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so this is pretty gross, but i just need to know - so before i started my period, i had this white, gross stuff everyday, so i always had to use a liner, then, my period started and i was hoping the white stuff would stop. well, it didn't, so i now have a heavy period every month, PLUS this stupid white stuff EVERYDAY. is this normal? will this ever stop???? i'm so fusterated because i really thought the white gook would stop but it hasn't, in fact it's even got heavier and grosser. UGH
it's called discharge, and it's COMPLETELY normal. in fact, almost all girls get it! there's not much you can do but you can wash out your vag. everyday in the shower and also quick clean-ups when you go to the bathroom and pee.
will it ever stop? yes eventually it will. it has its ups and downs so you can see it stop for a few months and come back. don't worry too much about it unless you feel burning, itching or discomfort while urinating, in which case you need to talk to a doctor.
Which one is best I cant decied!
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/keira-knightley-short-hair-photos-09.jpg
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/pictures-of-celebrity-short-style-06.html
http://www.hairfinder.com/haircollections5/parisblonde6.htm
I know 2 and 3 and simalar but 2 is longend then 3 and 2 is more of a bob. Tell me wich one you guys like best! Thanks!!!
i like 3, too
Okay, over the summer me and this guy named jared "talked" for a week but then he had to get a job so he couldn't talk anymore but we still texted as friends but nothing flirty. We still text, but again, nothing flirty. Well today in class one of my friends caysy sat in the same seat as him and was helping him with a worksheet and every couple of seconds i would see them wispering to eachother. I always see them flirting together. So i was standing right behind them and she still wouldn't stop. Then, they both volenteered to run an errand for the teacher and they were gone forever and i bet the whole time, they were flirting. Then, in the next class she was like "Omg, jared tried on my ring (i guess just to be funny) and he streched it out." I gave her kind of a weird look and she said "Me and jared are just friends so you don't have to worry." Then i was like "Does he know that i like him?" and she said that he had known for two days and he said he dosen't know if he likes me. I don't know if she was telling the truth but i think she was. She said that i should wait until he decides if he likes me. Ever since he knew that i liked him he hasn't hugged me or said hi to me every morning like he used to or talk to me any. I don't think he likes me anymore but i'm not sure. I don't really want to ask him. I don't know how to act around caysy now. If i call her out on it, she might go back to him and say that i keep bugging her about him or she might say to him, "she thinks that we are flirting." I don't want him to think i'm jealous. But if i don't do anything, she might keep flirting and just keep doing it and she might think it dosen't bother me. I have never liked a guy this much and now she does this. I don't know how to act around her anymore. What should i do and how should i act around her. Now, every time i talk to him, he is probably thinking that i am flirting. I don't like guys knowing that i am flirting unless that guy likes me to. But like i said, he talks to her a lot more than me but he just has that flirty personality so i'm not sure if he actually likes her or if he is just flirting just for the heck of it. Please help! Thanks!!
your friend is not a true friend. she is flirting with your crush when she is aware that you like him. don't do ANYTHING through her. do not ask her anything about jared -- she can easily lie.
i'd talk to him myself and ask him if he likes me because you shouldn't trust anyone else, sorry to say. if he says straight up "no" DROP HIM. immediately and let your friend flirt all she wants.
another thing you can do is tell her that it makes you uncomfortable how much she's flirting with him. if she is a true friend, she'll stop.
listen i don't need a speech, or advice that urges me to talk or to be patient or to help. i am borderline and that would just be useless so save it.... in anycase i am generally a well liked person... i used to believe that the world in good, and i FRIGGIN help everyone i know or don't know for that matter and i am super nice to everyone but i've had it. i can't stand my sister and i honestly think i will commit sucide because of her. i have heart burn headaches and stomach pains because of her and i am on high zoloft and lorazepam dosages because of her. there is no changing who she is. i use to think that humans are inherently nice or good but i've been proven wrong! she is the epitome of wickedness. i am from a collective community where family and friends and the whole town is part of your family so there is no escaping this and no way i could just break off and not talk to her ever again... worse yet... my father forced me to go to college with her.. i had to take 3 years of sucky university and when she graduated we moved to a "better" university ... I DIDN'T WANT TO GO! but if she isn't with me then i don't go to college! i hate her i really want to commit suicide! please if anyone has any other advice that could help i am willing to listen just don't say talk (because SHE WONT, she is anti social and i don't want to hit her with a rod or something and go to prison next time she run into me like an angry vengeful bull throwing me to the ground and almost dislocating my shoulder... twice) and she doesn't need help (at least not from me because she is a sick animal who needs psychiatric help and hormonal testing) and don't tell me be patient because she is no longer a teenager. my parent's don't see anything wrong with her because she acts differently, and when they see it they don't care and say it's our issues we should deal with it....yet they force us to live with each other... help me please! she's driven all my friends away it's like i'm hostage and she is the beast keeping me!!
omg love i'm sorry. you neeeeed to calm down. everyone gets really upset sometimes you just need to sit down with a journal & think.
1.) what is so horrible about her?
2.) what specifically has she done to make you this upset at her? [make a list.]
okay, you said you don't want to talk to her. i think you should just keep your space with her AS MUCH as possible. get out of the house, hang out with friends, go to a park, the library to do homework. avoid being near her and talking to her.
when she does talk to you, respond respectfully and DON'T pick fights. if she picks one, avoid it and talk calmly.
sweetie, just because ONE person seems so horrible doesn't mean that the entirety of mankind is born mean!
just think it over. don't involve her; just keep your space. feel free to inbox me.
I have two questions.
1. My ex boyfriend and I were in more of a physical relationship than anything else. He fingered me once and it felt really really good, but no matter how long he did it, I just couldn't quite reach orgasm. What could be something to help put me over the edge?
2. My friend had sex with her boyfriend of 1 year for the first time last week. Since then they have done the deed 2 more times. She said that it just didn't feel good. I'm concerned it will be the same for me. Is sex ever just not good? Was it the guys fault? What's up?
1.) make sure he does foreplay to turn you on before he starts fingering you. same to him -- make sure that you tease him before you start reallyyy going all out.
2.) yes, for females sex can sometimes just not be good because it can either cause pain to the female. or maybe she's just uncomfortable. it can also cause mental stress because like worrying about if you've been keeping up with the pill, condom breaking (although you should NEVER, EVER have sex with just a condom), pregnancies, etc. the overall process is more stressful for the girl.
http://www.cosmeticsolutions.biz/servlet/the-2053/Daggett-%26-Ramsdell-Lightening/Detail
does this product evidently realllllyyy works on lightening the skin?
honestly, i wouldn't count on it. it's only $3. if you don't have to pay for shipping, then buy it and as the person below me said, try it on your hand to make sure that it's not cheap stuff. who knows? it might work!
in your personal experience, do you think thaat concealer sticks work?
if not, what works the best?
any recommendation would be great.
thanks gracias =]
i have dark undereye circles, and concealer sticks are a little awkward for me because when i swipe it under my eye, it can't get to certain parts. it lasts longer though, i can say that much.
i like my liquid concealer. like by truematch it comes in a little bottle and a little brush and it does the job for me. i highly recommend it
my eye has been twitching for days now. it is annoying.. why and what can i do?
you need more magnesium in your diet!
http://www.google.com/search?q=magnesium-rich+foods&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a
What Foods are High in Magnesium?
Green vegetables such as spinach are good sources of magnesium because the center of the chlorophyll molecule (which gives green vegetables their color) contains magnesium. Some beans, peas, nuts, seeds, and whole, unrefined grains are also good sources of magnesium.
You should note that refined grains are generally low in magnesium. When white flour is processed, the magnesium rich germ and bran are removed. Bread made from whole grain wheat flour provides more magnesium than bread made from white refined flour. Tap water can be a source of magnesium, but the amount varies according to the water supply. Water that naturally contains more minerals is described as "hard". "Hard" water usually contains more magnesium than "soft" water.
I have a friend who is really negative...about EVERYTHING. She has even managed to turn the fact that she's studying abroad in EUROPE into a negative situation. Now, she says she doesn't want to go, but she has to because everything has been payed for. There are other traits that make our relationship very difficult and so I am cutting her off as soon as she leaves the country. Until then, how can I subtly remind her or deflect her of negativity. (She is in denial about her not-so-great personality traits, so stating the direct issue will do no good.) For example, she complains on and on about going to Europe, "I don't wanna go. I just can't do it. It's going to be terrible..." I would respond with a nice--so nice it wouldn't bother a hypersensitive person--and subtle hint to change the subject or what-not because of her negativity. I've already told her I'd LOOOOVE to switch places with her!
i know how you feel. some people like that are hard to deal with, hard to talk to. they push their negativity onto you.
wow, you got lucky. the easiest and least painful way off making space (you don't want to cut off the friendship COMPLETELY) is when she goes off to europe.
until then, just deal with her negativity. honestly, the only thing that i find that helps is be negative back. if my friend is like, "ugh my life sucks" then i'm like, "yeah mine too" (i love my life, though.) and she's like, "OMG NO are you serious?! you have loving parents, a nice house, a great education..." and i'm like, "so do you." and she stops. try that. don't just be like, "NO you have all this" cause then she'll just be like "no..."
16/f Alright, sorry this might be a little long. I've been dating this wonderful boy since a month ago yesterday. He's so sweet to me. The bad thing is that he lives nearly four hours away. =/ About a little more than a week into the relationship, he was rushed to the hospital for an inflammed pancreas. One side of his pancreas just stopped working, so he was in there for two weeks. He got out Saturday night I think and ever since he's barely spoken to me at all. I know it's only been a few days. He IMed me the next night and told me how much he missed me and that he promised me he'd make up for lost time. Ever since that, he texted me once. Earlier today, when I signed on AIM, he was on, so I waited for a few minutes to see if he IMed me, and he didn't. I IMed him a half an hour later. he never responded, but went away nearly twenty minutes after I IMed him. I texted him last night because I told him I would call him, but I wouldn't be home until late. I called him and left him a voicemail. He didn't call me back or text me. I know it hasn't been long since he's gotten out of the hospital, but before he went in, he would text me a million times a day, and now he's only texted me once since he's gotten home. I know that he's still recovering, taking it easy on the couch, but if he says he misses me, and then pretty much ignores everything I say to him, I think he's losing interest. I sent him an IM earlier that told him I'm sick of making all these attempts to just be ignored, and that if he wants to talk to me, then he will. I know it's been only a few days, but am I making a big deal out of this? Does it seem like he's losing interest in me?Should I really be upset? What should I do?
sweetie, he's not losing interest in you.
he probably has 230948320932 other things to do, and it would make him feel horrible if you broke up with him out of nowhere. be supportive during the recovery process. see where the relationship lies in a few weeks. he told you he misses you, and he means it. unlike other boyfriends, he seems pretty reliable.
in a couple weeks, explain to him that you were feeling ignored and he will make it up to you just like he promised.
if in two weeks he's STILL ignoring you like this, then break up.
Would this hairstyle be okay on a heart shaped face?
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/keira-knightley-short-hair-photos-09.jpg
personally i think so. the fact that the sides are longer complement the wideness on the person's face, so i think it would look good
my mom has a boyfriend and he is stealing her away from me.wat do i do? by the way im a girl and im 13
signed confused daughter
i'm so sorry. i think you should sit her down and really let her know how you feel. as the person below me suggested, have a day where you do something together and talk to her about it then. you don't want her running off 5 minutes into the conversation. she'll be more conscious of her actions as well as her boyfriend's. it must be hard on her as well, remember.
Which of these is best, I can't decied!
http://www.womensbeautylife.com/gallery/short_hair/short_blonde_simple
http://www.greatestlook.com/veryshorthair/veryshorthairstyle1.html
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/keira-knightley-short-hair-photos-10.html
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/keira-knightley-short-hair-photos-09.jpg
i like the 4th one the most, and then the 3rd, then 1st then 2nd.
i hate the 2nd one cause it looks too masculine. the 3rd & 4th ones are still feminine yet cute, and the 1st one is just weird imo.
ok. first off when i have sex with my boyfriend i always get this really good feeling for about 5 seconds. i dont know if this is an orgasm of not. i have squirt before but not alot. so basically. what exactly is an orgasm (full details) and how long does it take to get it.
an orgasm is a contraction of your vaginal muscles and it feels really good. how long it takes COMPLETELY depends on the woman. it can take 2 minutes or 20 or 40. it all depends on how horny she is. i think you are having an orgasm if it feels really really good. it's as if though you're almost like not in your body anymore like the thoughts running through your mind stop as you have one
you mean like you apply the lipstick frst then BRUSH? or you just brush it with no lipstick or gloss
oh no no no i'm so sorry i was vague. hahah no wonder you're so confused!
question #1:
your lips are totally free of lipstick and lipgloss. if they're chapped, you can brush them and the dead skin cells will come off...
THEN
(question #2):
you can apply one layer of lipstick / lipgloss, DAB OR BLOT IT (don't WIPE it off) and then apply another layer
got it?
are you supposed to make an appointment to get your windows tinted? about how long does it usually take? the car's a mustang if it matters.
you should for safety reasons, and it's also awkward if someone's in the backseat looking out the window and another person catches their eyes.
it usually takesss a few hours, maybe anywhere from 2-5 if they're diligent.
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what color is featured there?
also over here:
http://shop.avon.com/shop/product.asp?pf_id=30364&from=search&find_spec=mark%20pro%20glimmer&camp=200817&dir_delivery=1&rep_delivery=1#shades
THANKS
smashing & poof
how do you pronounce "stephen" lol is it steFen or steVen?
hahaha
spelling doesn't matter. both names are pronounced "STEEVEN" with the "v" sound, not the "f" sound.
we're doing this thing on my volleyball team thats like secret santa except were calling it secret sisters and its going on all season long.
we're supposed to get little presents and just cute little things for our "sister"
the onle problem is that the girl that i have is probably the girl that i like and know the least on team.
i know she likes the color green, reese cups, starbursts and snickers.
any ideas? my budget is fairly low.
you can get her a bucket of candy! you can buy small baskets from nearby supermarkets & grocery stores. even some video stores like blockbuster would sell them :)
what does all of this mean: (love life)
1 on a break
2 open relationship
3 cool-off
did i miss anything? if so, what else are there?
1.) you're still in a committed relationship with someone, but you're "taking a break" because maybe you got in a little fight. it's supposed to be temporary.
2.) you're in a relationship with someone but both parties agree that they can hook up and do things with other people too. the point is so that the people can be close and hang out without restrictions. not serious, really laid back.
3.) i'm not familiar with this, but it sounds similar to taking a break. perhaps a heated fight and one needs time to "cool off."
hope i helped :]
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=open+relationship