I see nothing wrong with a woman pleasuring herself. It's not like 90-95% of guys don't do it. And I also don't see anything wrong with a partner wanting to watch the one they love pleasuring themselves. Personally, I think it's sweet.
The people below have given pretty thorough answers about why a guy likes watching a girl. But honestly, everyone probably likes/dislikes it for their own reasons. You'll have to ask him. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
VeNzUeLa answered Thursday August 21 2008, 1:01 pm: Some guys feel that, the ability for a woman to share something SO personal is a turn on, and so that is why they most probably feel it is so 'hot'!
rainbowcherrie answered Thursday August 21 2008, 7:46 am: No one can say why individual people enjoy certain things sexually as everyone has different preferences. However, this is a common fetish because it turns people on to see their partner pleasuring themselves. It is also a chance to see what their partner likes and is an opportunity to 'teach' each other about their bodies. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
Comrade answered Wednesday August 20 2008, 5:03 pm: Different guys have different fetishes, and it just so happens that watching women masterbate is one of the (relatively) common ones. There is no universal reason as to why any given guy would have such a fetish.
Cux answered Wednesday August 20 2008, 4:58 pm: Honestly, it's not hot at all. It's rather sick. I guess to some guys it might be, but you'll only know why it's hot to HIM if you ask HIM. We could give you a general idea, but he will give you the better answer.
babiix answered Wednesday August 20 2008, 4:18 pm: I really am not sure since I am a girl but I would think it is because he can see you pleasuring yourself and that makes him want you and want to pleasure you also he can see your whole body and your to you fingering yourself instead of just seeing your face or your vagina. I hope I helped.:) [ babiix's advice column | Ask babiix A Question ]
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