and now it is a strawberry blone colour. And now I have regrowth but that doesn't matter because the colours are similar. My hair is parted in the middle but I am training my fringe to go to the side. I don't have a fringe (bangs), the front parts of my hair go past my ears.
Do you think someone that looks like this could pull off very short hair? But I want my hair to still be long enough that I can tie it into short piggy tails (the piggy tails will be messy, with alot of hair fallen out of them, so I will have layers in my hair, and basically people wont notice the piggy tails are there because they will be so small xD)
Anyways, please help me. And I need you to be HONEST. all my friends will say "No, don't wreck your hair" or "You do whatever you want with your hair". So please answer honestly!
If a picture of me or other hair styles is required, tell me, and I will put the pics.
Thank-you! (link)
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well dont take this offensivley but short hair is mostly for people with such amazing features that they do not need hair to cover it up. and if what you said is true about your features not being perfect, it might be best that you keep your hair. lets face it, no one looks prettier with short hair. trendier maybe, but not preittier. plus you can always cut it later, but once you cut it, your stuck with that for a long time.
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my boyfriend is currently in another state working. He was just home for a little over a week and while he was home one night these girls started calling his phone over and over. I read his texts later and the texts were all like hey come play beer pong, we're in the hot tub come over and stuff like that. I know he would never cheat on me but we all know how girls can be. I don't care that he has friends who are girls but I'm not sure how to handle this one. He's going to be gone for about a year and I don't want to seem paranoid. It's just that I'm a girl and I know that when I decide that I want something I won't stop until I get it. Any ideas?
18/f (link)
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well im sure you already know but long distannce relationships are hard, espessially if your already paranoid about something. you should probably either learn to trust him and that he wouldnt do that to you, or you can talk to him about it witout seeming overly possesive, or you can break up with him until he comes back to where you live. i wouldnt suggest staying with him if you are going to be spying on him and worrying the whole time.
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i am 18 years old and i me and my brother brian who is 22 have a perfect relationship. on august 28th we had sex and now i am pregnant. we are really excited and i am going to keep the baby but what i am asking is i do not know how to tell my parents that my brother and i are exspecting our first child (link)
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okay i know that you probably dont want to hear this but you should probably not keep the baby. not only will it really badly damamge both of your lives, but the baby will never live a normal life.
1. children with parents who are related (espessically brother and sister) will have many mental and physical deformaties since their genes are so simmilar.
2. your child will definatly never live a normal social life knowwing that his parents are brother and sister.
3. your parents and the rest of your family and friends may never speak to either of you again
4. you seem a little young to be having a baby
sorry to be a downer, but i feel that i should probably warn you about all of these before.
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it's new, and i'm pretty sure it's t-pain. its upbeat and they play it in clubs in stuff. it's something like "you like what you see when you're lookin at me" or somethin like that. those prob aren't exact but yeah, i can't find it on google or myspace or anything. any help? (link)
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all the above- tpain
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14/f.
a guy i met at church is 17/m.
i hung out with him a couple weeks ago and idk if they quite liked him, they thought he was nice but they were unsure.
today we wanted to hang out and they said no so i told him no.
then tomorrow i asked if i could hang out with him and they said no and that they didnt want me seeing him outside of church. so i have to tell him that.
do you think theyre thinking of my best interest?
like do guys that age only think of sex?
or what?
why does he want to hang out with a 14 year old girl?
im so confused. (link)
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ummm i would just hang out with him in church alot.
maybe get your parents to become friends with his and stuff. let them invite his family for dinner and stuff, then maybe your parents will just think of it as fmaily friends hanging oiut and let you?
well if he seems like he actually wants to hango ut with you and not just take advantage of you since your younger then maybbe.
homefullyhes not a creeper.
goodluck
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So you know how everyone goes to party's and dances and stuff or whatever it's like the cool thing and it's fun to dance with all your friends and shit. well That's not me i don't enjoy dancing i don't do it i mean a can like dance for fun and stuff with a friends or something but i don't go to party's that involve that cause i look like an idiot sitting watching everyone dance so my question is how come every thinks its weird and your boring if you don't dancing so why is that people who don't have any intrest in dancing people think its weird or something like that?
for example- So lets pretend me and two other girls are good singers we meet a new girl but she doesn't sing she can't and she doesn't like to It's not like were going to think it's werid that she doesn't cause people like diffrent things so why are people so gay and anyying about that? (link)
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woahhh i have the exact same problem.
it is very awkward.
goodluckk!
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I'm a senior in high school and over the years I've had to suffer, and still more than ever, really, really bad jealousy. And I don't mean I'm jealous over people in my grade being prettier than me or getting guys, but I mean being jealous of people being smarter and better at stuff than i am. I am pretty smart, i work really hard, and do well in school and everything else I do, but there are always handfuls of people who are way better than me. I mean, I know it's almost impossible to be the best at everything but I can't help but be really, really jealous. I'm really good at music but there are so many people who I'm jealous of because they're better than me. I'm also so jealous of the kids in my class who are smart enough to apply to mit, yale, cornell, harvard, upenn, etc. What kills me is when people are amazing at music AND really smart. But my question is, does this high school competitiveness tone down once college starts (i'm not going to an ivy league)? Is college less like high school, where everyone is interested in each others' grades and where everyone is always trying to surpass each other? I really want to be able to see a light at the end of the tunnel.
Thanks. (link)
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i have the same problem with the jealousy and what i find helpful is that whenever there is someone who i dislike or am jelous of, just find one thing about your life that is better that theirs (i.e- you have more friends, better family, more money, your pretier, taller, smarter, more creative, whatever it is) there will probably always be something.
and yes, it will get better, in college people are not so involved in eachothers lives, and it is a lot less competitive.
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Im 15f, and my family is falling apart. my dad always cusses and uses bad language in practically every sentence (hes a yankee) mom doesnt like it because he always does it around my 2 year old sister. He's an ass! he has threatened to beat me before to the point of not stopping and he has gottin pretty close to it too. well in every sentence he talks to my mom... they clash. you never would say they love eachothe and that is pretty much proven by just watching them. mom is starting to look for a place so me and her can move in there. What am i supposed to feel? im a little frantic inside and just feel like crying... but i wont. i know that crying wont do anything but worry my mom and then she will back down. i dont want to worry them and i dont want to hear them fight anymore. but it gets to the point to where i am afraid to leave them alone because they fight.... (worried about mom actually). she always lets me take the easy way out and tries her best for me, she tells me teenagers shouldnt have to worry about things like getting a job to her her (actually its to pay for my own sparts fees and things like that... she wants me to be able to depend on her) she said if i did get a part-time job she would never take my money and it would be my own. but how can i have a carefree life if im so worried about her. her body is weak because she if overweight but she is mentally strong. i cant do anything except worry and feel sad (more like overwhelmed). i just need to know how to keep control of my emotions and act like its nothing to help her with her descisions. its very overwhelming. (link)
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iunderstand your issue, and first of all im so sorry you had to deal with this.
but dont be afriad to cry, it healthy, and it might help you.
you should probably talk to your mom about you guys and your other sister moving out, or her divorcing him, or if it gets back you can calll child services or something, but i wouldn't just leave them. youlv be worse off on your own, and you would be leaving your mom alone with him.
goodluck though, i hoep it gets better
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I found a lump in my breast last week. It is still about 2 square centimeters big and I believe it is still in stage 1 if it is cancerous. I did some research and I found that if I choose to leave it untreated, I have about 1-2 years left to live. I'm 15, a sophomore in high school. I've had cysts in my ovaries and the lump may be just a cyst too, but I don't want to tell my parents in case it is cancer. They have to put 2 other kids through college, so I don't want to take my siblings' futures away as well. Breast cancer victims normally die, despite all efforts and amount of money. I don't know what to do. Could you help? (link)
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go tell them right nowww!!!
trust me your parents would rather have you treated no matter how expensiveee!
if you have a chance to live you have to dowhatever it takes!
just think about how horrible your family will feeel if god forbid you die and they realzie it was because you didnt tell them.
if its too expensive, then your parents will tell you that you cant get treatment, but you have to tell them!
and there are probably organizations or insurance that can help you anyways.
pleaseeee pleasee pleaseeee go tell themmm!
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15/m
i just came to a new school last week. its been a week now and i dont really hangout with anybody during lunch or anything. its not that im weird or shy or anything, its just that people there have their own friends already. What do i do?
for the last week i just walked around the whole campus in circles just to kill time until lunch ends.
i dont wanna do that anymore!
i know its easy for a girl to make friends at a new school, but its not that easy for a guy.
help. (link)
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i think with boys, the eisiest way to make friends would be join a sports team or something. or a club. and if not then find someone who is also alone and give them a compliment or ask them a question about where something is since your new. it might start something. goodluck
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songs having to do my ex with a new girl and im not over him?
i like stuff like yellowcard, boys like girls, we the kings, and the scene aesthetic.
thanks. (link)
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girlfriends- avril lavigne
im not over - carolina liar
you belong with me- taylor swift
dont forget- demi lovato
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(I'm sorry about the length)
Weeell, I'm 14, and I kind of need some help. See, this is pretty much what I'm like: I'm pretty, not beautiful, but, you know, pretty high above norm. I'm smart, I guess. I laugh EXTREMELY EASILY-not in an obnoxious way, but I have a very boy-ish sense of humor, and I'm pretty funny myself, too. Last part, I'm very shy in school. But, anyways, I've noticed boys really like being around me. And I feel totally comfortable around them. A lot of popular boys are always teasing me, talking to me, you know. A LOT of boys like me, too, which makes them fool around with me a lot more, and I totally LOVE my "gift" as most people call it! I'm so lucky. But here's my problem. None of them have ever asked me out! Ok, well, quite a handful of boys have asked me out, but they were all... weird. And I don't get it! Do they want popular girlfriends so they don't look bad? Do they expect ME to ask THEM out? I've never done that before. So, I need some advice! How do I get boys to ask me out? They already like me, so, I don't know what else to do. (link)
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wow u are VERY consided.
maybe you should try being a little less full of yourself and someone will ask u out. they probably think that since you think so highly of yourself that they are scared youll reject them.
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