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How do I get them to ask me out?
(I'm sorry about the length)
Weeell, I'm 14, and I kind of need some help. See, this is pretty much what I'm like: I'm pretty, not beautiful, but, you know, pretty high above norm. I'm smart, I guess. I laugh EXTREMELY EASILY-not in an obnoxious way, but I have a very boy-ish sense of humor, and I'm pretty funny myself, too. Last part, I'm very shy in school. But, anyways, I've noticed boys really like being around me. And I feel totally comfortable around them. A lot of popular boys are always teasing me, talking to me, you know. A LOT of boys like me, too, which makes them fool around with me a lot more, and I totally LOVE my "gift" as most people call it! I'm so lucky. But here's my problem. None of them have ever asked me out! Ok, well, quite a handful of boys have asked me out, but they were all... weird. And I don't get it! Do they want popular girlfriends so they don't look bad? Do they expect ME to ask THEM out? I've never done that before. So, I need some advice! How do I get boys to ask me out? They already like me, so, I don't know what else to do.
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wow u are VERY consided.
maybe you should try being a little less full of yourself and someone will ask u out. they probably think that since you think so highly of yourself that they are scared youll reject them.
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If ur always with awhole bunch of guys none of them are going to ask you out. You need to find the one your really intrested in & make them feel really special, let them know you like them the best, & then theyll ask you out. Otherwise theyr afraid of rejection.
Be careful though, if you have a boyfriend those adoring fans of your might just disapear.
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Well if they dont ask you then just ask them out just be like would you like to hang out afterschool or something and if they enjoy it then they will most likely ask you out themselves next time good luck:)
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