This girl has been driving me insane. It all started with when I was going out with my ex boyfriend. When him and I started going out we would say that she would be out to "ruin our relationship" because she was jealous. Well ding, they both got drunk one night and hooked up. It was ridiculous, but I forgave him and just moved on. She was all nice to me after that, so whatever. Now that boy and I broke up recently, and she is still out to get me... not even kidding.
I met this kid at a concert I went to, who is friends with my other friend. Him and I have been talking a lot and have been doing pretty well, but of course here comes Kayla. She calls him all the time asking him to hang out, and talking bad about me and whatnot. I HAVE NO IDEA WHY SHE DOES THIS. They were friends before him and I started talking, so I can't stop their friendship, but I have no idea how this kid and I are going to work if she continues to do this.
She graduated, I am a junior. Her little sister is a freshman and I have no idea who she is, and yet Kayla leaves me a facebook message asking why I've been threatening to beat up her little sister. What? I never said that, and yet she doesn't believe me.
Please don't say "just ignore it." I have ignored it for half a year and she still won't stop. I tried asking her why she hates me, but that didn't work either. I honestly just don't know what to do anymore, I am about to go insane.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Lauraaxhelps answered Sunday September 28 2008, 2:05 pm: Okay, well.. maybe she likes your type of guys.
I think you should get her a guy thats like one of yours so that shell have a guy to focus on and not steal your guys. i agree with the person below me, sit her down and say you have no idea who her sister is and you have no idea why kayla is acting like this. she honestly isnt a great friend if she keeps taking your boyfriends/"crushes".
maybe you should show her a taste of her attitude and do it to her too. go hit on her "crushes".
and you cant change the way she is with guys, but what shes doing has to stop shes just being a backstabber.
Katlyn answered Sunday September 28 2008, 1:37 am: ask her to meet you up somewhere and just sit her down and tell her you need to talk and if that doesnt work then go talk to her parents or something these are the only ways your going to get rid of her. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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