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Ok! I really do like my boyfriend alot!!! But, when he wants to kiss me I get scared, I have never kissed anyone yet! I just am really scared what should I do, I don't want him to think I don't like him? HELP
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hello kissing !
well if you like your boyfriend alot, then kissing him shouldnt be a problem. i know i was scared for my first kiss, but when it happened i was completely calm.
heres the thing, when he leans in to kiss you, watch to see which way his head is going to go. if you close your eyes before seeing that, you could cause a collision.
Once you see which way he is going, you lean the other way, close your eyes, and let your lips find his. If it makes you more comfortable, you can keep your eyes open until your lips touch his, then close your eyes.
hope that helps !
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I was in gymnastics from the time I was five to fouteen, it was my whole world. I pretty much lived and breathed gymnastics. A couple years ago my parents made me quit because of my health/grades (I had thyroid desiese) and now it's too late to go back.
When I quit I gained about twenty-five - pounds really fast and now I have strech marks. Anyway, I miss it so much! I'm doing cheerleading now, but it doesnm't even compare. I was in level 8. I was already doing olympic training and sometimes I just feel like killing myself, I miss the gym so bad.
I get jealous of anyone who's in gymnastics and I wish I could go back, but I know I can't. How do I get over it, and move on? I get so depressed sometimes and I don't want to. Besides, I knew I was unhappy in gymnastics. Even though I loved it to death, I missed so many great opportunities and I should be focusing on school.
I'll be graduating in three years and I want to go to Yale, so I wouldn't of been able to continue gymnastics anyway. I just want to know how to stop missing it so much. I regret letting my parents take me out, because I keep wondering 'what if?' What if I had stayed? Would I have had a chance in the olympics? What if I had gotten better grades.
I know every gymnast has to quit sometime, because evntually you get to old and your chance is up, but how do they deal with there whole life just being taken away from them. My gym was like my second home. I was there five hours a day, and I just miss everything about it...I don't know how to deal anymore.
Does anybody have any stories like mine, having to quit something you loved more than anything in the world? It hasn't even gotten easier after two years.
I just really need to know how to deal, I really need advice, as you can tell.
Thanks to anyone who answers.
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Dear, everything i loved taken away from me,
i went to google and researched your problem and i understand your parents reasonings to do what they did. To be honest, i answered this question because i know what its like, i used to be a hard-core horse back rider, and i was showing and everything when i messed up my knee and havent had the strength to return.
its been three years for me, and when i watch shows or movies with horses in them, i still get the old feeling of regret and pain, but i know that if i went back now, i could endanger myself.
listen, i know this is difficult, it was for me, but what i did, was i involved myself in sports and activites that i could participate in without injury and i did them all until i found one i loved-music. and i was feeling like you, until i found this hobby. Im not saying to run out right now and get an instrument and start playing, and im not trying to force music on you. But what i am saying is that i involved myself until i found something i loved-not as much- and tried my best in it.
i hope this helps you, i really do feel your pain, and i know that if you try to make yourself busy, and try new things, you may find something else you enjoy alot, and it might help. hey, you could even try coaching gym?
anyways i hope this helps you, i really do.
Best of luck,
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