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This isn't realy about friendship but read cause i wanna know what you thin
So you know how everyone goes to party's and dances and stuff or whatever it's like the cool thing and it's fun to dance with all your friends and shit. well That's not me i don't enjoy dancing i don't do it i mean a can like dance for fun and stuff with a friends or something but i don't go to party's that involve that cause i look like an idiot sitting watching everyone dance so my question is how come every thinks its weird and your boring if you don't dancing so why is that people who don't have any intrest in dancing people think its weird or something like that?
for example- So lets pretend me and two other girls are good singers we meet a new girl but she doesn't sing she can't and she doesn't like to It's not like were going to think it's werid that she doesn't cause people like diffrent things so why are people so gay and anyying about that?
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True ... I don't like to dance either hahaa. But sometimes my friends force me. I just feel like I'm making a fool out of myself. and yeah, they'll call you party pooper and stuff but I can promise you that they don't ACTUALLY think you're boring. They just want you to have fun with them and be wild, yuh know ?
Like okay. It's like ... if you invited 3 friends to an amusent park and only 2 of them actually LIKE rollercoasters and your other friend doesn't like them. She doesn't want to go on and is like, "noooo, i hate rollercoasters ! i don't want to cry and scream like a baby, its embarassing." and then you want her to come on with you because youll KNOW she'll have fun and eventually get used to it, so you're like, "come onnn, just go onnnn." but she insits that she's fine. It's like the same thing with dances and stuff. your friends KNOW youll have fun if you just loosen up, which is why they say those things that you think they are being gay and annoying about.
And you don't look like an idiot just sitting there. Trust me. just be who you are. and don't listen to what they say because you're you and you like your comfort zone. so don't worry about it. they will eventually stop bugging you and become mature.
good luck, hope you understand what im saying hahaa :] it sounded right in my head. ;] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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woahhh i have the exact same problem.
it is very awkward.
goodluckk!
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