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I have been suffering 5 years HELP
There was this guy i have known 12 years i met him wen i was 4 started liking him wen I was 12 but that time he had a girl nd became a player i didnt kno he was one and he acted so diffent around me nd later it turns out that he knew i liked him but he always sed he wants to get to kno me so i waited like 2 years for him to come and he did after i started ignoring him he started giving me madd attention for like 4 whole months Iming me calling me madd late way he spoke to me everyone thought he liked me nd he use to get jealous to easily nd den some shiiit happened that he sed about me nd he denied it that he never talked shiit about me nd he kept trying to be friends wit me so i didnt talk to him 3 months nd i had some problems with this girl and he helped me outt he was by my side so i took him back nd we got closer friends better than b4 he told my friend he likes me alot more than b4 and those late night callings and messaging started coming again den in my house he sed something mean about me my friend told me and he kept denying it called me a billion times texted me but infront of his cousins he acts like he doesnt know me because i think they hate me and say so much shiit about me so infront of people he acts like me and him don't talk and on the phone he acts like i am his world and that got me madd everytime i question him that he changes the subject and then i told him he is very coldhearted so then he tells me he knowes i like him and he cant c himself having a relation with me because I take stuff to the heart so then i hung up on him and he calls again saying lets just forget everything that happened and be friends AGAIN....and i obbiously didnt want to because i like him so i told him no lets forget each other and then he is like that is not going to help he was like if you want go ahead blame everything on me but dont stop talking to me and i said no so then he goes like i dont care now because trying to be friends with you made me go through tons of dramas then i blocked him the next week i kept gettting private calls everytime i would pick up he wouldnt say anything so 2 months he kept calling private and then i finally unblocked him he IMED me saying hi and i flipped out on him because if he doesnt like me doesnt care why does he wana be friends with me so badly ? So i was being reallly mean to him i told him i dont like him....so then he tells me he has no interest in me and that he has no problems being friends with me and he was leading me on...so i was like yea because you are an asshole so i signed off on him and he IMS me again the next day we said sorry to each other and he told me he was never leading me on....and i am really confused because if he doesnt care then whhy won't he stop ?
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uhh.... yeah....
if he's being a total cockass, then tell him either to, hold on, lemme come up with a good metaphor... "shit, or get off the pot". far as I'm concerned, his incessant game-playing is unacceptable. this relationship has to either evolve into one where this bullshit does not exist, or end. shooting a crippled moose after you hit it with your truck is humane. doing the same to this relationship may have to happen.
-Gunner
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oh wow this is a long story.
but that really does suck so im sorry.
it seems like there are obviusly some isues you two have to work out but the bottom like is you like him...and youve liked him for a long time. and he likes you. and i think you should forgive him for everyting and you two should start over with the agreement that he will not randomly tell you he doesnt like you, or he rude in front of his friends. So make it offical. that way he has no excuse to do this. but i know that if you give up on him you will regret it. good luck.
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