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sex ed
I have two questions.
1. My ex boyfriend and I were in more of a physical relationship than anything else. He fingered me once and it felt really really good, but no matter how long he did it, I just couldn't quite reach orgasm. What could be something to help put me over the edge?
2. My friend had sex with her boyfriend of 1 year for the first time last week. Since then they have done the deed 2 more times. She said that it just didn't feel good. I'm concerned it will be the same for me. Is sex ever just not good? Was it the guys fault? What's up?
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1. try having him play with your clit while he's fingering you or have him rub only your clit and maybe have him eat you out.
2. yes sometimes sex can be not as good to the girl, if that happens try some new positions and try to go in and out slower or faster and it might feel better I hope I helped:)
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1.) make sure he does foreplay to turn you on before he starts fingering you. same to him -- make sure that you tease him before you start reallyyy going all out.
2.) yes, for females sex can sometimes just not be good because it can either cause pain to the female. or maybe she's just uncomfortable. it can also cause mental stress because like worrying about if you've been keeping up with the pill, condom breaking (although you should NEVER, EVER have sex with just a condom), pregnancies, etc. the overall process is more stressful for the girl.
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