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i like this guy and i have only met him once idk if he still likes me but we have been talking over myspace and i just sent him a message going, i need to tell you something
the thing that i need to tell him is how i really feel.
and if he relpys being a ass should i just forget it? what do you think?

Well, if someone told me over myspace that they liked me I would reply being an ass because thats so lame to tell someone over the internet that you like them. What are you like 11?

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Hey, I wanted to know if its normal if I can only reach orgasm (either from masterbating or oral sex) when my legs are staight. Like really straight. Ive tried to practice with them bent but I just can't get off that way. It makes me sad to think I wont be able to have an orgasm during sex because i can't keep my legs straigh and close enough together. Is this normal? What could I do? Why?

Its normal. Don't worry about it unless you don't like having your legs straight.

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i have asked this before.
so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
and if i dont have sex with him he might break up with me.
i seriously like him though.
i rate

Have sex with him.. duh.

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Whats a good sport for me. I like to run...a lot. But I feel like thats not enough. I am very scared of balls though. Even a Ping Pong ball...so I really dont know what to do!!

AM

P.S. something cheap...I cant really afford expensive equiptment.

Track.

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You like Queen! Woohoo! Ow! Queen Rocks! Have you ever heard the song "Somebody To Love" by Queen?

I don't like Queen. I like a band named Queens of the Stone Age, but not Queen.

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Ummm...I at the moment have dark dark brown hair. My natural color is medium brown but then I dyed it dark red and decided I didn't like it. Then dyed it this dark brown that I currently have. The thing is I love change so I'm thinking about dying it black. Not very very black or blue black or anything like that but just a soft black maybe. I think the contrat would be awesome with my eye color. I have a very unique sea mist light blue with dark rims. Any comments or suggestions will be rated high.

Why don't you just stop dying your hair before it all falls out.

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Howdy

I was just doing a little christmas present pondering to tell my parents what i want and i came to a question. for along time now ive wanted the ipod mini...but now my friends tell me theyre no longer selling them..only the new ipod nano or more advanced/expensive crap. but does anyone know if this is true?
also...just to randomly throw this out there...whats on you guys' xmas list this year? lol. i cant think of anything to ask for...anything would be helpful and i PROMISE ill rate fives to everyone except the smart alecs.
~Megan 15/f

I'm getting this http://us.creative.com/products/product.asp?category=213&subcategory=214&product=12214&nav=technicalSpecifications

Personally I think its better than an IPod mini, its the same price but holds more songs and looks cooler.

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Well, last week, I got into a car accident. It was just me driving.

This guy was drunk, and speeding. He ran a red and smashed in the front of my car. He hit me, and then he ran. His plates were from April of 2004!

The policeman came back, telling me that he didn't catch him, but it is my fault, and they are going to send me a citation in the mail.
Should I go to court? Or just pay off the money..

It's not fair that he hit me.. and then ran, and didn't get punished, but I did. Now, I have to pay 500 dollars to fix my car, ontop of the citation...

Help?

If he ran, how did you know he was drunk?

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Okay, so your pretty much mean to every person that asks you a question. Why is that? And I have seen your myspace pictures, You are definatly not someone that looks like they own the world. So you need to stop being so negative cool kid or I will report you to adviceanator staff.
Okay Thanks

I only answer mean if the person has a stupid question. If you would actually look through my column instead of looking at pictures of me you would see that I do answer good questions nicely.
I have never said I 'own the world' or acted like I 'own the world'.
Do you really think I'm afraid of the Adviceanator staff? Big deal if I get banned, if I cared about being banned I might watch what I say in the first place.

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im 13 years old, and im afraid of the dark still. ok, let me rephrase that: im not exactly afraid, but everytime i am someplace dark, i feel very uncomfortable, like something is watching/following me. i know its not real, which is why i need help: first of all, is it weird that i feel afraid at 13, and also what can i do to make myself not scared? thx in advance ill rate all 5s!

Im 16 and still feel that way. Im also afraid of ghost. So I hope its not weird.

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ok well this guy that i like fingered me and i dont really shave my vagina well i shave it but not my triagnle part but i dont trim it but im not sure if he minds it or not what do u think both guys and girls....13/f

Your 13 and already being fingered. What a slut.

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I cut myself and i want to stop!! How can i make myself stop??
Will rate

Maybe stop being lame.

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Is it normal to not be able to get over the guy you lost your virginity to? I lost mine to an asshole who completely used me as a bet and lied about how he was a virgin and "wanted to loose his virginity to me too" I can't get over him. It's making me depressed and I don't know if I'm overreacting or what?

Its normal. I lost mine to an asshole too and it took me awhile to get over it/him. Now I just tell everyone I'm still a virgin and when people ask if I've slept with him I say 'no' which helps becasue I'm kind of detaching myself from him.

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would i see fast results if i went on a liquid diet?

Yes, but if you eat anything solid you put all the weight back on. So its only good for short term weight loss.

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Hey! I need some fund raising ideas. I need to raise 300 dollars for dance team costume. What would be some good ideas. Remember its cold so no car washes xoxo

If you have a krispy kreme near by they do fund raising cards. So you could talk to them about it. http://www.krispykreme.com/fund.html

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I don't know what to do for halloween this year!!!I'm 13 and I'm over the whole trick or treating thing and the nearest bon fire to me has been abolished and there are other ones near to me but thats where all the bad crowd hang around and you'd be lucky enough not to get your ass blown up by fire-works.
Please help!!!

Why are you over the whole trick or treating thing? Come on its FREE candy! Thank about it.

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ok. im 14/f. still a virgin and ive been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. like when he hugs me from behind he'll just start humping me. and i know i tell him to stop but i like it. l.o.l. and he always puts his hands up my shirt. and i like it. but im ashamed of my body. i know im not fat...but i just think i am. i think my legs are at least. but... i dont know what to do. and i dont think thats all he wants from me. but i dont know....i masterbate alot and it feels good. and i want the real thing now but i dont know about it tho.
please help me.

If your having any doubts at all about having sex it means your not ready. You really need to feel comfortable with your body before you have sex because being comfortable with your body is part of being mature enough to do it. I know that maturity levels are different with each person and has nothing to do with age but being 14 is way way too younge to be having sex. Masturbation and him putting his hand up your shirt is totally different from acutally having sex when it comes to the developement of your mind and body. No girls body is developed enough at age 14 to be having sex.

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yah i love kids but i dnt knw f i can be a good mom 2 them

...And your question is?

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