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I HATE MY SISTER!
listen i don't need a speech, or advice that urges me to talk or to be patient or to help. i am borderline and that would just be useless so save it.... in anycase i am generally a well liked person... i used to believe that the world in good, and i FRIGGIN help everyone i know or don't know for that matter and i am super nice to everyone but i've had it. i can't stand my sister and i honestly think i will commit sucide because of her. i have heart burn headaches and stomach pains because of her and i am on high zoloft and lorazepam dosages because of her. there is no changing who she is. i use to think that humans are inherently nice or good but i've been proven wrong! she is the epitome of wickedness. i am from a collective community where family and friends and the whole town is part of your family so there is no escaping this and no way i could just break off and not talk to her ever again... worse yet... my father forced me to go to college with her.. i had to take 3 years of sucky university and when she graduated we moved to a "better" university ... I DIDN'T WANT TO GO! but if she isn't with me then i don't go to college! i hate her i really want to commit suicide! please if anyone has any other advice that could help i am willing to listen just don't say talk (because SHE WONT, she is anti social and i don't want to hit her with a rod or something and go to prison next time she run into me like an angry vengeful bull throwing me to the ground and almost dislocating my shoulder... twice) and she doesn't need help (at least not from me because she is a sick animal who needs psychiatric help and hormonal testing) and don't tell me be patient because she is no longer a teenager. my parent's don't see anything wrong with her because she acts differently, and when they see it they don't care and say it's our issues we should deal with it....yet they force us to live with each other... help me please! she's driven all my friends away it's like i'm hostage and she is the beast keeping me!!
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That was quite the rant. Done now? Ready to listen? If not, quit reading this now. You have already said you will not "talk" or be "patient" or "help." That is not the advice I would give you anyway. I am glad to hear that you know, "there is no changing who she is," but your obsession with her is quite abnormal. You judge all the world because of your feelings about her. That is idol worship. She is not all of humanity, nor is she God or god-like. It sounds like your resentment is really aimed toward your parents, and you feel they favor her. Guess what? It happens. Favortism exists and life is not fair. Deal with it. Count your blessings. I wish my parents would have sent me to college and paid for it...and I was not the favorite kid anyway. Who cares? You are not forced to live with your sister or to go to college with her. You are choosing to. That's right. Your parents are not forcing you. They are footing the bill and providing you with a college education...which half the world would sell their souls to get. You sound like a spoiled brat. What is this "collective community" crap? Are you in a cult? Get out of it. Walk. Use your legs. Use your mind and body and energy for something good. Your hate and blame is turning you into a monster. That is what hate and resentment does...it hurts us, not the other person. When you can give up your mission of hate and blame, and own up to the fact that as an adult you have choices and you must make good ones to save yourself, then you will find the courage to really live life. Now quit the melodrama and the suicide talk. You are a young person at the beginning of life and not the end...heck, you have never even experienced life and joy as an independent woman. If you cannot figure out a way to be at peace in this situation, then get a job and start a new life...your own life. No more blaming, hating, or letting others call the shots. You are your own hostage, and accepting this truth is the key to freeing yourself.
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i think you should both seek professional help..
you should be thinking of suicide just because your sister is a B****.. you need to calm down and breath and think about your options wisely i don't know how old you are but if you really can't live with your sister well think of all the things you can do and just get your own place.. just see a professional to help you with all your feelings first
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omg love i'm sorry. you neeeeed to calm down. everyone gets really upset sometimes you just need to sit down with a journal & think.
1.) what is so horrible about her?
2.) what specifically has she done to make you this upset at her? [make a list.]
okay, you said you don't want to talk to her. i think you should just keep your space with her AS MUCH as possible. get out of the house, hang out with friends, go to a park, the library to do homework. avoid being near her and talking to her.
when she does talk to you, respond respectfully and DON'T pick fights. if she picks one, avoid it and talk calmly.
sweetie, just because ONE person seems so horrible doesn't mean that the entirety of mankind is born mean!
just think it over. don't involve her; just keep your space. feel free to inbox me.
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