Ok! I really do like my boyfriend alot!!! But, when he wants to kiss me I get scared, I have never kissed anyone yet! I just am really scared what should I do, I don't want him to think I don't like him? HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? we-help-u answered Monday August 13 2007, 9:55 am: hello kissing !
well if you like your boyfriend alot, then kissing him shouldnt be a problem. i know i was scared for my first kiss, but when it happened i was completely calm.
heres the thing, when he leans in to kiss you, watch to see which way his head is going to go. if you close your eyes before seeing that, you could cause a collision.
Once you see which way he is going, you lean the other way, close your eyes, and let your lips find his. If it makes you more comfortable, you can keep your eyes open until your lips touch his, then close your eyes.
hope that helps !
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Derfel answered Friday March 11 2005, 11:07 am: Well the first thing I’ll say is you should only ever do what you feel you want to do, don’t feel that you HAVE to kiss him. The thing is I’m almost certain you do want to but your scared – it’s your first time, what will happen? What if you can’t do it? What if you make a fool of your self? These are all totally normal fears that every one goes through. The best way to over come them? – Just go for it! It does just come naturally and afterwards you’ll feel fantastic. Talk through your worries with your boy friend, you know that if he’s the one for you he’ll be patient and understanding but he does need to no why your so reluctant to kiss him. For more advice on the ‘technical’ side of kissing drop a message in my inbox but trust me its dead easy! Good luck
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ArtemisC answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:57 am: Well just tell him you're not ready for that yet. If he doesn't understand then he doesn't like you that much anyway. I'm not trying to be mean I'm just speaking from personal experience K [ ArtemisC's advice column | Ask ArtemisC A Question ]
ilovekeith123 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:36 am: just do it. .it's easy. .and if you's not ready you have to tell him. . but i know what you mean (you'll sound stupid) right? well wrong he will understand.
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sexy_as_fcuk answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:34 am: The only advice I can give is not to worry. Just relax. Enjoy it you will find it just comes naturally. Or just let him know how you are feeling, he'll understand. [ sexy_as_fcuk's advice column | Ask sexy_as_fcuk A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:23 am: ok first start off with a little kiss, like on the cheek or a peck on the lips. and everytime he goes to kiss you do the same thing until you feel comfortable in giving him a more serious kiss. if he ever asks why you dont kiss him on the lips or the way he wants you to, jut tell him your not ready, your working up, or sumthing like that. i hope it all goes well [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
sk8erdude answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:20 am: i was really scared to but i just went for it and if ur boyfriend has already kissed alot of girls than i think he will understand and if he hasnt then i dont think it will be bad [ sk8erdude's advice column | Ask sk8erdude A Question ]
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